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Wednesday, March 18, 2026

It’s Hodgepodge day with Joyce!

1. St. Patrick’s Day lands on March 17th. Do you believe in luck? Are there things you do thinking they’ll  bring good luck or  things you avoid because they’re considered bad luck? 

This is a tough one to answer if you are a spiritual person, I think. I used to tell my Dad I was lucky because of something that had happened and he would tell me it wasn’t luck, but rather it was based on my own ability, but then it’s also not my own ability if it’s my God-given ability. This also goes into the conversation of free will or pre-ordainment. Did you truly have choices in life or is everything pre-ordained?

When you have a bit of age on you, you can see how so many pieces of your life’s puzzle have come together. I had twin imaginary friends as a child named Yoki and Boki. They might have been Japanese. When I found out I was pregnant for the first and only time in my life, twins didn’t even cross my mind until my ultrasound where I found out I was having twins! Were Yoki and Boki foreshadowing? I was obsessed with playing school as a child and played with my stuffed animals, my sisters, and my neighborhood friends. One neighbor girl never let me be the teacher. Joke’s on her. I became one and she didn’t.

But I also think feeling lucky can just be about perspective. I feel lucky because of certain things I have been given, which is good perspective on my life, which leads to contentment and happiness.

I don’t think Joyce will give me an A for that answer as I was all over the place!

2. Forest-lime-sage-mint-olive-emerald…what’s your favorite shade of green? 

Green has always been a favorite color. I love lime green in the summer. I love kelly green in the spring. Green is a calming color to me.

In my 30s I had bright green pants in my teacher wardrobe. The students lovingly(?) made fun of them. Someone made a piñata of me wearing my green pants and then wanted to beat me/the piñata after stuffing me with candy. The abuse that high school teachers have to endure, am I right?

3. In Ireland the meal on this day is often a hearty beef or lamb stew served with colcannon (mashed potato mixed with cabbage and leeks). In the US corned beef and cabbage is the more typical St. Patty’s Day meal. Will you/did you mark the day with one of these dishes? Baked-fried-roasted-mashed…what’s your favorite way to eat a potato?

My friend Victoria made colcannon on Saturday and I am going to get her recipe. She had a St. Patrick’s Day parade party because she lives on the parade route.

I decided to go ahead and do Jen’s crockpot meal on Sunday because I like a crockpot going on a weekend for some reason. I plan to have leftovers on Tuesday. I also got the idea from a blog to make Reuben sandwiches and Reuben quesadillas. I was thinking I could then put the corned beef in the freezer and bring it out to make corned beef hash.

I have never met a potato I didn’t like. I think it’s one of the best foods on God’s green earth. Mashed potatoes will always be special to me because my grandma taught me how to make them. She thought it was so funny that when everyone else asked for dessert later in the evening after the meal that I wanted mashed potatoes instead. Germans love a potato and we are part German. My husband is half German but he had potato overload as a child. My mom rarely made potatoes. Isn’t that funny?

Lately I am loving the sweet potato. I mostly have it for breakfast/brunch.

I often wonder how young people can learn to feed themselves economically when they get out on their own. We just don’t do a good job with teaching this in high school. Bring back home ec! If you buy potatoes, eggs, beans, rice, tomatoes, bananas, carrots, corn, and minimal meat, you can eat very cheaply and very healthy.

4. What color of the rainbow best represents your personality/mood today? Tell us why. 

I would like to think yellow? I hope that I am a bright light to people.

5. Which ‘lucky’ quote resonates with you. Elaborate. 

 ‘Luck is not something you can mention in the presence of self-made men.’ E.B. White 

‘Diligence is the mother of good luck.” Benjamin Franklin 

‘Luck is where opportunity meets preparation.’ Seneca 

‘Shallow men believe in luck. Strong men believe in cause and effect.’ Ralph Waldo Emerson 

I think the two that I have put in bold type resonate with me and kind of go with my answer to question #1 as well. I always try to work hard at anything I do, and I always try to be prepared.

6. Insert your own random thought here. 

I was in low key awe of Tom Sunday. He really knows how to do so many things. He was building this fence using a technique that I thought was interesting where he nailed a block of wood to get the slats laid before nailing them to the post and I asked how he learned to do it. Also, he put the boards up and then will cut the gate from the boards that are up because he said that is the easier way to do it. I found that so interesting. I think he thought I was being sarcastic, but I was genuinely intrigued. I’m not sure I explained that very well. I helped hold boards, hand him things, and just kept him company. A lot of my friends say they wish their husbands were handy, but when your husband is handy you can’t pay someone to get something done fast. Does that make sense? Ha!

