Coffee and Cocktails at the Casa

Thursday, August 13, 2026

Today it’s time for another edition of the Global Writing Challenge and the theme is “a day in the life”.

How fun is this? I love getting to hear how others frame their days.

I last did this with Joyce from Hodgepodge in June, so it hasn’t been too long ago. I also did a Monday! After reading it myself – oh my gosh – we even ate a very similar dinner on that Monday in June!

If you missed my previous Global Writing Challenge posts, I talked about Chasing Sunshine here and Dancing here. Someone in the group chooses the monthly theme and we all interpret it as we will.

A little backstory if you are new to Coffee and Cocktails at the Casa. I think I’m going to need to change my blog name. I am still drinking lots of coffee, but I might need to change “cocktails” to collagen and creatine. Just a little perimenopausal/menopausal humor.

First off, I was a high school Spanish teacher for 31 years from age 22 until age 53. I am a wife and a mom of twins who are almost 24. I retired last year and became an empty nester pretty much all in one fell swoop. My twins graduated from college in 2024 but moved home for a bit over a year. My widowed mother passed away in early 2025 and I spent the first half of my first retiree year managing the sale of her estate and the sale of her home. I also really had a hard time with being totally parentless. My Dad died in 2018 and we were very close. My husband is still working, so I am like a stay-at-home dog mom now. Honestly, I feel a little aimless right now and I am considering a part-time job or joining of some things. I feel lucky and blessed to have had this time at home to process all the changes in my life.

I have a loose weekly structure and routine. I chose a Monday for my “Day in the Life” which is my most “at home” day of the week. I try to do laundry, clean after the weekend (not that we are partying), pay bills, make phone calls, plan out the rest of the week, and do some meal prep. I also allow myself reading time and a short nap. I walk my dog a few times a day and I always sit down to eat my meals – no standing! I love a Monday!

This was Monday, August 10th:

My husband’s alarm goes off at 4:30 for him to be at the gym by 5:00. He is part of the 0500 club at the gym which is an informal group of crazy people. I usually sleep right through his alarm but on this day, I woke up. Argh. I stayed in bed until 5:27 and gave up trying to get back to sleep. I am trying to go to the gym at least 3 mornings a week, but at the more civilized time of 6:15.

I turned on the patio lights. I actually really like getting up early. Eddie Otis (our chocolate labrador) and I are waiting on Tom to get back from the gym.

Tom returns home and Eddie Otis acts like he hasn’t seen him in months. It has really only been a bit over an hour. EO sleeps in our bed with us. They start their morning walk around the school yard behind our house.

I leave for the gym now.

As I mentioned, my dad passed away in 2018, and I believe in “pennies from Heaven” where a loved one leaves you a penny as a sign. I “told” my dad about the penny no longer being produced and “told” him that he would need to leave higher denomination of coins. I found a dime in June and found a quarter on this day. It made me smile.

I like going at 6:15 because the 0500 Club is gone and there are very few people there. It’s like the lull before the next wave. I don’t want to talk. I do say “hi” to the dad of twin girls I taught. He is really nice.

I return home to my beloved coffee with my beloved frothed creamer.

Tom heads to get ready for work and then Eddie Otis is stuck with his non-favorite human.

Oops – I forgot about some Sunday laundry. I don’t usually do it on Sunday. I must re-wash.

I read my favorite blogs and prepare my own blog for the next day.

I get up and pack Tom’s breakfast and lunch and he leaves at 7:30. Eddie Otis and I hug him good-bye. I’m very trad wife now. When I worked, I always left way before Tom.

Somebody is ready for walk number two as I am switching the laundry over.

School just started a week ago and we are figuring out our new routine. They start at 7:30 and we have a very short window of the playground being free. We usually walk around 8:15. The kiddies start coming out around 8:30! I heard one kid yell, “I remember that dog!”

We are very lucky to have what is essentially a little park behind our house.

We return home and I look at my agenda. I still keep a paper planner and I love it. I can’t wait to buy my next planner. Nerd alert! Each day I take what is in my agenda and put it in list form on my notepad. I love a list! I love crossing things off a list!

Tom showed me a video of some high protein potato rolls so I attempt to make them. The sweet Grandpa looking guy in the video must have been AI because my rolls look nothing like his!

I cut some strawberries that we need to use.

I try to always run the dishwasher at night so I unload the dishwasher.

I eat my breakfast between 10 and 11. I ate a bit earlier today because I was getting out of the house for an errand fairly early.

I made 3 Amylu chicken breakfast sausages, breakfast potatoes, and cottage cheese egg – I spray Pam in a Pryex and crack one egg, add liquid egg whites, 1/4 cup cottage cheese, spices and then microwave for about 1.5 minutes and add another 30 seconds if necessary. I added a slice of very thin cheese.

I shower in the am and at night. I don’t always wash my hair but I at least do my body. I do a body shower and get dressed.

Eddie Otis and I do another very quick walk because it is so freaking hot and humid and like I said, I needed to run out and do an errand. He knows that he gets another walk after I get ready, so he was waiting on me.

Doh! I went to the tailor to pick stuff up and they are closed on Mondays!

Kroger is in the same shopping center, and I needed a couple of things. I always push a cart in if someone has left it out in the lot (not in the cart corral) because I need the good karma.

