Coffee and Cocktails at the Casa

Tuesday, April 23, 2024

This is going to be a really short post because we have no routine! Just kidding – I guess we do!

So, Tom has tried to still go to the gym in the mornings but has not made it every day depending on how much we are up with Eddie Otis. Sadly, I cannot figure out how to do this and still make it to work on time. In the summer, I plan to leave immediately when Tom gets home. In planning for summer, I am keeping Eddie Otis in bed until 6:15. Ernie got up at 5:00!

So, I take Eddie Otis out at 6:15 and then we do his breakfast. He doesn’t want to eat right away but he is so thirsty. I should say he has giardia, unfortunately. It is a parasite and we have had to give him powder on his food and a little pill. This could be affecting his thirst levels, his eating, and his bathroom business. We are hoping to get rid of it ASAP.

So, I have moved my morning devotional reading, blog reading, and writing to the living room floor and coffee table. I also have my coffee there for now. I sit on the floor and play toys with EO before I even think about doing anything on my own. I am also trying to work on him playing independently – lol.

He plays for quite a bit and then he is worn out!

Tom takes over and I go get ready and this guy is figuring out what we do after that:

After I’m ready, Tom leaves for work and then i play or walk EO again.

He gets crated for 2.5 – 3 hours now and depending on the day Jack helps out or I come home during planning to let him out. Tom has also been coming home for lunch everyday. We are saving lots on Tom’s lunches out! Ha! Also, I think Tom misses him and just wants to see him mid-day.

After school around 3:35 – yes, I have been rushing home – he has again been crated from about 1-3:30 and then it’s outdoor play time. I think EO really likes the yard.

We sometimes have visitors and we end up playing until around 5:00 and then get sleepy, again.

We’ve been trying to take him in the car every few days or so to get used to car rides.

I make dinner usually with EO watching me. He seems to really like laying in the kitchen. Then, we do living room playtime again.

A couple of evenings I have taken a blanket out and a few toys and we’ve sat in the yard.

For now, EO can fit on the arm of the most popular chair in the house:

Tom is still going to bed at 8:30ish and tries to take EO with him. I usually follow around 9:00-9:30.

EO sleeps on our bed and thank goodness for our bedroom French doors. We take him out directly from our room. We’ve had a couple of nights where we each only take him a couple of times but usually it’s between 4 and 4000 times each. We lay a sheet down over the comforter and provide a few chew toys. We have the fan on and have noticed EO seems to get hot easily. He seems awfully young to already get hot.

In addition, we keep all the doors closed to bedrooms and bathrooms and my closet – my shoes are not going to be your snack! If he is awake, we are constantly watching him.

So, that’s the routine for now. I thought Tom was the puppy whisperer, but now I think we are too old for this. We literally forgot everything about having a puppy!

But, this face, amiright?

Amy

Friday, April 19, 2024

Whew! It’s Friday and time to link up with Andrea and Erika!

My first favorite is that it’s Friday! I think I only have one 45 minute commitment this weekend so that feels great!

Honestly, I didn’t take any photos except for Eddie Otis photos until yesterday! Just like a new mom, right?

You’re welcome!

He seems to really be growing! I don’t remember our other two labs biting so much. That’s really the biggest thing we are working on right now.

Tuesday night he went to college:

We tried to switch out and see Mason’s theatre showcase but it didn’t work very well. It got started late and Tom and I tried to take turns. At least we tried. We are very proud of Mason for putting together a cool event with another theatre student. That’s Mason on the right.

Yesterday I got to sit at a bar and have a wonderful salmon salad and a glass of wine by myself.

After that, Eddie Otis and I hung out and I got such a laugh out of this photo. He is so small!

Beth got to meet him for the first time. They both happen to have their tongues out in this photo. Sorry, Beth, but it is pretty funny!

And, last night I got to go support my school’s theatre production of Legally Blonde, the Musical.

It was so cute!

Did you catch all my posts this week?

Weekend Top Five, March/April Clothing Purchases, Lipstick Love, and Fashion Files can be yours with a simple click on the red font.

How was your week?

What do you want to see from me in the coming days?

And, don’t forget that YOU are always my favorite on Friday!