What would you say to any of these questions today?

Amy

Tuesday, March 17, 2026

Happy St. Patrick’s Day! When my kids were little, I made green foods but now I make traditional Irish food as seen above!

I used to get a Shamrock shake one time in March!

Today is my sister’s birthday! I was three when she was born and I could say I remember her coming home from the hospital to my first house as a child, but the memories might be borne of the photos. I have lots of photos of me standing next to her bassinet. Family lore says that I said, “I hate her. Take her back.” Wow, what a jerk I was. Kate and I are very different but also a lot alike in many ways and I truly can’t imagine her having been “taken back”. I do absolutely remember the day Molly came home from the hospital because I was 6. We had been watched by a neighbor, and our mom had given us cigar boxes with presents in them that we could open while waiting. I remember standing on the neighbor’s driveway and watching for my parents’ brown Oldsmobile to pull into our driveway so we could run up and greet them.

The original fam – I am the one standing in the back, Kate is below me and Molly is on my Dad’s lap:

*I wanted to start a podcast this year, but I know it’s more work than maybe I am ready for. I also know my friend Dan’s heart wasn’t in it and I didn’t want to push him. If he gets inspired, I still want to do it, though. It was going to be based on topics that 50-year-olds face called “Our Fifties Sense”. Dan would have to do the technical end of things most likely, and he works full time and is a busy Dad. The podcasts I enjoy most right now are chatty and funny. My idea was to take a topic and chat about it from the female v. male perspective.

This is Dan and I at his mom’s 80th birthday party:

*I went to a library cooking class in January, and it was good but chaotic. The German cookbook author was the featured chef and did more in January, but I wasn’t interested in the foods they were teaching and after how crowded and chaotic the first one was, I didn’t really want to do another one. February’s chef cancelled for some reason. March’s chef is based on kid allergen-free foods and that doesn’t interest me. So, I still might attend another one in the future, but I haven’t been that interested in the ones on offer. I love that they have a demo kitchen and are doing a chef-in-residence program. Mason says I should pay and take a “real” cooking class and not just go to the free library ones.

*The pandemic taught me how to make dressings and sauces when I couldn’t find the ones I would usually buy. I save the most wonderful jam jars from the Bonne Maman brand and make my own dressing most of the time in the jar and then shake it up. Here is one from Cup of Jo blog:

Lemon-Dijon Dressing
1/4 cup lemon juice (from about 1 1/2 lemons)
1 1/2 teaspoon Dijon mustard
1 1/2 teaspoon honey (or sugar to make vegan)
1/3 cup olive oil
kosher salt and freshly ground black pepper

Every time I make my own dressing I feel so amazing! Ha!

*Empty nester house is quiet but it’s going well. I would love to have a set family meal night eventually but right now I am not sure we can coordinate a night between the kids’ work schedules, sadly. I would love to do Sunday night. I am still figuring out how to grocery shop for just two. I am buying less chips, for sure! My fridge and freezer are way too stuffed currently for some reason. I can’t function when it’s overstuffed. This will be the first full month of only grocery shopping for two and I have been tracking again this month. I feel much less pressure about cooking dinner even though Mason was super easy.

*Eddie Otis is still crated when I leave the house. I don’t want to leave him for more than four hours because of this so I am a bit limited in how long I leave the house.

I am trying to take him on some errands with me. He can do the Kroger pickup if I have them put the groceries in the front with me since he is in the back area of my car. He barks his head off, unfortunately. He can go to Feeder’s Supply with me to get his treats. He can return library books with me if I just use the drop off bin. He is an excellent car rider unless we come to a stop sign and he sees a threat. I try to end an errand with something in it for him like a new field to run in and sniff. Anyway, I am that crazy dog lady.

*My feelings about being retired are still confusing. I really miss the students and all the fun I had. I really don’t miss the lack of work/life balance, the admin bs, the PDs, the meetings for meetings’ sake, etc. I think of a school memory almost every day. I communicate with former students on social media most days. I miss the social interactions and some days I don’t have enough to satisfy my social side.

My tutoring student has brought his grade up two letter grades! I was so happy! We are still meeting most weeks at a Starbuck’s. This has been good for me. I think about subbing sometimes but I just really don’t want a full 8 hour day right now.

*I am trying to establish some routines/rhythms to my new life at home. Mondays are generally look at calendar, pay bills, do admin stuff, prep some food for the week, Amy laundry. Thursdays are water the plants and collect trash day. Friday I generally try to do house laundry and clean as much as I can with EO and then do whatever else on Saturday. I don’t really have a set grocery shop day yet. Things can be moved around if needed.

