Monday, October 30, 2023

It’s Monday again and time to link up with Sarah and Holly!

How was your weekend? Did you celebrate Halloween? It’s weird being in this stage where there are no kid activities and we also don’t know anyone who has a Halloween party anymore.

Let’s go back to Friday after school. Ernie and I walked in the leaves. Political signs ruin the fall views for me. Ha!

Ernie likes to do a little back scratch roll at the end of the walk and he looked so cute in the leaves!

I had happy hour plans with my friend Heather. We met at Osteria which you have heard me speak about – it’s an Italian seafood place that has a sweet happy hour deal.

We had half price wine and shared some bread, butter, and frites. Is there anything better? We had only planned to stay for an hour or two, but it turned into 3 hours chatting! We both found out our hubs were fending for themselves for dinner and the night was so lovely, the setting was so perfect, and the conversation was flowing. Her son is also in England this semester and her daughter is getting ready to do Spain in the spring!

I think we finally left around 8! Jack was out pretty late so I didn’t see him. I went to bed around 10 and was up with the birds and wanted patio time before it rained.

I spent the morning doing all the things I neglected during the week. Tom and I also worked together on a few things and he went to start unloading the boat for the winter and I went to Trader Joe’s, TJ Maxx, and the library.

I took a minute to admire the view from my bedroom window as I was getting ready:

I spent a delightful 30 minutes or so in Trader Joe’s. It was rainy and grey and not that many people were there when I arrived, but then all of a sudden it got so crowded! I was so sad to have to bypass the frozen foods since I was still freezer-less. I focused on the produce, the cheese, and a few other things.

I went home and unloaded and made myself breakfast, did a few more chores, and then went back out. Look at all the Christmas stuff! Also, the traffic and parking lot were insane! It really reminded me of shopping on a December Saturday. What is going on?

I left empty-handed and it was a good thing because when I left, the check out line was also of December proportions!

Patience is a virtue, right? I held off and waited (didn’t buy it) and this finally became available. A rainy Saturday and time to read? Yes!

An afternoon coffee was enjoyed on my covered patio…

And then, some popcorn was also enjoyed…

For dinner, we just ate a big salad and a grilled cheese.

Sunday morning, I enjoyed more of my book.

I took a shower and did my legs with this. I put on one rubber glove to do both legs. I hadn’t done this in a long time, but my legs are so, so white!

And, I removed the grey with dental floss. Most popped right off. So, that set lasted 8 days. Only one nail was starting to peel off at the edge. I am super hard on my nails, too.

I replaced it with this black:

I timed it for you, and it took 10 minutes to pick out the right size nail and to stick them on. It took another 5 minutes to cut and file them.

And, that’s about it!

What about you?

I wish I had a chance to dress up and go to a party this year, but my department at school has a group costume we are doing for Tuesday.

Thanks for being here,

Amy

Saturday, October 28, 2023

It’s a Saturday bonus post with Jennifer and Share Four Somethings!

I’m coming to you a little bit late as I waited to finish this post until this morning while sitting on my patio in the mild fall temperatures. Ahh…Saturday….I love you!

Loved…

Nature is really showing off! I hope the overnight rain didn’t speed things along too much.

Ernie and I walked after school yesterday and enjoyed more fall leaves…

We live in a neighborhood with lots of mature trees and it’s important to both Tom and I to have that. We love our trees!

Learned…

I am hoping I am on my last days living out of a cooler. Wednesday is the big day. I learned I can do this, but it’s not fun. Tom has re-stocked the ice and made things fit and we have worked together. I am tossing some things today that have hung around the cooler for too long. It’s going to be so nice to have a brand new refrigerator and I’m looking forward to organizing things! Should I buy some acrylic baskets for the fridge?

Read…

This has not been a big reading week! My book is ok and it will be abandoned today when I get to pick up these two books! I’m so excited!

Ate…

Mason just texted that he misses queso! I got to enjoy some after school this week.