Happy weekend!

Amy

Thursday, April 18, 2024

I have a lot of photos this week, but no one said they were going to be good photos. I have been taking them when there is too much light coming in my bathroom window. I will try to do better, but this is real life. I snap what I am really wearing and I only take one picture, usually!

With that said, if Kellyann and Jill will have me, I am happy to link up today for Fashion Files!

Here we go…

I threw this on at some point this past weekend. This is also a testament to how much I’m wearing the Target A New Day extended shoulder tees. I wear one several times a week. The hot pink shorts are from Aerie last year. I really love their stuff even though I am not their demographic. Their stuff runs one size big on me and I should have gone down a size in the shorts. I usually roll the waistband over.

I wore this to a choir event. It is my Umgee gauzy pants with a new TJ Maxx top and my Crocs Brooklyn platform sandals from last year.

Saturday outfit:

This was what I put on to go to a restaurant happy hour with one of my 21 year old kids:

I wore my bourbon earrings because I was going to order bourbon. The pants are super old, the top is from TJ Maxx last year and the shoes are kind of a fun bronzey color from the brand Vintage Seven 8 from Shoe Carnival.

Dinner out Friday night:

I wore my Wit and Wisdom pants, Hush Puppies pumps, TJ Maxx colorful blouse from fall.

Friday school outfit:

Another pair of really old palazzo pants, Target blouse, and I chose silver accessories. Yes, I wore shoes. I can’t remember now what I wore!

Monday school outfit:

I wore a fun orange print (there are oranges and flowers) skirt from LuLaRoe, the lime green Target tee, a white Carly Jean Los Angeles kimono, and my Madewell leather sneakers.

I bought these pre-pandemic inside the Madewell store in my mall and lately they are the ones I’m reaching for. They are a bit wider in the toe box and seem to be the most comfortable for school.

Up close:

Tuesday school outfit:

I wore a really old Chico’s skirt that I got for $5 on their clearance rack, my new ON Malibu tee, my gold Birkenstocks (oh man they hurt by the end of the day – do you think Birks are comfortable?), and my new ON cardigan. I tied the t-shirt with a ponytail holder to give myself more of a waist.

Did you see my post about my March/first half of April clothing purchases? I think I did really well and I am definitely becoming a more discerning shopper.

I mentioned a while ago that I saw these shoes in TJ Maxx when I bought my two new floral sleeve tees:

I went back and got them! I have a side by side of my original ones. I have worn the heck out of them and have gotten maybe three or four seasons out of them? I like the darker color and feel that it is more on trend with the raffia thing for this season. I think I will still wear the lighter ones depending on the outfit. I think this is a good purchase based on my history of wearing the lighter ones so much. The brand is Beach by Coconuts by Matisse. Is that long enough? If you click on the link, there are some really cute styles by this brand! Also, I think you can get these on Amazon for not much more than what I paid at TJ.

I think most teachers can agree that the things we wear at school would never be something we would wear out in the wild. Ha!

So, I think my favorite outfit to wear this week was the Malibu tee outfit, but it definitely was not the most flattering on me. The most flattering was probably the black Wit and Wisdom pants with the colorful blouse that I wore on Friday night. Maybe I needed a bit of a front tuck, though?

Do you have a favorite outfit?

What have you been wearing lately?

Amy

Wednesday, April 17, 2024

Have you heard of LipSense? It was first introduced to me at a LuLaRoe leggings party! I guess that was about 10 years ago? You had to buy it through a dealer/seller but the stuff was great. You don’t need a liner, but you can use one and you do 3 coats (waiting in between each one a bit) and then top with their gloss. You also had to have a special remover.

This stuff stays! The colors are gorgeous. I have used it my own way, too. I put one coat and then a normal color from another brand. The product lasts forever, too. I am kind of ashamed to say I have some of the original ones I bought that long ago.

Honestly I have tried so many long wearing lipsticks and so many of every type, too. This is the gold standard for me.

Here is me with one of the pink shades:

One of the coral shades:

If you do the three coats and gloss, it does not come off on your glass and it stays through eating and drinking.

Exhibit A:

I discovered you can buy it on Amazon and I found some new ones for a great price. Again, you might think it pricey for lip stuff, but it really lasts a long time. Also, I really love lip products!