I never want to leave you hanging about anything I’ve mentioned here on the blog. I hope that I am authentic and that you feel like you “know” me. I am open to suggestions or tips that have made your life better.

My coffee is now cold!

Amy

Monday, March 16, 2026

Wow – March is really flying! Maybe I also said that in February, but I know I didn’t say that in January. Let’s link up with Sarah and Holly to share our weekends. Did you celebrate St. Patrick’s Day this weekend? The green drink above is a “Dubliner”.

Friday, I got out of the house early and went to the library and Trader Joe’s. I usually pair these two errands together as they are close together. Does anyone work on Fridays anymore? What is going on? The traffic is so bad on Fridays around here. Are you noticing that as well? I don’t want to work on Fridays, but I need everyone else to go to work.

I bought pink and purple tulips to make a bouquet for myself and for my friend Elizabeth who I was seeing later that day.

Look at the library display!

I only picked up one book. I have a ton of requests but none had come in yet.

I went home and put away all the Trader Joe’s things, made lunch, read, and talked on the phone. I walked EO a couple of times, too. Then, Elizabeth came over for a simple dinner before we went to plant BINGO.

You get to shop during the intermission and I bought a Venus flytrap…

and a wizard philodendron…

It was fun!

I finished this over the weekend. Whoa! It would make a good movie. COHO sucks me in and always provides a quick read for me.

Then, I started:

It seems like it will be good, but this was just an impulse pick for me from the library new releases shelf.

I had to show Tom’s green. He had on green socks and another green layer under this sweater jacket thing. He understood the assignment as we were going to a St. Patrick’s Day parade party.

Victoria and her husband have been our friends for a long time. I think I met Victoria in 1999!

She made colcannon soup which was delicious! She also made Irish soda bread and Guinness bread.

We went down to NULU to walk around and shop a little.

I had a Dubliner cocktail that was amazing…

We decided to eat pizza at home with our Eddie Otis that night.

Yesterday morning I decided to do the crockpot corned beef, carrot, onion, potato, and cabbage in the crockpot instead of waiting until Tuesday. We can have it again tomorrow and dinner will be done!

I went to the gym, got gas, and went to the car wash later in the day.

Tom, Eddie Otis, and I worked on the fence project in the exteme windy conditions!

Inspector Eddie Otis…

It was so nice that dinner was hands off! Well, the soda bread isn’t hands off but it’s not hard, either.

What was the highlight of your weekend?

Amy

Friday, March 13, 2026

It’s Friday and I’m linking up with Erika and Andrea to share some favorites from the week, but first…

Do you remember another Friday the 13th six years ago?

It was my twins’ senior year of high school, and I had the experience of teaching Mason in my 3rd period AP Spanish class and Jack in my 6th period AP Spanish class. The rumors had started that we might have to be out of school for a couple of weeks for the virus that had started impacting our country. It would turn out to be the last day I would get to teach them (and the class of 2020 many of whom I had known since kindergarten because of my kids) and the last day my two would enter their school as students. Wowowowow. Do you remember March 13, 2020?

I’m not living in the past but I do like to reflect on dates like this.

This felt like a very retired life for Amy this week! On Monday I went to play mah jong(g) at a mj teacher’s house with my bestie Heather and another beginner. The first game hurt my brain so much. The second game was way better and I started enjoying it. The third game was good, too.

Beginner’s luck for Heath…

I went home and watched a bunch of Instagram videos about strategies and rules.

Here is my mah jongg story. I took a lesson in June. I didn’t play again until October. I didn’t play again until Monday which was March. I didn’t think I liked it very much and it made me angry until Monday. Monday was daytime and June and October were nighttime. I really think I can focus more during the day so that helped a lot. Stay tuned…

Tuesday I took Eddie Otis on a fun walk/hike to a historic home and its grounds which have woodsy trails. One of my March goals is to walk more and walk in different places.

We went with Heather who is a serious walker. Eddie kept looking back at me like –

“mom, you have to keep up with this fast lady”.

My tree is in bloom!

I almost gave up on this book…

Wow – I finished it on Wednesday, and it was really good. I’m glad I stuck with it.

Up next – COHO books are usually quick reads for me. It’s good to have a big change of genre.

Also on Wednesday, I went back to the same house for three-person mah jong games because we lost our fourth player. I won a game! The teacher is developing her own branded sorority mats and tiles and plans to travel to college campus to teach to college kids. Give her a follow on Instagram if that interests you: “Mahjong is Greek to Me”.

And, I had another game yesterday!

I apologize for all the mean things I said about mah jong when I was frustrated by it. It has really helped to play several games this week.