Yup, I did it! I know it’s only August!

Now, it’s really too early for Reese’s pumpkins! I did not buy any!

I had several nice exchanges with employees and shoppers in Kroger. Are you chatty? I think I have one of those faces where people talk to you.

My son wanted to come over to get some things, and I offered to make pancakes! He had a specific time window, so I had worked around that.

Jack stayed for a couple of hours and we chatted. He is off on Mondays and stops by some of those Mondays. After he left, it was already almost 2:00! I made myself a little snack plate for lunch (forgot a photo) and read my book. I then fell asleep for just a bit. Oops – checking my phone record, my best friend called me at 1:59 and we chatted for a bit before I read. She had called me just as my son was arriving, so we didn’t get to talk so I texted her and she called back. We talk almost every day. We met at freshman orientation for college, roomed together for most of college, and roomed together after college. She introduced me to my husband!

I finished this book. I would call it chick lit with depth. It did deal with grief, but I enjoyed the story.

I got up and started making dinner. It was originally going to be a crockpot recipe, but I didn’t start it in the morning so I made it on the stovetop. It was partly a recipe and partly made up. I sauteed onions and used some chicken broth, green chilies, and some of a jar of salsa verde. I love salsa verde! I cooked chicken breasts and jasmine rice. I opened a can of Ranch style beans and made bowls for dinner. As I was cooking, my sister Molly called. She is a first-grade teacher and is teacher-tired right now, but she wanted to tell me something.

The final product:

Eddie Otis and I work his “puzzle” while we wait for Tom to get home around 5:45. He called me on his way home. He either texts or calls at the same time every day as he is leaving.

Daddy!!!!! Someone is really excited. I let him run to greet Tom.

I added sour cream and mixed mine up and added some tortilla chips. I loved this dinner if I do say so myself.

I bought a new pedometer that has no app and no charging needs. I am really enjoying it. I decided to take it off after dinner so I could shower. I didn’t do as well on steps this day due to the extreme heat. We didn’t walk as long as we usually do. I don’t have the clock correct. It was 6:29 our time.

I took an early shower. Tom and I usually watch a show after dinner but on this night we didn’t. I showered and did a bit of straightening and then went to the basement with a small bowl of ice cream and some Real Housewives. Yes, it is so stupid.

I was so tired from getting up earlier, so I feel asleep and eventually made myself go up for bed. I am asleep most nights by 9:30 or 10.

And that’s a day!

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Amy

Wednesday, August 12, 2026

It’s Wednesday and that means it’s Hodgepodge with Joyce day!

Before I start, many of you know and love Jenn. Last weekend, her love sadly passed away. Please keep her in your prayers.

1. I saw a meme on Instagram that went like this-‘The movie Dirty Dancing came out in 1987 and was set in 1963, so if remade in 2026 it would be set in 2002. Now I need a little lie down in a dark room for a while.” 

Time is crazy isn’t it? So…what were you up to in the year 2002? 

First, of all, I was 16 in 1987. I loved that movie. I still love it now. Two words – Patrick Swayze. My sister Molly always says, “I carried the watermelon” from the movie whenever she has watermelon.

2002 was a really big year! I had been married for two years and had been teaching at the school from which I retired recently for two years. In January of 2002, Tom and I were walking our beloved first dog Archie at the dog park and we decided to start trying for a baby. We did not start right away at the dog park for clarification. In February I was pregnant and took a test before leaving for a West Virginia ski trip. I skiied! Can you even believe that? I don’t think I really believed the pregnancy test because it was from The Dollar Tree.

My twins were due in November but came early in September and that was a crazy rest of the year, to say the least.

2. “Me? I’m scared of everything…” What’s something that scares you that you’d like to try anyway? 

I would pee my pants, but I think a tethered hot air balloon would be an experience of a lifetime. Notice that I said “tethered”.

3. Watermelon-yay or nay? Which melon is your favorite-watermelon, cantaloupe, honeydew. Of the watermelon food/beverages listed which would you say yes to…

watermelon salsa~watermelon feta salad~watermelon sorbet~

a watermelon Jolly Rancher~a watermelon margarita 

Watermelon is my favorite of these but it doesn’t have much flavor in my opinion. I don’t eat the other melons. I am anti-melon. I’d rather drink a big glass of water. He he. I do, however, love pineapple, but that wasn’t a choice. I craved fresh pineapple during my pregnancy in 2002! Now, if the watermelon is perfectly ripe and the perfect color, I do enjoy it.

I have had watermelon flavored cocktails, and they just don’t have much flavor, in my opinion.

I would go with the watermelon feta salad since I love feta.

4. August 12th is National Middle Child Day. Are you a middle child? If not, where do you fall in the birth order in your family of origin? Do you think this has influenced your personality? Elaborate. 

I think birth order and how it affects personality is fascinating and I think a kid’s role in the family is put upon them by the parents without them intending to usually. My sister Kate is the middle but if Molly hadn’t been born, she would have been the baby. So, that is interesting to think about. Kate is liked by everyone. She is a peacekeeper. She is the most go with the flow of all of us. She had the most friends growing up and I would say was the most “popular”. I admire how Kate can focus on one thing and be in the moment where I am often thinking about the “next thing” and sometimes don’t live in the moment.