Texas Roadhouse take out was another hit for us…

And, Jennifer and others recommended this and it’s really good. I have enjoying frothing some up! Also, I bought decaf coffee and thought this could be a “dessert” after dinner. I have only done one night so far, but it hit the spot.

Mason’s cooking in England!

I’m pretty impressed!

Enjoyed…

having nice nails all week long. I did this grey mani I did on Saturday afternoon that is still going strong today a whole week later!

How did I achieve it? In about 15 minutes with press on nails! These are not your mom’s press ons from the 80s.

My two favorite brands are Kiss and Impress and I have found them at Kroger, CVS, and Walgreens. Then, I placed an order off of Amazon for a dark blue and a black set. You can find them here.

I buy them in short length and then after they are on, I cut and file them to a more active length, because “short” is still kind of long for me.

Tips:

Cut your natural nail to a pretty short length. Use the alcohol wipe included to really clean the nail. Take a really long time to pick the nail size for each finger from your pack of press ons. Lay them out in order on your table. Do the thumbs last.

If I can do it, anyone can. It’s really easy. They don’t bother me, either. I think they bother me less than dip or gel did. Let me know if you give it a try. I will probably take the grey off today just because I want to try my black or blue ones and I get tired of colors quickly.

What would you share today?

Happy Saturday1

Amy

Friday, October 27, 2023

Ah, Friday! I am linking up with Andrea and Erika for Friday Favorites. I really wanted to take a day off last week and then this week, but I pushed on through. Who else thinks we should abolish the 5-day week?

The road really close to my house has gorgeous trees and with the sunlight streaming through – so beautiful!

Just since I took these photos, the leaves are falling off so I know I have to drive this way as much as possible to appreciate their beauty.

Sunday we went to Captain’s Quarters for a breast cancer fundraiser and it was gorgeous out. This is their charter yacht where you can have a catered meal and cruise:

The idea is to catapult a pumpkin to hit the targets in the river.

Big ol’ boy in a little boat – the dog, not the man.

The catapults:

A photographer took our picture:

I think it was this time last year that my facial skin became painfully dry. I took a break from the coconut oil but got it back out again. I didn’t even think of adding a little spoon, but that works great. You only need a bit and then you rub on your face and it melts your makeup off. I do this before showering. Then, your face is left very soft afterwards. Thank you to Jennifer for the spoon idea. Well, she is responsible for the entire idea. My only complaint is that I smell like baked goods for a couple of minutes before I get in the shower.

Erica made a baked eggplant caprese thing with whole wheat linguine for one of our lunches.

She also made acorn squash stuffed with a ground chicken sausage brown rice mixture.

This week I made white chicken chili and roasted taters, broccoli, and turkey sausage. We are just doing 2 and 2 this week and doing our own leftovers for the fifth day.

I am still living out of my Yeti cooler without a fridge. It is supposed to be here Wednesday. Because of this I cashed in a Texas Roadhouse gift card and split two meals between Tom, Jack, and I and it hit the spot.

Did you see that Kendra Scott has a line for Target?

Erica can’t do happy hour this Friday so she suggested a crazy Wednesday one at the Mexican place right by school. This margarita was big enough to swim in.

And, a bit of queso helps, too…

We had important school stuff to discuss complain about.

So, what were your favorites this week? I will be here tomorrow for Share Four Somethings!

Amy

Thursday, October 26, 2023

It’s Thursday again and time to link up with Kellyann and Jill!

This is actually from last Wednesday. I think I had so many outfits for last Thursday’s post that I cut if off early.

I am wearing my Wit and Wisdom Itty Bitty bootcut jeans, my gold clogs, and a Target blouse from last year or the year before.

I threw on the coatigan and wore it to school but I kept the tags on. I am still debating if I should try the size down. What do you all think? I need room for sweaters but I want to make sure it doesn’t look too big and frumpy. It is incredibly warm. I was sweating!