Mason shared his lofty recipes with me over the weekend and we shopped together. He had plans to make homemade pasta sauce, two fish dishes, and things with whole nutmeg and parsley. I did give him the advice to have some quick things when he didn’t feel like being Gordon Ramsey. Who is this kid?

He sent me these photos this week…

His homemade pasta sauce:

Some catfish with parsley and white wine and potatoes with herbs de provence. Ok, Mason!

I was given an Amish Friendship bread starter which is kind of like giving someone a kitten. I did the 10-day process of “mushing the bag” and adding to the bag and finally was ready to bake on Day 10. It’s delicious. It’s a cinnamon bread. I have cut it up and shared it and begged friends to adopt a starter. It’s a great sweet bread (not the intestines kind) to have at breakfast or in the afternoon with coffee. Just don’t crave it if you are out because you have to wait 10 days.

This is a really good creamer for those who do creamer. It’s “buy two get $6 off” at Kroger right now. That doesn’t have a good ring to it but it made one carton $6.49 and the other carton 49 cents. Or you can be a normal person and say it cost $3.49 a carton.

I stopped in a cute little shop this week called Pink Tag. The Derby stuff is out competing with the Easter stuff around here.

I finally achieved my life’s goal to use coupons. I had $17 worth of Kroger coupons!

I did a really dumb thing and took a blurry photo of it. I thought I bought lip gloss and it turns out its highlighter for your cheeks. Oopsie. This is why my lips were gold and had a weird texture.

I am making Jen’s Irish meal either Sunday or Tuesday. That was part of my Kroger haul.

Tonight I have plant BINGO! It’s regular BINGO but you win plants and you get 25% off the plants in the store. I hope to bring home a spider plant.

So, let me sum up my “basic retiree week”. I played 3 games of mah jong, took daily walks with dog, baked bread, and played BINGO. Could I be more basic? Also, I want to say happy birthday to my internet friend Kim! This is a test, Kim, to see if you made it to the end! Hahahahaha!

Cheers,

Amy

Thursday, March 12, 2026

What have you been wearing lately?

I have been struggling with my spring shoes. Until this year I “needed” “teacher shoes”. They had to be comfortable enough to stand on hard cement floors for 8 plus hours. I also wanted them to be stylish and cute. Talk about hard!

Now, I am figuring out my retired wardrobe. I have been struggling with the shoes to wear in the transitional time between winter and summer. It seems (and is) way too early to wear open toe but I needed shoes to wear with jeans and blouses. Also, I think the students did rub off on me because they didn’t like people “showing their dogs” and now I do think about that and feel like there is too much “showing of the dogs” when another shoe would look better.

I’ve also shared my love of a gold shoe. It’s just a great neutral. I am going to look for a gold flip flop, too.

I swooned over the Aerosoles gold kitten heel pump for at least a month and then I snagged them for only $33 (regularly $99) in a BOGO half off DSW deal. I am wearing them in the above photo!

Want to know what the other pair was? A Sperry topsider! I am not sure if I will keep them and therefore upon returning to DSW I might lose the BOGO half off deal.

Here they are as a try-on. They didn’t look right with this pair of jeans.

I also ordered a light gold Mary Jane from Dr. Scholl’s brand.

I am wanting to wear jeans with blouses and an occasional graphic tee with cardigan or button up situation in this transitional time.

I found my color palette from having my colors done in the 80s. I also attended a boutique opening that has their clothing arranged by your season with a space for having your colors done. Isn’t that cool? It’s very expensive to have your colors done these days – $300ish!

I also decided I was still going to wear what I wanted to wear regardless of my palette. I do think it’s interesting, though.

I also placed a big ol’ Old Navy order with my Old Navy cash that I got from a purchase back in January, I think. It started with a recommendation for a simple navy blouse (that is part of my color palette as a summer) and I found some other blouses for less than consignment prices. I will return anything that looks or feels cheap or isn’t the right fit. But with the amount I spent I got free shipping and I can just take it to my local store. I am having lots of luck with Old Navy and Target in 2026. I would like to live contentedly with my wardrobe for a while after this haul. Here’s the thing. I hate that I like fast fashion. I do very much care about quality and the washability and the feel of the fabric. I just can’t stomach paying Anthro, Madewell, or any higher end store prices. I try to find things that have that look, though.

Here is most of the haul…

I already had this blouse in white so when I saw this pinstripe I knew my size and I knew I love this style.

Same style in blue floral:

But, the whole order started from wanting this simple navy blouse. I ordered it in white, too. The white will need a cami under it and that could get hot.