Here are my new ones:

Old ones:

From left to right:

the remover that I don’t usually need to use and two glosses

If you want to try it, I recommend you get the remover, one color, and one gloss.

Has anyone else tried it?

Amy

Tuesday, April 16. 2024

Ok, it’s time to round up what I bought in March and April so far. I’ve done really well! I think being busy combined with re-introducing myself to my spring clothes has helped me keep shopping at bay.

Target muscle tees – I bought the Target A New Day extended shoulder tee in white, black (2), lime green, and yellow and have already worn all of them several times. These are great! They regularly go on sale for $7 a piece! Even so, the regular price of $10 is fair. I have worn these under kimonos and cardigans and alone, too.

If you are also looking for something that doesn’t come down too low in the front, get you one to try! I ordered a couple of different sizes and they both worked.

Pink linens pants – Amazon

These were too long so I cut them. After washing them, I think the fray on the bottom is perfect and they are going to stay without fraying further. I really like the light elastic waistband on these. I think these run true to size.

Blue pants Umgee – Amazon

I love these pants! I already had them in black from a local boutique and wore the heck out of them in the late summer. I don’t know if they are the most flattering, but the fabric is divine and they feel like a dream and have pockets. I love this gauzy material. Uh oh – looks like the link I gave you has them in a light green and a hot pink. Amy has issues with buying multiples when she likes something! By the way, I did size down one in these.

2 ON graphic tees

One is a little city scene and one says Malibu. I was so freaking happy to happen upon these for $5 each. I don’t know why I love them so much. These are cropped so I sized up a couple of sizes and they have washed really well. This is a really nice t-shirt material. I also bought one for Erica’s birthday that says “Enjoy the Journey” and is super soft.

Cream summer sweater – Old Navy – shown in photo above with the Malibu tee.

2 knit floral sleeve tops -TJ Maxx

Top One – and I should have stopped with this one as it fits better and it’s my favorite:

Top Two:

They were $16 each. The middle is a t-shirt knit and the sleeves are silky materials. I thought these would look cute with jeans or skirts, too, and can be dressed up, too.

I feel really set for outfits for the last 6 weeks of school. I do need to find a new dress but I haven’t had much luck. I think I am set on jeans, pants, shorts, skirts, and tops. It’s a great feeling to look in your closet and see lots of options, no? I feel like my closet is not overstuffed at this point and I see lots of things I’m excited to wear. They may not all look 10/10, but I feel good in them.

Let’s break it down:

TJ Maxx – 2

Target – 5 (just basics – the 5 muscle tees)

Amazon – 1

Umgee – 1 (via Amazon, but a boutique brand)

Old Navy – 3 – 2 graphic tees, and one summer cardigan

I did not add up the amounts this month, but I did really well. Do you have a favorite purchase or outfit?

Amy

Monday, April 15, 2024

I’m linking up with Sarah and Holly to share my Weekend Top 5 today!

ONE

I’m going to call Thursday night part of the weekend – have I ever shown you my latest in my collection of my lightweight beaded earring collection? My friend gave me a gift card to a local boutique for my birthday back in November and I finally managed to spend it about a month ago. I bought these bourbon earrings:

Jack was finally home early and wanted to hang out. I told him about a 5-7 p.m. happy hour at Steak and Bourbon and bonus that my former student bartends there.

We split a wedge salad and I got a $5 old fashioned (thus the bourbon earrings) and

now Jack is also a convert to the butter candle. The rolls would be great alone with that flaky sea salt on top, but the butter candle takes it to the next level. We even ordered the Maldon sea salt flakes from Amazon to have at home.

It was a nasty, rainy night outside and I left Tom with soup and grilled cheese and he got to hang out with Eddie Otis and was just fine!

TWO

Eddie Otis! We are now just over a week of this little guy being in our lives. Saturday he had his first trip down to the river.

Ok – look at that! He’s so little but he’s already acting like a big dog.

He was not afraid at all and went right down to the water.

Can you even?