I am the oldest and I definitely am a true “oldest in the family” personality. I think the oldest has a lot of responsibility and it can be hard on them.

I also think birth order in marriage is interesting. Tom is the oldest and I am the oldest. An oldest and a baby sometimes struggle is what I have heard.

5. Would you rather talk to everyone at a crowded party for a short time, or have a significant conversation with two people? Explain. 

I think at a party I would rather make my rounds to everyone.

I love to have a significant conversation with two people but that doesn’t seem appropriate at a crowded party. I definitely don’t want to have a shouting conversation! I also don’t want to be anti-social sitting in a corner in a deep conversation with only two people. See? Classic over-thinker, oldest daughter. I am worried about everyone feeling included.

6. Insert your own random thought here. 

I’m out of random thoughts!

Amy

Tuesday, August 11, 2026

Hello! Well, last week I don’t even think I bothered with real clothes from Monday through Wednesday. It was athletic shorts and tees to run errands and walk the dog. I’m at the point in the summer where I’m over the heat, over the clothes, and over the season! This is pretty typical for me in August.

By Thursday, I was ready to put something nicer on. I paired my fun summer skort from Old Navy with my newer white J.Crew Factory blouse. Both of these turned out to be excellent purchases. I get compliments on this skort every time I wear it. It’s just so fun. And, the blouse, it’s just perfect. One of my dear blog readers commented that I should get a striped one. It’s $50! That’s a lot for this born and bred bargain hunter, but when you consider price per wear and just how perfect it is…

The buckle sandals are probably 5 years old from Target. As a general rule I don’t let myself buy Target shoes because they are usually impulse and get donated. These turned out to be a good purchase, too.

Friday, I paired my other Old Navy skort from this season (orange gauze) with a white tee and my kimono. FYI – I learned that flowy kimonos make me hot. I took it off for the car and then I couldn’t keep it on after I got out of the car! It’s just fussy, too. Did I ever tell you about the time I was at school rushing to use the restroom and zipped it in my jeans and had to be rescued by a co-worker who had to rip it and then I had to take it to the tailor to get it fixed and I was late to class? Yeah, that’s typical Amy.

For the movie theater, I wore flip flops, cut offs, a white tee shirt with a graphic, and my striped button up.

I’m definitely starting to think about fall and transitioning to fall. Are you? I did not purchase anything from the Nordstrom Anniversary sale, but looking kind of gets you in the mood for fall.

I also look at Instagram and get inspiration.

I love this look even though it does say “teacher”. I’m trying not to dress like a teacher now! I have brown knit pants, I have a chambray, and I have a scarf.

I take inspiration from retailer ads. I used to do this from magazines. Do you snap screenshots of outfits you want to copy? I think we get bogged down with trying to be exact, but it really doesn’t have to be an exact copy. Your version might be better!

I love the white/off white blouse (I don’t have an exact but I have something similar), and I have dark jeans (not exactly like this) and I have black Dansko Mary Janes. I think the jeans need to be a little shorter to show some ankle for this look. I think her burgundy color is better, but I’m going to use what I have.

I think I would only do this look until Labor Day -white on white with tan flip flops. I don’t have a jean jacket but a chambray button up would work.

I know they say the old rules about white after Labor Day don’t apply, but after August, I feel like white pants, anything too tropical, and gauzy gear all look too summery for me and where I live. You may feel differently and that’s ok. I like to pull those things from my closet or from my rotation. I’m tired of those things anyhow at the end of August.

Dark wide leg jeans, a white blouse, and flip flops:

I found a new IG account that belongs to a professor living in Copenhagen.

Do you want to know what all the cool girls are wearing in Copenhagen? Honestly, it hadn’t crossed my mind. However, did you know the Danish are some of the happiest people on Earth? Maybe it’s due to the “cool girls”?

Apparently, they wear baggy jeans with flip flops. Ok. done. I will try this and be cool.

They wear white tops with jeans and flip flops. I like the pop of the red handbag. I don’t have one, but that’s ok.

Look for me to try some of these outfits!

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Amy

Monday, August 10, 2026

It’s Monday and I’m linking up with Sarah and Holly to share a bit about my weekend.

I have some people in my life going through some pain right now and a couple of difficult situations in my family, so honestly, that was on my mind all weekend. Today’s post is going to be pretty short.

I really think the heat is getting to me. I just hate this humid sticky weather so much and it puts me in a bad mood.

Eddie Otis and I missed our playground window both days (Thursday and Friday) adjusting to the elementary school being back in session. Thursday was the first day of school and school is supposed to start at 7:30. The car rider line was still going around 8:00 and EO didn’t like all the cars and didn’t want to walk with them there. We tried again at 8:30 and the kiddies were already playing on the playground. Friday, the car rider line was still going at 8:00 and there was a guy weed eating (employed by the school district) by our fence for a really long time, so EO would have been bothered by that, too. By the time he left, the kiddies were already playing on the playground.

Asking for a friend, is it normal to already need a recess after being at school for 30 minutes to an hour? Anyway, we walked in the neighborhood instead and it was fine. Yes, I do realize that our walking green space belongs to the school; we have just enjoyed our summer routine.

I read this book quite a bit this weekend. I really like it. It deals with grief, but it’s done in a way that I’m ok with, I guess.