I’ve been needing a chambray shirt replacement and I am really happy with the weight of this one. I plan to wear it open mostly, I think.

I got 6 blouses and one final sale skort that is a little big for $78.

When I got dressed on Saturday it was rainy and I put on my jeans and my fish sweater. Get it? Rain – fish?

I wore my new gold Mary Janes to go to Kroger with Mason:

They are Dr. Scholl’s.

When we went out to dinner I changed into the gold Aerosoles kitten heel pumps:

Friday, I tried the scarf with striped shirt look with my new scarf tie method I learned on Instagram. I’ve never liked this striped shirt and it’s going to get donated. I would like to get a replacement stripe. I think it’s the fabric that is too thick. It just doesn’t hang right or feel comfortable.

My favorite outfit was this with a plain white tee, my Target crochet sweater, my new scarf tie and my cream pumps that I am going to switch out for the gold pumps. I feel like this could be a go-to spring outfit.

I started following some summer accounts on IG. They even give you nail colors! It’s funny to me that these are some of my regular nail colors.

This is my current color:

I’ve been cleaning things out and it’s been so fun to see old photos. This is us visiting my sister at Ohio State. We were probably 24 and Kate was 21. Kate, me, Heather, and our good friend Julia. We had so much fun on this visit and decided we wanted to go back to college at OSU.

I put this on to play Mah Jong:

Then, decided the mary janes were probably better for day time.

Let’s talk about the jeans again. I think these are a dupe for the Anthro Collette jean. These are really, really good. I think I need them in white.

I do have a legitimate question. What pants are we wearing besides jeans? I have some printed pants and some gauzy pants. What else is there?

What have you been wearing lately?

Amy

Wednesday, March 11, 2026

It’s time for Hodgepodge with Joyce!

1. Are you a naturally trusting person? Is trust built on logic or ‘gut instinct’? Does everyone deserve a second chance? Elaborate. 

Yes and no. I do tend to believe people but as a Scorpio (haha), I also can be suspicious. I am a very good judge of character. I have “called it” on guys my friends dated back in college. I get a sense of a person right away.

I think it’s a little of both – logic and gut instinct. I do think women should follow their gut more. If something doesn’t feel right, there is a reason. I don’t know if everyone deserves a second chance. Can people change? I think that’s a tough one. I think you can quit a bad habit, but I think people are who they are at their core and that we can only change how we react to that behavior. I think expecting someone to change is an exercise in futility. Also, I love the quote, “believe people when they show you who they are”.

2. ‘Beware the Ides of March’…March 15th on the ancient Roman calendar, these words were made famous by William Shakespeare in his play Julius Caesar.  Caesar was assassinated on March 15th 44 B.C. Have you read any Shakespeare? If so, do you have a favorite? Have you ever been to Rome? 

If you had told me how many Shakespeare plays I would have to sit through I wouldn’t have believed you. Both of my kids loved his work and were in many of the plays. I find them hard to follow. I have seen Shakespeare in parks, in the woods, in a parking lot, and in theaters big and small.

I have not been to Rome. I have only been to Venice in Italy. I would like to see more of Italy.

3. Do you like a Caesar salad? If given the choice between a garden/house salad or Caesar which do you order? Anchovies or no? What’s your favorite salad dressing? 

I do, but it’s usually not what I would pick over a garden or house salad. There is a place here that has a fabulous one with pumpkin seeds. I also love when they grill the romaine. No anchovies if I have a choice but I probably am not bothered if they are in the dressing. Tom and I both love honey mustard or balsamic at a restaurant.

4. Where do you typically work (or blog if that’s easier) at home? Do you have a dedicated home office space? Are you happy with that space? 

I would love to have a desk upstairs one day. We don’t have a home office, either. I have a desk in the basement in a little corner, but we don’t let Eddie Otis go down there yet, so I blog at the dining room table. It is not formal at all. It’s a table that doubles in size if you unfold it and we have only four chairs. I am thinking about putting a desk in one of my kids’ former rooms. I am a brand new empty nester.

5. Snow drops, daffodils, lenten roses, crocus, hyacinth, or early tulips…what’s your favorite early Spring flower? 

I have a little row of daffodils right beyond my fence and those are always the harbingers of spring for me. I feel hope when they first pop up. I love all flowers, though.

It was fun to watch these develop so quickly this year due to all the rain.

6. Insert your own random thought here. 

I know it will get cold again before these 60s and 70s are here to stay. I hope we get a true spring this year. I love the weather in April, May, and June usually. I don’t like it when we don’t transition properly.