THREE

Friday night we got to have a nice dinner at Osteria with Heather, Heather, and their husbands Eric and Scott. Blonde Heather was my college roommate – we actually met in the line at orientation in the summer before college started and decided to room together. Brunette Heather – Heather and I met her day one of college and then I realized she was from just across the river from me.

I split a really good salad and margarita pizza with one Heather and forgot to take many photos!

And, it had been Eric’s birthday that week so we celebrated him!

FOUR

College is winding down and we have been invited on campus for a couple of things. Saturday we had a chance to eat Chinese food as a family of four at Joy Luck.

Boy, four years have gone by so quickly. And, what a ride it’s been starting college in the fall of 2020.

FIVE

After many grey and rainy days, the sun finally came back to us! I filled my bird feeders (remember that I just add bird seed to my Kroger order) and put my patio cushions out. I drank some rosé in a jam jar – love doing this – and sat in my favorite chair and read.

My nails look horrible right now. I’ve been taking a two week break from press ons and it’s also worked out with Eddie Otis and washing my hands so much.

What were your weekend top 5?

Amy

Friday, April 12, 2024

It’s Friday! Oh, that first week back after spring break is always a killer, no? Add in a puppy and whoa!

Also, what was I smoking when I thought two puppies at once would be a good idea?

But anyway, all of my favorites this week could be about puppies!

It’s time to link up with Andrea and Erika for Friday Favorites!

Here we go…

Loving my new phone case. I have an iphone 13. It has a built in pop socket!

I also finally re-ordered Seint makeup. I have now been using it for four years. My sister just ordered some, too, and I’m anxious to see what she thinks.

I made pan con tomate this weekend – sooo good!

I was taught to put ham on top!

The Bored Teachers Comedy tour was really funny and I need to go to more comedy shows.

I had been wanting to go to Agave and Rye for awhile and this time it was just mid as the kids say. Mid means not that great. My curiosity was satiated, though!

Before the comedy tour at The Brown Theatre, I had a few minutes to kill and went in The Brown Hotel – so fancy with a piano player. It is where the Hot Brown was developed.

I got a fun purchase at TJ Maxx last week that I forgot to show you:

My patio theme is lemons and I thought it would be fun for entertaining.

And, loving this little platter and bowl from Target!

I’ve done pretty well with cooking this week despite having to watch Eddie Otis constantly. I did baked tacos one night:

It was Erica’s bday at school (well, this was the day before) and I did a little lunch party for her:

She came over to meet EO after school:

Puppy’s first vet visit also happened this week:

He was an angel in the car on the way and then got rave review from our wonderful vet:

Our friends Scott and Jessica came over to meet our boy and not only did they bring him toys, but I also got these cute Derby earrings – so sweet!

Elizabeth came over after work to visit us, too!

She brought us a cute puppy toy, too.

I sent her home with the dinner I had made for that night because she works an 8-5 job! Ha! It was Greek lemon chicken, roasted broccoli, and roasted potatoes:

One night I made a burger bowl with tater tots:

really trying to work on food waste reduction – on the day Erica was gone, I used up veg for this salad

and used pizza bowl ingredients with extra whole wheat angel hair…

so good! I forgot a photo, but I also made spinach artichoke pasta with chicken for Erica’s bday lunch at school.

EO found the down spout and took his first shower! We have had so much rain!

selfie:

Amy

Thursday, April 11, 2024

Ok, it’s Thursday and time for Fashion Files with Kellyann and Jill.

Let’s go back to mid-week last week when we had storms that brought in a cold front.

I tried this on to go to lunch with my friend:

But, I settled on this:

Danskos, Wit and Wisdom jeans, Entro flowery blouse, new Old Navy sweater.

The next day I wore all black as a base – Matilda Jane pants, black Target muscle tee, and my star sweater.

I wore this Friday to go out to eat and to the teacher comedy show:

Kut from the Kloth jeans, Lucky booties, black tee with fancy sleeves, and my fringe vest.

This is what I wore Saturday for puppy pick up day:

And, for school Tuesday I wore my new Umgee light blue pants with one of my new spring break TJ Maxx tops. I bought two essentially just black tees but with fancy sleeves. They are both floral sleeves and I thought they would be cute for spring and summer. Also, do you peep my new floral phone case? It’s a pop socket case so it has a built in pop socket. I cleaned my phone really well, put a new glass screen protector on it, and put the new case on it. I feel like I have a new phone!