On Friday afternoon, I wanted to visit a favorite street to go to a couple of places and I spontaneously asked Mason if he wanted to meet me there after he got off work. He did! He gets off at 3:00 usually.

We shared some breadsticks and then I took pizza and salad home for dinner for Tom and I. Mason hadn’t had lunch and ordered a stromboli that he said would last him at least three meals.

After Mason and I said goodbye, I ran into a friend on the sidewalk who is going through a very hard time. I think it was meant to be that I ran into her. She’s been on my mind. It was great to talk to her and I’m hoping that she will let me bring her something this week.

I started this and I’m loving it!

My nail saga – I think the damaged part (from gel) is grown out, but they are still very flimsy and break a lot. Here is my Kur Londontown original illuminating nail concealer with two coats. I do this about every 5 days or so.

Saturday was super hot and Tom had wanted to see a movie in the afternoon after our chores were done. We invited Mason after work and he said yes again.

Tom was showing scenes from Super Troopers 1. It was silly and funny and what I needed.

We had sandwiches and Trader Joe’s frozen fries for dinner.

Sunday, I drove on my favorite street and it was good to see nature!

We had a little boat ride and brunch with our friends…

The next Currently will be Wednesday, September 2nd and Tanya is letting me use her graphic! Many of us do the Hodgepodge on the same day, so this is perfect. September’s themes will be: Adjusting (to), Baking/Cooking, Decorating, Balancing, and Learning. Thank you to Laura for helping me with these and I apologize that I forgot to post them last week at the end of the August Currently – oops! Interpret these any way you wish!

Isn’t this cute? I really need to try my hand at making cute graphics!

What did you do this weekend? What do you do when life is hard? What do you do for friends when they are in need?

Amy

Friday, August 7. 2026

How was your week? We had some awesome weather after I complained about our weekend weather – lol. It’s time to link up with Andrea and Erika to share some of my favorites and I’d love to hear yours, too.

One of our local news stations posted this so I’m not just being grumpy – it was the 7th wettest summer since 1872!

I had to laugh at my little blogging buddy:

I’m not a big sock in the summer person, but I find myself reaching for these thin ruffle socks this summer. I really like them.

I finished this book this week and really enjoyed the story! Check it out if you like stories set in Paris. I think it was loosely tied to the stories of Hunchback of Notre Dame/Beauty and the Beast, too.

Then, I started and finished this little story this week. It involves Nashville country music singers and songwriters so that is kind of fun. It was pretty spicy.

Then, I picked up a new stack from the library this week:

Not favorites…

I couldn’t get into this. Maybe I should have seen it when it was in the theater?

I couldn’t get into this, either…

Both were free on HULU, so NBD. Should I try them again? Sometimes you have to be in a certain mood!

I really like this brand of hand sanitizer and spraying rather than squirting.

Not a favorite. Twizzlers forever. I threw these away.

I loved Old Navy’s spring and summer stuff, but this week I went in just because I was next door and I hate their fall stuff. Maybe online will be different, but the in-store stuff just looked horrible to me. I guess that saves me money!

I was next door in the Kohl’s Sephora looking for a certain product. They didn’t have it – boo. Is Kohl’s where middle aged women’s dreams go to die? That store makes me sad. No offense to anyone who has a fat stack of Kohl’s cash.

I picked one of my two hydrangea blooms to bring inside. I felt a bit bad, but it’s a bloom I can’t see from my yard. I have to go outside my fence to see it.

We’ve had some good walks this week. Tom bought this new harness, and it looks like he is a support dog. He also picked the patch with “Mama says I’m special” so that is weird. I honestly think I’m EO’s support human when Tom isn’t around. He is so nervous. He got scared of someone’s pig lawn ornament.

I surprised Tom with his very own personal pan pizza for dinner one night this week. He smiled and enjoyed it.

Eddie Otis and I had a field trip to Mason’s leathergoods shop. It is dog friendly. I would give EO a B-. He licked some leather but didn’t try to steal anything. They have dog treats and a water bowl for dogs.

I made Ted Lasso “biscuits” for Wednesday night’s premiere of the new season. They are shortbread and delish.

We have a new Chipotle with a “Chipotlane” which is their term for drive thru. I ordered it and picked it up and it was very efficient.

I got a kid’s meal for me and a bowl for Tom and we could have just split the bowl easily. I have only had Chipotle two times now!

Who is ready for a PSL?

I might go on that very day just because I can! I also plan to buy the Chobani pumpkin creamer soon.

I loved this:

I am definitely “normal maxxing”. I think social media is so bad because people forget what “normal” is. People feel less than when they can’t “keep up” and it’s not normal what we see on the social medias. I am proud of myself for eating leftovers and using them up. I have had zero packages arrive this week! I am going to have to disagree on the reading one book a month is plenty. Hehe.

EO and I have a friend named Skyler. She knows that I have treats in my pouch.

This face:

And, finally yesterday I had a big day to celebrate my district’s first day of school. I took myself to Con Huevos (where I also went last year):

I ran into a college friend there which was fun!

I had a happy hour with a former student which was quite perfect for this day’s plans, too.

We had goat cheese and…

cocktails with dry ice!

How fun!

What was a favorite of yours this week?