Also, if you don’t have a comfortable outdoor chair, it’s worth it to get one. Even if you have to fold it up and put it away when you are done, it will add value to your life to have an outdoor spot.

I love this chair so much! I think we have been through four at this point. At one time, we had a set of two.

We also have a dining table and a sectional under a roof so we can sit there if it’s raining…

And two chairs on the upper deck

I also love this time of year when the bugs aren’t too bad yet.

Here’s what I finally decided…

I thought about what I loved most about going on vacation (like a beach vacation type) and one of my answers was drinking my coffee outside in the morning. So, why not bring that habit home with you? Why would you only derive that pleasure one week a year or less? It adds so much happiness to my life to be outside.

I also decided not to be too precious with my outdoor furniture. I bring my upper deck cushions in after using them every time so that helps, but the furniture does get weathered from being outside. It’s just going to happen. We got a burn hole in one of the sectional cushions from our Solo Stove but it’s outdoor furniture so It’s the price of doing business. Also, our furniture is comfortable. I know some people who have a gorgeous yard, but they don’t have anything they want to sit on.

This year, I also want to upgrade our portable chairs for outdoor concerts and events.

Anywho, who knew I could write so much on this topic?

Amy

Tuesday, March 10, 2026

I’m a little late with my March goals, but that’s ok!

Put up St. Patrick’s Day decor – I feel like I’m missing some of it, but I could have donated some last year – done! It’s been out since the day after Valentine’s Day.

Spruce up plants – did a little of this in February when I visited new location of plant store; plan to buy a spider plant with my 25% discount at the plant BINGO!

Attend plant BINGO at the new plant store – coming up this week! It’s regular BINGO but with plant prizes and it’s BYOB so I might make up a planty cocktail. I am going with friend Elizabeth. I have two other friends who want to go but they couldn’t make this date.

Attend our kids’ college (they graduated in 2024) baseball game

Make corned beef and cabbage and Irish soda bread – Jen’s recipe!

Make a candle at Sea Love or buy an already made candle – going to do this with friend Jessica. We visited the adorable shop during the Galentine’s event

Attend boutique grand opening – did it!

Declutter and donate – I am working on the stuff the kids left behind in their rooms so we can do new flooring, ceiling, and paint and turn those into guest rooms or rooms for them when they want to stay

Decide on and buy 5 birthday gifts! My sister Kate has a St. Patrick’s Day birthday and my sister Molly had all four of her kids in March

Buy spring transition shoes to go with jeans and blouses – I think I am done! I will show them on Thursday!

Read outside

Attend St. Patrick’s Day parade and my friend Victoria’s parade party – not sure if I want to get in all that mess this year?

Last year:

Spruce up outside deck and patio and do decor (if Eddie Otis is now mature enough not to steal it)

Walk outside alone more (without EO)

Walk EO in different locations and take him on more errands – maybe more patio dining because he did really well at a brewery

That’s it for now but I might add more as I think of them!

Amy

Monday, March 9, 2026

Hello! How did it get to be March 9th so quickly? How was your weekend? We had a rainy, rainy week with a few thunderstorms mixed in and then another rainy day on Saturday. It’s going to be so green from all this rain! Let’s link up with Holly and Sarah to share.

On Thursday, I went to a busy area of town called The Highlands for a boutique opening. I first stopped at a new coffee shop called Lucia’s Cafecito and spoke Spanish with the darling owner. I had a really good iced coffee to go.

I met my friend Beth, and we checked out a French bakery (first time for me and I got carrot cake for Tom to go) and then went to the opening.

I made a “Spanish lunch” for my former student when I got home. She lived in Spain for a year as a teaching assistant and is subbing now. She was off on this day so it worked out. It was fun!

Eddie Otis took a little sunbath as the rain stopped and the sun came out.

We enjoyed our rainy walks. Thank goodness for my short rainboots. Our mudroom has lived up to its name lately.

Friday I took myself to a much needed pedicure.

I did a light pink.

I think an employee’s daughter is a Girl Scout. They just had all these boxes of GS cookies sitting outside on a bench. I love that we are pretty trusting around here. I did send Tom a photo saying “I know where you can get some Thin Mints” and he replied “Free Girl Scout cookies with every French tip” and it had me wondering how he knows that nail style.

It was so nice out Friday! I had to put on shorts!

I was feeling so lazy, but my friend Elizabeth wanted to go to the last day of this charcuterie place. They are moving to share a space with a distillery so they aren’t going out of business, but we really enjoyed this space.

She brought her very well-behaved dog named Banana who is a big cavapoo.

And mid-sentence photo of Mason who walked down after work and chatted with us for a bit – that was a nice treat!

