Wednesday, September 11, 2024
Not only is today 9/11 and you better believe I will tell my students where I was and how things happened on this day 23 years ago – that doesn’t seem possible, does it? – but it’s a birthday, too…
It doesn’t seem possible that we have been missing my Dad for almost 6 years. Today would have been his 82nd birthday.
My Dad proudly wearing his Air Force cap while frying curly fries in the fried turkey oil at Thanksgiving – ha! He would make this as an appetizer?

He has been on my mind a lot lately. I still find pennies so often! I hear myself in his sayings that I use in class or with my friends and family. I would like to think I offer his type of sage advice to friends and family, too?
When my mom was sick this summer, my sister Kate got the strongest hit of his cologne. Do you believe in things like that? I do.
In another weird timing story…
My Dad was really close with his cousins and I got to see one of them last October at a wedding. I had texted the cousin a photo I took of he and his wife and just got a response thanking me for it and saying it was good to see me. This text came in literally like 10 months after the wedding but it came in on my Dad’s birthday week. Here is what he wrote:

Isn’t that the nicest thing to receive? Do you believe in timing?
And, now I finally started The Women (on his birthday week) which reminds me so much of my Dad. They even use some of his expressions in the book! My Dad was a forward air controller in Vietnam before I was born.

If you are on a grief journey, I would say that I laugh more than I cry now. I like him to be talked about (and sometimes get upset when people don’t) and it makes me happy. I can tell funny stories. I’m happy that I had such a great Dad!
So, in honor of his birthday today, I would ask this of you and me:
Get excited about the little things! Laugh at a funny name or something funny! Don’t take yourself too seriously. Remember that there are 3 sides to every story – yours, mine, and the truth – one my Dad’s favorite proverbs. I would like to think that I have some of his best qualities.
And now for Hodgepodge with Joyce…
1. When the Hodgepodge lands on September 11th I want to acknowledge that. Will you purposely pause to remember, pray, or attend any sort of ceremony on 9/11? Share any thoughts or memories you’d like to share about this day.
I will talk about it at the beginning of each class. I hope that my principal will have a moment of silence in the morning announcements but I am not sure.
2. Growing up, did you spend a lot of time with your grandparents? What’s something you learned from a grandparent?
I didn’t get to live in the same city as any grandparent. I also didn’t have any Grandpas. One passed away before I was born and one was estranged and I really only saw him/met him once or twice?
I learned how to make mashed potatoes from my Dad’s mom and she was the one I was closest to as a child.
3. What’s your go-to breakfast?
I love eggs! Right now, it’s my Amy McMuffins that I can grab and go with. In the summer I love scrambled eggs with vegetables. I am definitely not a sweet breakfast person. Ok, I can have a bite of something sweet after my savory.
4. Tell us the story behind one of your favorite photos.

There’s so much joy in this photo! I had a mini van (Marty!) from the time my twins were 3 until they were in 8th grade. I loved it! It had so many road trip memories and Tom became a total van convert, too. He used it to go to Home Depot! So.much.space!
Anyway, they figured out they could sit in the back bench seat rather than the captain’s chairs in the middle and as I was driving they released the seat and flipped backwards. When we stopped I snapped a picture.
It was summer! They have their cute little tan lines! They are in their rash guards and trunks! They are the best of friends and I can still hear their cute laughter! I guess we were on the way home from the pool or to the pool. They were at that sweet spot where I could lounge and read and they could swim! Ha!
5. This week Friday lands on the 13th. Are you superstitious in any way? Do you like scary movies, and if so what’s your favorite?
I am not into scary movies. My real life is scary enough. I teach high school. I am superstitious and try not to purposely walk under a ladder or let a black cat cross me.
6. Insert your own random thought here.
I feel like I used up all my random thoughts.
Thanks for reading!
Amy


































































