Tom, quit getting in my photos! This was Thursday and I wore dark jeans that look black from Old Navy last year, a black t-shirt, and my beloved star cardigan. I love the weight of this cardi. While I love the pleather/velvet headband that was a gift, I think it’s too high/big and I feel weird. I need to find a black headband replacement.

And, Friday I wore Target jeans and one of my new TJ tops. You will be happy to know that I did put on shoes! I think I wore my white Reeboks.

Saturday night for dinner I wore my black pencil skirt. black cowboyish suede boots from Target a few years ago, my hot pink cougar top, and then I threw on a light vest to add a third piece and give it a bit more structure. I will be wearing this outfit again! I was very comfortable!

This is what I wore Sunday to a breast cancer event. I bought this sweater from an online boutique a few years ago.

Someone was walking around with an ipad offering photos and this was what she snapped of Tom and I:

Tom has no pink. Many days I accuse him of wearing “50 shades of blue”.

Monday for work, I wore my black Umgee pants and a really old Umgee sweater with my really, really old Tory Burch flats.

And, Tuesday, I wore this:

It was going to be in the 70s after school so I wore a short sleeve top in fall colors with this sweater, Target jeans, and old MIA clogs.

I am intrigued by these Bobs Skechers that look like Sorels but have a lower heel. I have loved the Sorel boots but don’t think I can handle such a heel, you know? I ordered them in black from Amazon and I will report back!

Oh, my nails are still going strong 5 days later – Kiss press ons and I don’t know the name but I picked them up at a drugstore.

Each nail has a peeling that you remove and stick and hold on your nail. Then you are able to cut and file without them coming off. I have ordered a couple more sets to have on hand.

What have you been wearing lately?

Amy

Wednesday, October 25, 2023

Now is the time for those holiday conversations. In fact, it’s probably past the time!

One of the best books I ever read and that greatly impacted me when I was a mom with young kids was Unplug the Christmas Machine. I highly recommend reading this book!

We are not buying gifts this year due to our trip. Jack suggested we each look for a small gift for each other on the trip and I thought that was really sweet.

But first…

Let’s start with Thanksgiving…

Have you talked about who is hosting? If it is you, delegate. Even if it is only family, people do want to contribute. Maybe they suck at cooking? They can bring dessert paper plates, napkins, Solo cups, rolls, drinks. If you are ever assigned these items, that means you can’t cook. Just kidding!

Set a budget. What is most important? If you know the family really cares about a certain dish, then that is a non-negotiable. But, if they really aren’t big into the turkey, you can outsource that or just do a breast or something easier. If they don’t really care about homemade cranberry sauce and they like seeing the can indentations on the stuff that slides off a plate, then you can just do that.

If you are the host, give people an arrival window and a time for the meal. If you know the people tend to be late, then tell them earlier! We all have some of those, right?

I think a theme would be so fun. What about “70s Thanksgiving” – ha! What about everyone wear something orange? That could make for funny photos.

If the weather is nice, encourage people to hang out outside. Bring a tv outside so people can watch football and stay out of your hair.

So, after Thanksgiving, we have about a month until Christmas.

Most of the Thanksgiving stuff applies for Christmas, but I think you can be more flexible with your meal. I like the idea of appetizers only for Christmas Eve and that can include a ham and buns for people to make a sandwich. I like a brunch on Christmas Day. Last year, we did a pasta bar the day after Christmas at my mom’s and it was a big hit! I did a “butter board” for the bread one person brought, each of us brought a pasta bake, my mom did spaghetti sauce and spaghetti, and one person brought the salad. It was a hit with the kids that outnumber the adults, too!

Now remember for both Thanksgiving and Christmas to use grocery pick up or delivery services. This is the time! It will save you so much time and energy!

When you add up decor, wrapping supplies, food, the gifts it can be staggering. With the increase in food, gas, and just the cost of living in general, you may have to/want to scale back your budget. And, what about if you have family members who are struggling? It might be better for you to scale back just so they don’t feel badly.