Amy

Thursday, August 6, 2026

I love being an aunt! I’m so lucky! Lena is my youngest niece and it’s hard to believe she is now a junior!

I recently asked Lena for her schedule, and we texted about her classes. I was happy to see that she has Spanish 3 which was one of the classes I taught and loved to teach. Muy bien, Lena!

This is Lena:

We want Lena to be like this:

Not like this:

I did get Lena’s approval for those photos and this post, by the way!

Lena is quick witted and very smart! She is also social! I think she wants to be a teacher, but I am sure she could change her mind. She reminds me of someone who shares the same middle name with her, you know? She is Lena Elizabeth and I am Amy Elizabeth.

Here are some things I was going to write up just for her, and I decided just to turn it into a blog post!

• Always greet your teacher. Say hello, good morning, or compliment something. It’s not fake. It’s common courtesy and helps you build rapport with your teacher. Do not walk into a classroom with headphones on. It shouldn’t be allowed and it probably isn’t anymore. I would often say “good morning” and a kid would say, “what?” because they were allowed pods and earphones. I would reply that they only get one “good morning” from me. I wasn’t going to repeat it. Lol.

• If you have the choice in seating, always pick near the front. It helps. If you have assigned seats, sit there and don’t complain. If there is ever a time you can’t see something, the teacher will let you move.

• Your junior year teachers are the ones who will be writing your recommendations most likely. You will need them too quickly into senior year for those teachers to get to know you. I always say that you should start thinking who you will ask and make sure it is a teacher who can speak about you as a student for at least a semester.

• Offer to help your teacher if you can see they need help. Pick up papers, pass out papers, do whatever you can offer. It gets you out of your seat which is helpful and it feels nice to help, too.

• Always help your classmates if they drop something, too.

• If someone wants to talk to you while the teacher is talking, smile and give the universal “hold on just a minute signal”.

• To avoid peer pressure, blame your parents. Example: “I have to go to this study session because my parents are making me.” Other kids understand this and I was always ok with being the “bad guy” as a parent. I do think peer pressure might not be as big of a deal now because this generation seems better than mine at letting people be who they are – perhaps?

• Junior year really is what your college acceptance and scholarships will be based upon.

• Join a few clubs, go to the meetings, look to hold a leadership role if you can. It looks good and helps you to feel part of something bigger than yourself.

• Part-time jobs are great, but your main job is student. Treat it like a job because it will pay off more than your part-time rate will if you are going to college.

• Make sure your counselor knows you. They have so many students so it’s on you to make appointments or use the appropriate channels to get face time.

• Write down important dates or have a good system in place. When is the school wide ACT?

• Do not make a habit of going out on school nights. It’s just not good for you. Attend some games and support your classmates, but weeknights are for homework, studying, and getting to bed at a decent time.

• Eat well. Drink lots of water. Do not do the crazy caffeine energy drinks. You will crash. Do not start your day with sugar. Try to buy healthy things you can eat for breakfast and keep an emergency snack in your backpack. Breakfast sandwiches with protein or breakfast burritos are great and are fun to make on Sunday afternoon.

• Keep gum, mints, Kleenex, hand sanitizer, extra pens and pencils, etc. Offer them to classmates if appropriate. This is a nice way to start up a conversation if you feel socially awkward, too.

• Be early. Do not wait until the last minute to come to class.

• Raise your hand and ask questions. Chances are that someone else has the same question and will appreciate you asking.

• Try not to live in the negative. It’s easy to complain about a class or a teacher but it keeps you in that negative mindset, too. Try not to join in the bashing with classmates.

• You don’t have to like your teachers. It’s nice if you do, but it’s just like your boss at work. You won’t always like them. You just have to find out what they want from you and do it. Do you want an A in the class? Rise up to the standard that teacher asks for.

• Try not to confront a teacher with a personal issue while they are teaching or while they are preparing for class. If you have a personal concern, it’s best to email the teacher and let them respond at a time that is good for them. I had some students blindside me with things that would have been better in an email. I would often say, “can you email me that request?” I sometimes had them write it down on a post it, blaming myself for only remembering things if I had a list.

• Your teachers are humans. They have bad days, they are tired, they are making a million decisions a day, they are teaching a lot of students. Just remember that.

• Lay out everything you can the night before. Make your mornings as easy as possible.

• Figure out just how long you need to get ready. Time yourself. It’s really eye-opening and helpful!

• Don’t wear pajamas to school! Spirit days are one thing, but pajamas at school bring pajama energy.

• Get enough sleep! I just heard this and it makes so much sense. If you want 8 hours of sleep, you need your body in the bed for 9 hours.

• Do not let your phone distract you. Consider getting an alarm to use that isn’t your phone. Keep your phone charging overnight and don’t get distracted by it while you are trying to get ready or study.

What have I forgotten?

I hope Lena has such a great year! If you have a junior in your life, I hope they also have a great year!

Amy

Wednesday, August 5, 2026

Well, it turned August on Saturday, and my mind is still blown! I keep saying this but I lived on a school schedule from the time I was 5 years old and it’s still hard to wrap my head around NOT living life on a school calendar, you know?

Thank you again to Laura for helping me come up with my present participles – once a teacher, always a teacher. Lol.

In my part of the country school starts as early as the end of July. I’m not kidding when I say I already saw first day of school photos on social media last week. My city’s public school district starts tomorrow.