Saturday was cleaning day. It was really nice for a bit and then the rain came again…

I read outside and inside when I got cold and then Mason came over. He practiced piano and then we did a grocery trip together. He has some crazy hard recipes he is making for the week. I tried not to say too much but I did say, “you need some easy to prepare things for when you are tired”. Then, we took him to Martini’s for dinner.

It was so nice to get to chat with him.

Sunday morning, I felt the time change and was discombobulated all day. I did finish this…

And, now I have read all the Sarah Adams books. A little cheesy, but cute.

Yes, I did take a break from Theo of Golden to read it!

Tom worked on the fence but then I took his helper with me…

to walk with Heather and Heather…

and then EO went to his first brewery. He did pretty well.

What a nice way to spend a couple of hours on a Sunday!

What was the highlight of your weekend?

Amy

Friday, March 6, 2026

We started the week with this:

The thing that kept me going was this:

Are you ready to “spring forward” overnight Saturday into Sunday? I am!

Mason gave me this devotional book for Christmas and I just started using it because I had January and February left of another one. It’s really nice.

My little blogging companion. He usually is in this spot when I am at my computer.

Monday is the day I like to do some meal prep – lately that has just been roasting sweet potatoes. When will I get tired of this first meal of the day? When will you get tired of me showing it?

This is a great lunch – the sweet potatoes with black beans, red onion, avocado, a little bit of lime and EVOO.

I like to have a non-fiction book going along with my fiction book. Wow – is this good.

Ever since I heard about HSPs – highly sensitive people – I have identified as one. There are just people who feel things deeply. “It’s like carrying an emotional radar that’s always on, always picking up signals, always processing”. Who knows if this is because I was a first-born daughter or a teacher, but this is spot on. And this pretty much sums up the years of teaching after the pandemic: “…it can also leave you drained because you’re carrying the weight of emotions that aren’t even yours”.

HSP plus Enneagram 2 and there ya go…

I have been transparent over the last week on the blog about a couple of friendship hurts I have had and then I shared my new empty-nester status this week and this book is really helping me to understand where these emotions are coming from. I realize I have more time now than I have had in 31 years to even think about my friendships this much and I am taking this into account.

I made an entree salad one night for dinner this week that is a re-creation of Tom’s favorite dish at Harry’s/Malone’s. Malone’s is the nice restaurant on the first floor and Harry’s is the bar atop. It turned out pretty well and was super healthy.

I have been a fan of SNL over the past several months. I record it from Saturday night and usually watch it Sunday night. It’s extremely liberal and it’s not politically correct. I realize as I type those things that they are contradictory. They had the star of Heated Rivalry (which I don’t watch) as the host and then two members of the men’s and two members of the women’s Olympic hockey teams on. My favorite part of SNL is Weekend Update with Collin Jost (Scarlet Johannsen’s hub) and Michael Che. I enjoyed the hockey jokes, and they had a skit with Punch the monkey’s mom. It was ridiculous but I laughed my head off.

By the way, are you up on pop culture? I was talking to my high school friends last week about how some ladies I know have no clue about current pop culture. They told me they get their pop culture from my blog. Ha! Do you care about pop culture? I felt like it was part of my job as a high school teacher. I still think I am pretty up on pop culture.

I’m over Love is Blind 10 and even Love Story! Love is Blind 10 is painful. I don’t like any of the couples except one and they are boring. I am fast forwarding. I really don’t care who actually gets married. They are all messed up. I am on Episode 5 of Love Story, and it’s lost its shine for me. This is very typical of me, though. I will like a show at the beginning and then I will lose interest. I think the fight in Battery Park made me mad. It’s not a spoiler; they fought in Battery Park and all the paparazzi took photos of what looked like a very physical and toxic fight in a very public place.

This is a sweet photo. Mason’s new house has a big dip at the bottom of the driveway and Tom taught him how to drill and secure “curb bumpers”.

First, they had to dig out the crumbling pavement. It was so cold and next to a two lane road and it was quite scary. Tom found a work vest in his truck for me to wear so I had a very important purpose.

Have you tried Lambrusco? It’s a fizzy red wine. I picked this up at Trader Joe’s and it’s really good.

OMG – the chocolate chip cookie dough at TJ’s is amazing. It’s not cheap at $5.49 for about a dozen – maybe a few more – but these are like bakery cookies.

Have you heard of an “analog bag”? This is a tote bag of non-tech things to do – a book to read, a crossword puzzle book, a crochet or embroidery project, etc. I love this idea for me and for children, too. Wouldn’t this be a fun grandparent project to create a bag for the kids for a gift?