In my family, we only did grandparents and kid gifts starting many years ago. As the family grew, it just wasn’t possible to do gifts for all. On my side of the family, we have the cousins draw other cousins’ names out of a hat and then they are supposed to observe them on Thanksgiving and think about a gift they might like. We have done the same for adults some years, but in recent years, we have done “white elephant” gifts for the adults. We bring something from our house that we don’t want that is wrapped and then play “Dirty Santa”. The kids have sat around and watched and we have had some laughs. This has been fun in the years since we lost my Dad because he was such a big part of the holidays. I think we all needed a new tradition and something to laugh about. My sister also wrote down all my Dad’s quotes and we enjoyed those.

If you have lost a loved one, think about changing up the holiday in some way. I think it really helps. Gosh, I still can’t believe my Dad is not with us and that this year will mark 5 years. Depending on how long it’s been, your family might appreciate a tribute to the person or their photo at the table. Everyone is different and I think you just have to gauge the comfort level.

I love the “something you want, something you need, something to wear, and something to read” and tried to do that for my kids. We also are big stocking people and I may take our stockings/or use socks on our trip. They would definitely laugh if I did that.

I also liked to do themes and some years my grandparent gifts would be cozy stuff for winter, personalized stationery, or an experience.

I am not your girl for tons of Amazon links, but I hope I have given you something to think about and a few ideas.

Leave your best tips and ideas in the comments and I might re-visit this topic and publish them.

Amy

Tuesday, October 24, 2023

I have mentioned that I have had an adjustment to my schedule changing this year. I was 7:30-2:30 for 23 years! That’s a long time, right? Now, our official workday is 8:30-3:30. I guess I am getting used to it, but I wouldn’t say I like it. You wouldn’t think an hour would make much difference, but it does. I can’t get out of the parking lot until at least 30 minutes after school lets out and then traffic seems crazy and it really doesn’t seem worth it to run any errands. So, work and home. Rinse and repeat. I guess I like having a more relaxed morning, but I get up at the same time basically.

5:30 – go to gym on gym days – Just trying to get this started up again. I was sick, then had fall break, and just haven’t been motivated – to keep it real. I know I need this in my life because I just haven’t felt great. It’s a cycle, right? You are too tired to go, but going would give you more energy.

6:15 – coffee, devotional, write my next day blog, read other blogs, pack lunch, unload dishwasher usually.

I timed myself unloading!

I used to hate unloading, but then I timed myself and couldn’t believe how quick I could do it. I usually listen to a podcast and that makes it better, too.

7:30- get ready for school – I take a quick shower (no hair washing – I do that every other evening), have a 12 minute hair and makeup routine, get dressed. I leave the house at 8 or a little bit before depending on when I started getting ready, unless I have a morning meeting, which is only a couple of times a month, if that.

Makeup first – I really don’t do much anymore on school days.

Not sure why it took me 7 minutes, but I timed it.

Then, hair was done, too.

And, hair only took me this long:

I don’t really lay out my clothes, but I usually have an idea of what I want to wear, so it doesn’t take that long. I leave for school and arrive somewhere between 7:45 and 8 I like to be on the earlier side so I don’t have to wait to park. It just makes everything easier to arrive on the earlier side.

8-8:40 – prep any last minute things for the day and eat the breakfast I brought.

8:40-3:20 – teach, teach, teach with a 50 minute planning period thrown in and a 20 minute lunch thrown in.

3:20 – done for the day, get stuff ready for next day

3:45 – head home unless I have a meeting

4-5:15 – read on patio, piddle around house, do laundry, clean, etc.

5:15 – start dinner after Tom calls to tell me he is on way home. Tom calls like clockwork everyday to tell me he is on his way home. I think he is gauging my mood so he knows what he is coming home to!