SAVORING

I am savoring the good parts of summer. I am using up sunscreens and using up anything I deem a summer scented product. I need to savor the seasonal summer foods, too. Everything is so green from all the rain. I love shorts, t-shirts, flip flops, and how easy it is to dress in the summer, but I can also tell I am starting to yearn for the early fall transitional pieces.

WRAPPING UP

I am wrapping up summer themed books this month. I have a few more on request at the library so we will see if I can read those. I am hoping to wrap up some decluttering areas that I have been working on, too.

I also want to wrap up summer outfits and wear my summer things before I can’t anymore as I mentioned under “savoring”.

PREPARING

I am preparing to hear the kiddies on the playground and the school traffic. I am hoping the traffic around town will be lessened during the school hours once everyone is back in school, so that will be a benefit. I am preparing to have cars parked on my street at the pickup times.

REMEMBERING

I would say this was 3rd grade:

It’s hard not to be nostalgic for my school days and my childrens’ school days. Gosh, I loved having kids in elementary school. I have so many great memories of their school days and it seemed like elementary would never end. Middle school was way better than I expected and then high school was special because the three of us were in the same school together for four years.

First day of freshman year with mom:

I didn’t get to teach them until their senior year. By then, they were mature enough to handle it!

Personally, I loved school so much. There is a lot wrong with the way we do school, but I thrived. I loved answering questions, being the center of attention (when appropriate), learning new things, getting to know my teachers, and the routine and structure. I loved the competition with the boys, especially. I wonder how I would have done at a girls’ school without the boys? I came home from school each day and taught my dolls and stuffed animals what I learned, or I taught my sisters what I learned. I guess it’s not a big surprise that I became a teacher.

ORGANIZED

I am working my way through each and every space of my home, really. I am doing pretty well. I want to be more organized although many of my friends and family say I am already very organized. I want to have a place for everything in my home and I want everything to be either meaningful or useful. That’s a tall order!

Please link up here for Currently!

And, now for Hodgepodge with Joyce…

1. What’s something on your August calendar you’re looking forward to? Or dreading if that’s easier to answer. 

I don’t have much on my August calendar. I am looking forward to some boat rides and some more summering! I am dreading August weather, but she started out pretty nicely with some really unseasonably cool days!

2. August 5th is National Oyster Day…do you partake? How do you feel about pearls? 

I am not a fan of oysters! I recently went to a bubbles and oysters happy hour and just had the bubbles part. I love pearls. I think they are a classic. I have a couple of strands. I also have some faux pearl earrings.

3. Tell us about a time when you felt like ‘the world was your oyster’. 

I have felt like that since retiring! I have also struggled with lack of structure and purpose, so it hasn’t all been an oyster world. It’s also different when your husband isn’t retired yet.

4. Trip Advisor lists seven islands in the US that require no passport (for US citizens). If you’re answering today from outside the US you’ll still need to produce yours. An-y-way, have you been to any of the seven? Let’s pretend you get an all expense paid trip to one this month…which one do you choose and why? 

Catalina Island California~Martha’s Vineyard Massachusetts~Mackinac Island Michigan~Key West Florida~South Padre Island Texas~or Kauai Hawaii

I have only been to Mackinac Island and Key West. I would love to go to Catalina and Martha’s the most. I think the weather would be fabulous in both, and I like seeing places I haven’t seen before. My sister honeymooned in Kauai. I also want to go back to Mackinac with Tom because he hasn’t been. Key West was one of our family’s favorite trips. Our twins were in elementary school and we surprised them by driving to Orlando and going to Harry Potter World at Universal, then drove to do a swamp boat ride in the Florida Everglades, then drove to all the keys and stopped at most of them to do activities, then ended in Key West where we stayed for a few days.

5. Sylvia Plath is credited with the following- 

“August rain: the best of the summer gone, and the new fall not yet born. The odd uneven time.”

Agree or disagree? In other words, how do you feel about this month? 

Like I said, I don’t have much on the calendar for this month. August has always been a month to “get through”. The weather is typically unbearable, and, in the past, I just had to start school very close to the first of August with getting my room set up and getting ready for the kids to come. It was a tiring month of learning new routines and being exhausted and hot. I think I need to do an August Bucket List of things I want to do before summer officially ends.

I agree with “the best of summer gone, and the new fall not yet born”. Well, I would have agreed with that while in the school schedule, but I really have a lot of summer left if you consider Labor Day the end point.

6. Insert your own random thought here. 

Since today was also Currently, I feel that I have shared enough random thoughts! Ha!

Currently link up is here if you missed it before Hodgepodge!

Amy

Tuesday, August 4, 2026

Well, after about a month of not shopping, I had a little spree a couple of weeks ago. I hope you will join Marsha and me to talk about anything fashion related. We meet here every Tuesday and it’s a lot of fun. I am amazed by all the different angles fashion can take in this link up.

I actually have a lot to talk to you about today, so grab your favorite drink or set an alarm to read this when you have more time.

As hard as it is, I decided to do a try on sesh of my recent purchases…

I placed an order from J.Crew Factory, an order from Halara, shopped one of my consignment stores and bought 4 items, and then shopped at a local boutique to see what they had out for early fall. About a week before this “spree”, I bought a brown blouse at TJ Maxx.