I wore the white sneakers you see on the bathroom counter, by the way.

What have you been wearing lately?

Amy

Wednesday, April 10, 2024

I had the best spring break! The weather was insanely beautiful from Friday through Tuesday when the weather turned stormy. Then it was cold from Wednesday through Saturday and warmed up again.

Added bonus for my spring break was that my kids had a college Easter break with no classes Thursday-Monday! Another added bonus – my neighbor was out of town! He uses power tools and blows leaves in all the season for hours on end!

Friday after school I went to Martini’s patio and that was a nice way to start the break!

Saturday we drove to pick out our puppy! On the way home we stopped at Limestone Yacht Club for the first time.

Sunday we (the whole fam of four!) went to Easter at my mom’s house and one of my sisters and her family got to come, too.

Monday I ran some errands which included a much needed pedicure and took Jack shopping for a couple of things. We brought Blaze pizza home for Mason, too. I loved having a weekday to just do whatever!

Tuesday I had breakfast and went consignment shopping with my friend Victoria. We went out to dinner with our friend Eric.

Wednesday I went to lunch with my friend Beth.

Thursday I knew I had to really get the house puppy ready and get some supplies so I did that. Some supplies were things to offer friends who come over for puppy breath!

I refreshed and minimized the decor in the living room:

Friday was my last puppy free day so I was kind of lazy and knew I had evening plans and didn’t want to do to much! I went to dinner with Tom and he dropped me off at a theatre to meet Erica for The Bored Teachers Comedy Tour. Tom was actually my back up. Erica and I were supposed to do dinner but her flight was late so she had to just meet me at the comedy show. Thanks, Tom!

Waiting on Erica:

It was really funny! But, it also made me sad that there was so much truth to their comedy!

Saturday was puppy pick up day!

Sunday was hang out at home and train puppy and then Jack had his choir’s spring concert at 3:00 and puppy went to, but Tom ended up keeping him outside most of the time.

Yes, I guess we are those people:

Monday was Eclipse Day and an added day of break. I eclipsed alone. I kept the door open and Eddie Otis slept inside the whole time then he and I spent a couple of hours on a blanket in the yard playing.

Now we have 7 weeks of school left. Eek! I’m so ready!

I had such a nice week at home! After the kids went back to classes after their Easter break, I had some time in my house alone – no humans and no dogs. It was weird, but I think it was just what I needed. I’m so grateful!

Amy

PS – I am so behind on comments, but thank you for your sweet words. My routine is now all out of whack!

Tuesday, April 9. 2024

I got into a fight with strangers on the internet/Facebook last month. No, not really – but, I did make a comment to this post that declared that a school’s PTA had purchased bumper cars to use in the school hallways for student incentives:

It showed a picture of two teachers trying them out. I cut off their heads because I don’t know them and it felt like the right thing to do.

I’m not sure why this elementary school news blurb showed up in my feed, but I commented that now schools are required to literally run a carnival? I got lots of support for my post, but I also got some, “oh they just want to have fun” kind of things.

So, two bumper cars in the school hallway for students who “work hard”. Let’s say you have 500 kids. What a huge distraction for all involved! The kids who get to ride will be talking smack, the kids who don’t will be fixated on when it will be their turn, the teachers trying to walk down hallways during their planning period will be dodging bumper cars, the custodians will most likely have more to clean, the liabilities when and not if someone gets hurt, and I as a parent would not sign a waiver to let my kid participate so it would cause problems for me at home.

Also, do we want to teach kids to bump into other cars? That might be bad for their driver’s ed course coming up in the future!

How can we teach kids to work hard because it’s the right thing to do and because you will be proud of yourself?

My school recently rewarded the kids who hadn’t gotten in a fight or had a behavior referral with stress balls complete with our school logo. That was fun! I can still hear the balls bouncing in my sleep. Shouldn’t we have given the stress balls to those who fought? Or, to the teachers?

Maybe this is showing my age, but I think we have taken rewards for kids too far.

Sound off in the comments if you have any thoughts. You can certainly disagree with me!

Amy