5:45ish – Tom gets home – if dinner is done I walk with Tom and Ernie

6ish – eat dinner and hang out in the living room with Tom

7:30ish – take shower, put on pjs, watch a show on my own

9- take my Ashwaganda gummy and head to bed

So boring! I literally do this Monday-Friday but on Friday I do go out for a happy hour usually.

Any thoughts? I love hearing others’ routines!

Amy

Monday, October 23, 2023

Well, you all…it’s Monday again! Why does this keep happening? I am happy to link up with Holly and Sarah for Hello Monday where we share what we did over the weekend.

Also, today makes one week and one day that I have not had a refrigerator! It’s not fun anymore and I no longer have a good attitude. Our new one is supposed to arrive on my birthday, so Tom knows what he is getting me. An added gift to me will be the job of restocking all the stuff.

Let’ s go back to Thursday night and my field hockey girls wanted me to see their region game. The weather was lovely as you can see by my photo.

Seriously, half of these are my girls! And, I taught 3 of their coaches! They won!

Friday after school Erica and I went to Boombozz.

I had an apple cider sangria and it was delish!

We had pretzel sticks and queso and we were starving because Erica’s lunch was so light. We had fish, corn on the cob, and green beans. We were like, “give us some carbs!”

I ordered salad and pizza to take home and then went walked over to buy a birthday gift I needed for the next night. Who is working smarter and not harder? This girl!

Jack, Tom, and I ate our pizza and salad and Jack and I watched an Outlander. We can’t get Tom on board!

Saturday morning I went out in the cool crisp morning for my coffee.

Then, it was hair day! I got new highlights and about an inch and a half off the bottom.

We had been trying for weeks to take our friends out on the boat and we finally arranged it for Saturday at noon. It was heading towards 70 degrees so it felt great with a sweater on. We stopped for lunch and this may have been our last ride of the season. I told Tom not to commit to winterizing quite yet!

We got home around 3 and I did these press ons that I have had for a while.

Then, it was time to celebrate my friend at dinner at Malone’s – a steakhouse. I love steakhouse sides so I ordered a potato and lobster mac and cheese for my meal and had some of the really good salad for the table.

Their chocolate cake is a show stopper! This provided over 6 slices!

We even got a photo with the guys. Why do Tom and I look so short? We also look like we were photoshopped in! But, Tom is smiling! He had his favorite salmon salad so maybe that’s why?

Jack had been at a friend’s house and got home a bit after us. He and I watched Outlander and I couldn’t keep my eyes open toward the end.

I was up bright and early Sunday morning to work on my to do list, my grocery list, and work on trip planning. I booked our lodging in two of our cities (the ones we are staying in the longest and the one where we will be from the 24th-27th) a few weeks ago and made reservations for a tour and three meals, and things are coming together. We are considering not going to London. If we do go it would be after Christmas and for only about 36 hours and one night’s stay. I am inclined to still do London, but Tom proposed just picking another place closer to the previous destination. Sorry I am being vague, but I am not sure if I want to share my itinerary before the trip. I will definitely share it after!

Pretty soon I will work on the other nights’ lodging and the train tickets. The train doesn’t run on Christmas or the day after which is Boxing Day so we knew we had to stay put from the 24th until the 27th.

I also have a Google Doc because of course I do! I enjoy the planning process and researching different locales, but I really have little to no time to work on it during the school week!

So, that’s about it for my weekend!

What about yours?

Amy

Friday, October 20, 2023

This week… I almost don’t know if I should tell you this, but it’s too crazy not to share. I know I have some teacher readers here and others who enjoy hearing about my job. My school ran out of white paper. We only had red paper. Very dark red paper. Red paper that makes your eyes bleed when you try to read from it.

We found out about the paper Monday morning right before school started. The story was that there was white paper in a warehouse, but we were told there was no one to use pallet jacks and deliver it. There was no paper Monday, Tuesday, and on Wednesday it had been delivered but it was in a locked area in my school and also had yet to be delivered to our copiers or communicated to the teachers.