By the way, I told my mom I wanted her to stop bringing my kids gifts every time she visited and suggested a “grandma bag” instead of things she would bring and then take home. She loved the idea and jumped on it. My kids loved it, too, and it helped them to not be so spoiled – maybe?

When I was a babysitter, I had a babysitting bag of things I would bring to the kids – coloring pages, old toys of mine and my sisters and things like that. The kids loved it.

Look how cute – Kroger has these 99 cent carrot bags that I think I will use as “Easter baskets” for adult offspring this year.

I had tutoring this week and it went really well. My student got an A on the last quiz!

I just ordered a drip coffee and added cinnamon and it was quite nice. This was $2 and change!

Remember how I’m a sourdough flunkie? I really think the summer humidity hurt me. But, anyway, Kristin has written up her method and I think I could even do this.

Speaking of bread…

I had lunch with my friend Elizabeth this week and she gave me a retirement gift. She is so funny; she said she had been waiting until she could get it just perfect.

It was a basket of things I love. One thing was this Amish Friendship Bread starter. The bread is a cinnamon bread and it contains a dry pudding mix which is interesting. I can’t bake it for about 10 days because I have to follow the process.

She wrote me a poem!

An Eddie Otis keychain was part of the gift!

There were a few other things, too. How thoughtful!

We went to one of my favorite places for their…

cup of soup with puff pastry – I had tomato and she had lobster bisque and they have fries that taste like bougie McDonald’s fries.

I finished this and it could be my favorite book of 2026. I just loved it.

I started this next…

Have you read it?

It’s so promising to see the first signs of spring…

And inside my white hydrangeas are still beautiful – two weeks later!

Thank you for all the comments on my February Spending Diary post; it was like sharing my dirty laundry. I have started tracking for March.

Thank you for your comments on my Adult Children – New Empty Nest post, too. I’m doing pretty well with my new normal.

You all are the best!

Wishing you a happy Friday and something this weekend that fills your cup whether that be a coffee cup or a cocktail glass!

Amy

Thursday, March 5, 2026

This is a crazy time of year to get dressed! I know I’m not the only one who thinks this! So, just like our Kentucky weather, this post will be all over the place. You’ve pretty much come to expect that from me, though.

I knew Saturday would be nice by afternoon and it wasn’t too bad for my morning errands. I put on my faux Birkenstocks without socks because with socks they would be slippery. But, there is something that makes a scratch on my darn toe every time I wear them. I paired them with my new Amazon jeans, my (new in January) Old Navy graphic tee and an old Target cardigan.

Thursday I wore my new Target fish sweater to happy hour. I wore my tan suede pumps. I have been thinking about my color palette. I had my colors done in the 80s and was a summer. I did another color analysis online recently and I’m still a summer. I would love to have them done again by a real human but the price is crazy high. I read that you really don’t change as you age in the color analysis realm. So, the interesting thing is – this fish sweater is in my color palette, and I bought it without thinking about that or remembering that.

I added my Target vest. Boy have I gotten my money’s worth from this vest. It’s just a great vest!

I really don’t know how to “put my face” for selfies so for that I apologize. I did my makeup using my colors. I am following “summer” Instagram accounts and tried to use only what they recommended for lip color and blush color – using what I already had in my makeup stash. What do you think? Also, my hair color matches one of the suggested hair colors for summers given to me by the online analysis. I would share that website, but I don’t remember which one I used.

Gosh, I love my Christmas gift from Tom – this coat. The brand is Delta Roam and this is their D-Robe. It is so warm. Tom started wearing it to walk the dog, too. It’s now the communal dog walking coat.

This is kind of sad. I get my mom’s Talbot’s catalogs. She loved Talbot’s. I still get her mail forwarded to me. She gets lots of river cruise catalogs, too. I get something in my mail daily that is addressed to her. It’s hard some days.

Back to Talkbot’s…

Look how pretty their silk scarves look when styled as such:

I like the stripes with the floral scarf.

I learned a couple of new silk scarf ties on Instagram! It just takes practice. Here is me totally blocking the scarf – doh! I love my Target crochet sweater.

Did you have “boat shoes” in the 80s? They are back! I am kind of obsessed with some slim low-profile versions I’m seeing. I remember the preppiest girl that transferred to my elementary school. Her name was Lolly and she had boat shoes where the laces were done in those spirals and she had stepped on the backs of them and turned them into mules. She was very cool. I think that was the first time I saw boat shoes.

Scarf plus boat shoes?????

But then you have to have the “right jeans”, too?

Aren’t fashion trends fun?

What have you been wearing lately?

What are you excited to wear?

Amy