I love this white blouse from J.Crew Factory! It was kind of pricey for what I usually spend at $49 but everything about it is perfect. The material is kind of a cool feel, the length is perfect, and the fit is perfect. I dropped some guacamole on it but put some Dawn on it and did a quick wash cycle and it came out. I like this blouse so much that I am considering buying a second one. What?

I also bought this camel cardigan thingy and I think it will be a good workhorse. I can see it going over a white button down or a long sleeved shirt. It was final sale and I took a chance on it. It was $24.

I gasped when I saw this crochet duster for fall at one of my local boutiques. I tried it on with a white t-shirt, but I think black might look better. Unfortunately, I was too lazy to go get one and try it so you will have to be in suspense. I didn’t like the Dansko Mary Janes with it. Should I have bought these last fall? I’m not sure. Back to the crochet duster – it was $68. They only had about 3 of them so I knew if I wanted it, I needed to jump on it. I see this as being all the “coat” I need for some of the cooler months.

The consignment things I bought were athletic yellow shorts, a plain white tee, Reef flip flops, and a fun hot pink clutch. I spent $50 total on all 4 things and showed you those last week.

I wore this one day for an errand:

I have on the JCF blouse, Halara jeans, and the Reef flip flops.

I wore this for a happy hour:

This is the brown TJ Maxx blouse, Halara jeans, and Dr. Scholl’s buckle heels (from a few years ago).

Another thing I would encourage anyone else to do, too – as you are starting to inventory fall stuff… I took some jeans I would like to wear soon to the tailor. The zipper will not stay up and it’s not because they don’t fit. She is going to try a new zipper pull or replace the entire zipper if needed.

I also took these fun printed pants to have the rip fixed. Many of you encouraged me to repair rather than get rid of. I like these well enough that I think repairing is smart. Now, both of these repairs combined will run me about $40, but that is worth it to me to have it done professionally. Are you good at taking things to the tailor or repairing them yourself? I could not buy new of the jeans and the pants for $40 so it’s worth it.

Let’s talk my Halara order. I am a huge fan of my Halara jeans and I have become much more of a jeans person because of them. I had been curious about their other pants offerings, too.

I bought these olive green stripe track pants.

And, these olive green barrel leg pants.

I love the track pant trend. I have Halara jeans with the stripes down the sides that I wear all the time. I also bought a pair of Lands End pants in navy with a red stripe. Lands End runs so big. I should have sized down but I still like them. This is why we as women need to stop getting hung up on a tag size. It goes both ways. Some things run incredibly small or are made for a person without any curves and some things run incredibly large for vanity sizing.

Here I am in the barrel legs:

I am still not quite sure about footwear with barrel. I feel like I need a bit more ankle skin showing.

If you also have sisters, you know they will tell it like it is.

And, here I am in the track pant:

It’s kind of hard to know if you made a good purchase until you get into a season and see what you really wear in your real life, you know?

And, a couple of other outfits from the week…

Saturday day:

Saturday night:

Yes, my photos are incredibly professional (NOT), but these are quick snaps I take before walking out the door.

Let’s talk Matilda Jane. Do you know her? He, he. It’s a little girl brand that you would go to trunk parties to shop for. I became a fan of her women’s pants as a teacher. Teacher pants. There’s a lot to talk about on the topic of teacher pants.

I am pretty sure Matilda Jane is kaput, but I have been seeing ruffle pants lately and even ruffle hem jeans. Are these the height of fashion now?

Look at what I saw on a Target ad:

If you are in the market for a ruffle, it might be worth it to try Target’s version.

Here is me in a MJ ruffle:

Here is me in a MJ full length knit pant:

They are extremely good quality and very comfortable. When I discovered Matilda Jane for women many years ago, my mom found a “dealer” who was going out of business and bought out her stock in my size. Major score! I still have both of these pairs of pants. I do not have the tops or the silver booties. Was I going line dancing after school?

Do you agree with this:

I love flip flops with jeans, personally! When did it NOT make sense?

Ok, what have you been wearing lately? Have you been shopping?

I have no one to do back to school shopping for anymore – not even myself!

This was fun! I was super chatty today!

Please link up here!

Amy

Monday, August 3, 2026

And it’s August! I’m linking up with Sarah and Holly to share my weekend. How was yours? I would love to hear in the comments!

Sending positive vibes to those starting school today!

Let’s back up to Thursday…

I had a lovely day celebrating a friend’s birthday at the boutique hotel pool.

Mimosa…

I only took these two photos which tells you I was in the moment.

I got a big surprise before I left when I found out both of my kids were off workday, had no plans, and wanted to come to dinner. I knew they were both off and I threw the invite out there not thinking they would both be free. I made my Ghiradelli brownie mix and ordered mediterranean. We love this meal:

The kids stayed for a few hours after dinner and played some games in the basement. It was just like old times and I was very happy. I had been missing their laughter in the basement hang out room lately, to be honest.

Friday was a really chill day. I am trying to keep Fridays free from chores, so I tried hard this week to get everything done before Friday. I went to Target and shopping for a birthday gift and then made tomato soup and grilled cheese for dinner. Tom and I watched this:

It was amusing. There were a couple of funny lines about pickleball.