Anyway, being old, I have lots of old school teaching methods. I went “paperless” for a few things, used notebook paper for a few things, and luckily already had a few things copied. I also have textbooks which some do not anymore.

Things just keep getting crazier. That was definitely not a favorite. I tell this story because I feel like there are already so many barriers to this job and something so easy should not be so hard. Does that make sense?

I am linking up with Andrea and Erika for my actual favorites now!

This book went too quickly for me! It was so cute! I was happy to sit outside in the cool weather with my pom pom hat and twenty year old Uggs with a candle and a warm drink this weekend.

Started this next…

Cute cover! I think it has potential but I just haven’t had much time this week!

I was so happy that it was warm enough to sit outside two mornings. I just love this! Sorry I talk about it so much but if you haven’t tried it, it really makes me feel better about being inside a building all day.

I did an orange mani this week.

And, living out of coolers this week has been fun! Gosh, I’m glad we have this Yeti! I am trying to live like a European with very little fridge space and no freezer space. Fresh food every day from the market? I have actually done really well. I cooked Sunday and Monday nights, we ordered out Tuesday night, and I went back to the store Wednesday night for the next two nights’ meals.

Look what this gal made from the old cooler – bacon, brussel sprouts, and whole wheat penne.

But, Tuesday night it was Panera delivery. I got choose two and it was tomato soup and half a sandwich. I cut my sandwich in half again. Sometimes I cut things in more pieces to make myself feel like it’s more food.

Jack had two days off for fall break from his college on Monday and Tuesday and he has been going hard for the last two months, so I think he needed the four-day weekend. He also sings in a church choir every Sunday morning. Two of his days he leaves home at 8 and returns after 8 p.m. It’s an intense schedule but he says he is happy living at home and that commuting is not so bad. He eats meals with friends while he is on campus or they go somewhere close by.

He helped me chuck all the stuff from the old fridge after we unplugged it. I saved what I could but honestly, it will feel nice to get to start fresh with new condiments. Look at your girl making lemonade out of lemons!

This fridge was the first major purchase Tom and I made together and we bought it right before our wedding, I think. We had purchased our home right before that, too. So, this fridge is almost 24 years old. We have never lived anywhere else. Isn’t that crazy?

From across the pond…

Western Union could not have been easier. I sent cash to Mason for only a $5 fee and then his debit card situation has been resolved. – mostly. The bank still owes us some money. We actually sent the physical card by certified mail, too. Thank you all for being invested (hehe) in his money woes.

I got this text this week!

Yup, that’s Mason enjoying a glass of red wine. He seriously didn’t drink before turning 21 and now it strikes me as funny that he is choosing a glass of wine. I hope he doesn’t like it too much, though!

I’m proud of him for finding this meal deal!

And, Jack and I have started Outlander! We are both really enjoying it. Has anyone watched it? I tried to start the first book a long time ago, but didn’t get into it.

This meal was a favorite at school. Erica made an old WW blue plan meal that is a Mexican casserole with ground turkey. It was so good!

And, this meal at home was a favorite, too. I made yum yum bowls.

Spanish Club was this week and it was called “Coco and Cocoa” for Day of the Dead. We watched part of the movie Coco and drank hot cocoa. I used my electric kettle for the hot water and it worked great!

So, what were your favorites this week?

Amy

Thursday, October 19, 2023

It’s Thursday and time for a little fashion with Kellyann and Jill.

What have you been wearing? We have had 50’s and 60’s mostly around here. We also had some grey and drizzly days. I think we are getting to the 70’s next week, so that will be nice. I love this cool and crisp weather, to be honest. When people say they are cold, I’m like, “you ain’t seen nothing yet”. Usually people are cold because they aren’t dressed appropriately.

This is a new blue top that I was kind of on the fence about. It is from a local boutique called Darling State of Mind and it’s one of my favorite brands Umgee. I liked the color and it’s UK blue and I liked the style. This is a bad photo and I hope it looks ok. I did change shoes to closed toe.

