Tuesday, February 3, 2026
I did pretty well with my January goals. I try to make these the fun goals in my life. I do have serious goals, as well, but these are about being intentional, seeking out fun, and making the most of my leisure time – for the most part.
I’ve also found that having them written down where I can see them helps. I can add or subtract as the month goes on. This doesn’t need to be a super militant exercise!
A couple of things I couldn’t do because they hadn’t happened yet, but overall I think I did well.
Continue to work on sleep and skin care
Buy fresh flowers weekly
Get a pedicure
Start self-tanning
Find new recipes/simplify meals
Re-read a Fiona Ferris book
Become someone who wears scarves – he, he – I just bought a gorgeous scarf!
Watch Olympics opening ceremony and do some kind of themed meal Friday, February 6
Make a fancy-ish V Day meal at home on Saturday, February 14
Go to a Galentine’s event
Make a Mardi Gras meal on Tuesday, February 17. I’m going to try gumbo and hush puppies
Take one of the library cooking classes with the February chef
Take V Day decor down February 15 and put up St. Pat’s Day
Plan a couple of happy hours with friends and compile a list of my fave winter hh places and deals they have and then go to those places
Coffee shop alone at least once
Movie alone
Lunch out alone
Plan a game night
Declutter like a beast
I know I will add more but that’s a good start!
Amy
Coffee and Cocktails at the Casa 
This is such a good practice, I am committed to fresh flowers each week. My mom stopped by last week and asked who gave me flowers. I said, ME! She thought that was a great idea and said she might do it too.
Little things bring joy on the daily!
xo,
Kellyann
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That’s so cute! “I can buy myself flowers”! That is so true – there should be joy every single day!
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It sounds like you have some fabulous February goals!
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Thank you! I hope so!
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I will re-stock on some flowers soon. I love that practice of having fresh flowers. I also am working on using up products first. It helped during the snow days to organize my makeup/cleansing products to see what I have in stock. You do such a great job of de-cluttering! I love that all of these goals are practical! And side note, I love seeing scarves are making a comeback!
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Don’t overlook the regular grocery where I found $1.75 tulips! I’m going to look there today. Me too – I make myself use up makeup things because I have a bad habit of wanting to try new products.
Thank you! I have been seeing the cutest scarves in all sizes but the silk kind, you know?
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These are such awesome winter goals- I am sure you will crush them- we are cooking in on Valentine’s night too! 🙂
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Thank you! I can see doing breakfast or lunch out but dinner on a Saturday V Day will be a nightmare!
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That scarf is really pretty! I’m asking this out of genuine curiosity and not to belittle or demean your goals- why do you want to eat lunch out alone and go to a movie alone? I can see eating lunch out alone if you’re traveling for work or something. And I eat almost every lunch during the week alone- it’s just that I’m at home. I, personally, would not want to leave the house alone to eat lunch alone and same with seeing a movie alone. And so, I am curious as to what is appealing about it for you? Is it to do something outside of your comfort zone? Or is it something you just kinda enjoy doing? I enjoyed reading your list! Monthly goals are not something that I write but I like reading other people’s lists :).
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I think because it’s about not waiting on someone to be available and it feels empowering. I never had to travel for work and do that. I had two sisters and always had companions. Seeing a movie alone is something I’ve never done.
Maybe I won’t want to do it again.
It’s just a ‘cuz I can” thing maybe?
Not offended at all!
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I started with a goals list last month and it really does work writing them down. It looks like a good list, good luck! That scarf is beautiful, I would love to wear them but never do.
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Doesn’t it? Glad it worked for you. This scarf is pretty big but there are tons of tutorials on how to tie.
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Good for you!! This is bound to be a joyful February.
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Thank you! I need to respond to your other comment! I got behind when I was sick!
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I always look at fresh flowers at the store with longing, and occasionally pick up a bouquet. Then I remember I have a cat…
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Haha – do they like flowers? Most groceries have a clearance section if you have a high place but I guess cats can get up pretty high.
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This is a great list! Whenever I see people wearing scarves, I think it looks so cute and is a lovely touch to an outfit. Not sure if it chic enough to pull it off.
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I need to watch some scarf tutorials! They also come in so many different sizes – eek!
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You did great on your January goals! I like your list for this month, especially the buying fresh flowers, getting a pedicure, and hosting a game night. I played cards a lot last week when we were snowed in! It was fun and made me wonder why I don’t do that more often. I hope to double date with my friend Kendra and her guy again, and maybe even do a lunch out with Chris, my best friend Missy and her husband Jeff one Sunday soon. I love being with other couples!
Back to you…I can’t wait to hear the color you pick for your pedicure! I’ve been doing mine at home lately, so I redid them yesterday since I was off. I love that scarf! I anticipate seeing it in this week’s fashion files. Happy Tuesday!
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Hi Amy!
Declutter like a beast! Ha! So cute!
I love the alone stuff! I’m still doing that pretty much weekly. I do wish I had friends for happy hour. It’s so hard finding friends when you’re older.
Have a great day!
Missy
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You inspire me, Amy! I took a screenshot of your goals to remind me to be intentional with my own! And, I’m updating my library card. I need to use it more often than purchasing books that sit on my kindle. Once in awhile that works best (for traveling or road trips) but I do love the feel of a real book in my hands!
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