The weather forecast was really wrong for Saturday morning and Saturday day and I was kind of annoyed. We wanted to boat with some friends but cancelled due to what we thought the weather was going to do. Have you noticed how many weekends have been rainy this summer? Sorry, I am in a bad mood about WEATHER. Also, are you like this? If you have evening plans, you can’t do too much during the day?

I made plans to go to a Mexican restaurant and I requested this upstairs area:

I chose this place because it was within walking distance of a dive bar where my friend’s band was playing:

Dan’s band plays like two times a year and they usually start at 9:00. When I found out this one was starting at 8:00, I had to go!

Dan is in the red t-shirt with our high school mascot:

Dan’s newly turned 21 daughter:

She has an internship at Tom’s company this year so that has been fun. I am enjoying my friends’ young adult kids so much these days!

My college besties: We have been dancing at bars since 1990! They wanted me to do my old signature move of the splits but I declined. I did a side lunge to appease them.

The band sounded really good and played all songs we knew and that were nostalgic for us. I stole part of the set list from Dan’s IG:

It was packed and we danced for about an hour:

Waking up Sunday morning…

Eddie Otis will let us sleep in as long as we want to now.

I had an early morning Kroger delivery that did get me up:

Lots of veg!

The app had offered me really cheap blackberries so I added to cart and then made a cobbler and it was delish!

I didn’t do a whole lot Sunday but I did work on some of my clutter clearing.

I found Jack’s Spanish binder from senior year when I was his teacher (and Mason’s). This is a poem I assigned:

I gathered up a couple of trash bags and a couple of donation bags. I’m so sentimental about my kids’ stuff, though! The paper clutter is probably the hardest, no? I am also overwhelmed by their books. I feel like they moved out and took what they wanted but didn’t want to get rid of what they left here, either. They just want us to store it. So, I have the hard job of deciding what to keep for them.

If you are wondering why we didn’t boat at all this weekend and especially today – the weather stunk again!

Tomorrow is Fashion Files and Wednesday is Currently! Look back at Friday’s post for the Currently prompts if you need them and feel free to combine your Hodgepodge with Currently. Hope to see you there!

Amy

Friday, July 31, 2026

Happy Friday and happy last day of July to you! It’s time for Friday Favorites with Andrea and Erika so let’s dive right in.

Cheers to the weekend!

Maybe I will manage to see more sunsets now?

Wow – this was shocking to my brain!

I’ve enjoyed some tv this week!

I watched this alone and loved it. I was sad there were only 4 episodes. I need to finish The Other Bennett Sister, too.

Tom and I are watching this:

And this:

I am a sourdough flunkie. I tried. It felt like having another pet to care for. Hey- I’m craving some sourdough. I think I will start the 48-hour process and hope that my craving is still present. Yes, I am sour grapes about not succeeding at sourdough.

I love the Whole Foods sliced sourdough sold in half loaves for less than $3, but I also found this great option at Kroger:

Please tell the the ingredients look ok? Apparently some sourdough you can buy is “fake” and not really sourdough.

Fresca was up to $11.99 so I chose the Kroger brand for $4.99. That’s a big price difference!

This is a very solid brownie mix:

After much coffee drama years ago I have decided I am a drip coffee/old fashioned coffee pot girl for now. I make about a 6 cup pot each day and don’t use it all. It’s also the most economical. I buy regular and decaf and make my own half caff blend.

I finally did the update. I still have the iphone 13. I usually don’t like updates, but this one is pretty good!

We live in front of an elementary school and playground. Tom taught Eddie Otis to go down the slide as a puppy, but we haven’t taken him to the slide area in a long time. We walked over there to avoid the lawn mowers this week, and I was surprised when he climbed right up and slid. It made me laugh so hard.

He is eating woodchips, though. Not good!

In less than a week, the playground will no longer be ours. It’s been so empty this summer! We are enjoying the calm before the storm, I guess you could say!

Hydrangea watch 2026: Now I have one robust bloom and one baby bloom. Come on, buddy, you can do it!

Mosquitoes love me. This is my favorite bug spray, and I found it in a travel size. I keep this one in my dog walking pouch.

This week held a trip to the library where I got:

I had a fun happy hour at the gorgeous Italian place near my house with one of my Beths. I ordered a pomegranate tequila spritz and it was so good!

We got some Tuscan potatoes:

I checked out a new energy drink/tea place that just opened.

I really enjoyed my drink that had 17 grams of protein. It was called a “protini”. I opted not to do one of the 200 g of caffeine drinks since I had already had my coffee.

I started this:

Eddie Otis and I saw the yellow school busses practicing at the middle school. It’s here!

I have to say how much I enjoyed wearing this outfit to happy hour this week. It’s my brown T.J. Maxx top with my old light Halara jeans and some old cream Dr. Scholl’s heels.

I also enjoyed wearing my new J.Crew Factory blouse for an errand:

The blouse is just perfect. The length is perfect, the fabric is perfect, and I love the ruffled sleeves.

Here it is if you are interested. Sorry I just couldn’t wait until Tuesday to tell you!

What were your favorites this week? I hope you had many!

Don’t forget…

August’s Currently is next Wednesday with the themes of: savoring, wrapping up, preparing, remembering, and organizing.

Fashion Files is Tuesday, also!

Amy