I want to point out that I am wearing the other style of Matilda Jane pants that are more like a flare yoga pant with layered detail at the bottom. I love these pants.

There we go – I cleaned my mirror. I wore this Friday to school because it was Friday and I felt celebratory. I made it through the first week back! I am wearing my Target Universal Thread straight leg jeans in short, my cougar? poncho silk top, and my gold clogs.

Saturday night for dinner – same jeans, same clogs, my woodland print blouse from TJ Maxx and a fuzzy hooded vest thing because it was chilly out.

Monday for school I was preppy-ish. I wore the same jeans (don’t worry, I am now washing them!), a white button up, my sweater vest, and my Moo shoes. The Moo shoes are Hush Puppies loafers that are super comfortable. I have been getting lots of compliments on my footwear. People comment on the gold clogs and the Moo shoes a lot.

I thought this was funny. I was in a hurry and Tom was doing his “hair” in the background. I am wearing another pair of Matilda Jane flares in a dark green with a J.Jill consignment blouse and a mustard cardigan from Target. I’m wearing my brown Danskos.

Do you have a favorite? I am enjoying wearing my fall clothes! I love fall colors!

Amy

Wednesday, October 18. 2023

I got this idea while walking around the mall with my friend Beth a couple of weeks ago. I cannot remember the last time I walked the mall with a friend and I thought, “Oh wow, we are like teenagers!”

So, that was the idea behind this post. I am around teens all day and even though they can be annoying, especially if you have to live with them – ha! – I think they also have some lessons to teach us adults about happiness.

-Be selfish – at times. I think many of us are guilty of martyrdom or of trying to sacrifice all of our needs to make everyone else happy. I think it’s so important to take time to yourself. I used to take a day off each semester to go on one of my kids’ field trip and then I had one personal day left for me. I did a Target trip in the evening after bedtime. I had a weekly sitter in the summer so I could run some errands. There are so many different ways to “be selfish” every now and then that are important.

-Prioritize your friends. Friends are everything to teens. Make time to talk on the phone and make regular plans. Text silly things. Just keep up the friendships! It requires work and it can be frustrating. Start small with one friend and maybe build it in to something you and that friend already do. If you see them at a lesson or class, get coffee after. This is why happy hour after school works for Erica and I. We are both already at school and then we go somewhere. It doesn’t require a separate time.

-Be comfy. Gosh, you guys. the teens don’t wear hard pants anymore. It’s so rare to see a teen at school in something other than leggings, yoga pants/flares, sweats, or pj pants. Before it turned colder it was athletic shorts. They have so many cute athleisure things. Maybe we should also be comfier!

-Binge on Netflix, Hulu, etc. and don’t feel one bit bad about it.

-Get a fun drink. The teens and their drinks, right? They have so many cups and water bottles and it’s all about getting a drink like a Frappuccino, a Polar Pop, or a can of Celsius.

-Just go out for a drive. Sometimes you just need to get out of the house and play some good music.

-Make music listening a priority. I am guilty of choosing podcasts over just some fun music. I’m trying to use some of the fall playlists on Spotify.

-Go to the mall with friends and shop together and laugh at the offerings like these “nutcracker shorts” for the holidays.

-Be messy – for a while. I can’t stand it for very long, but sometimes it makes more sense to just wait and straighten it all at once instead of constantly spinning your wheels. Teens have absolutely no problem with a little mess, am I right?

-Be happy with a simple meal. Teens are not gourmets. They seem to be happy with a basic meal from a chain. They love Panera, Taco Bell, and Cane’s or other chicken finger places.

-Wear sneakers. Wow, is the sneaker the “it” shoe right now or what? I also see Birkenstocks and Crocs but only when worn with socks. Ha! I guess that saves needing a pedicure, right?

-Don’t carry a purse or if you do, make it a belt bag. Don’t be encumbered by so much stuff.

What else can you think of that I missed? Do you think there are lessons to be learned from our teens?

Amy