Monday, March 24, 2025

It’s Monday and it’s the last week before Spring Break for me! I am linking up with Sarah and Holly to share my weekend.

Let’s go back to Thursday. Have you made any new friends lately? It’s pretty hard in your 50s, no? Well, I have always talked and been friendly with my principal’s administrative assistant. I taught one of her kids before she worked at my school and she is maybe a year or two older than me. She keeps my school running and she has great style. Well, we talked about doing a happy hour and adding in her neighbor who I also kind of know. I also taught one of her kids. We made it happen on Thursday night.

We went to Steak and Bourbon for their 5-7 happy hour and I was a little nervous just since I didn’t know the other lady very well.

We had the butter candle, of course! We spent two hours chatting and there wasn’t an awkward moment. It’s daunting to take an acquaintance to the next level, though.

Friday was an easy day at school because all the juniors were involved in a junior ring ceremony and then they could sign out.

I came home, rested, and then did a big breakfast for dinner that included grits. Tom loves grits and almost always complains about restaurant grits. He doesn’t want cheese. He’s a grits purist.

I watched – don’t judge – Farmer Wants a Wife Friday night. Lol. It made me chuckle.

Saturday morning – my favorite day of the week! Ahhhhhh – I move slowly, piddle around, and just see where the wind takes me most Saturday mornings. I have been going to get a spray tan around 10 or 11 after I shower. I get medium clear and this time I remembered to cover my face. I ask for another hair net. I think the tan face brings out my melasma and doesn’t look good. Pretty scary!

I did a Kroger pick up. I have been doing them like two times a week. I just can’t get all my shizz together for a whole week.

Then, Tom and I went to a couples baby shower for my co-worker. She taught my kids Spanish 2, also! So, we have worked together for a long time. She looked gorgeous and the cake was amazing.

I had some time on the sunny patio and I am reading this Nicholas Sparks and it sucked me in. I haven’t read one of his in a while. The man can write a story.

Someone asked what devotional book I am reading right now. I found this brand new on a shelf at my mom’s house. My last devotional book made me mad at something I took as extremely chauvinistic. It makes me happy to use something of my mom’s anyway.

Sunday morning was cold but I braved it anyway…

I did my Easter decor and started gumbo. I got the recipe my French teacher colleague gave me and it turned out perfect to simmer on a rainy Sunday.

We went to a classical guitar recital of Jack’s teacher as a family. All four of us in one car!

We came home and I made this to go with the gumbo:

I read a bit more and then I thought I needed to get out before my Sunday ended. I got gas, cash, and went to the mall. Anthro has lots of lemon stuff.

And that’s a wrap!

What was the highlight of your weekend? I hope you had a good one!

Amy

Friday, March 21, 2025

We are still almost a week away from Spring Break! Well, we have four days next week. Both of my sisters are heading into their well-deserved spring breaks today so I am happy for them.

We are trudging along over here. School has not been easy. I wonder if this is God’s way of saying I am doing the right thing by calling this my last year. It’s pretty hard to retire – they need a copy of my social security card, Tom’s social security card, my birth certificate, Tom’s birth certificate, and our marriage license. There is a lot of paperwork to fill out. Unfortunately, I can’t just do my favorite type of good-bye – the Irish good-bye.

Let’s link up for Friday Favorites with Andrea and Erika.

This soda bread is so good and so easy! I have enough buttermilk left to do another loaf so I think I might just do that this weekend! Also, if you don’t have buttermilk there is a regular milk and vinegar trick you can do.

If you have never made bread before, this would be a good first one to make. It ain’t sourdough, but it’s got a really nice rich flavor and you hardly need butter. But, Kerrygold butter makes it even more amazing.

Here is Jen’s recipe:

Ingredients:

• 2 c. unsifted flour
• 2 Tblsp sugar
• 1 tsp baking soda
• 1 tsp baking powder
• 1/2 tsp salt
• 3 Tblsp butter, softened
• 1/2 c. raisins
• 1 c. buttermilk

Directions:

• Preheat oven to 375 degrees.
• Grease cookie sheet.
• In a large bowl, mix flour, sugar, baking powder, baking soda, salt.
• Cut butter in with pastry blender or fork until crumbly.
• Add raisins.
• Add buttermilk; mix with fork only until moist.
• Turn out onto floured board. Knead 1 minute until smooth. Shape into a ball. Flatten into 7 inch(ish!) circle (about 1/2 inch thick)
• Press floured knife 1/2 through the bottom; do again at right angle into quarters.
• Bake 30-40 minutes until golden brown & hollow sound when tapped.
• Cool on wire rack, brush top with melted butter & dust with flour if desired.

I leave the raisins out. No thank you – I prefer my grapes in liquid form, not shriveled form!

If you are in the mood for cheesy, here it is. This chick takes Spanish cooking lessons in the movie. I did some “jejeje” – that is a chuckle in Spanish.

Totally random but I just can’t hate social media. I have been messaging with my old buddy. I babysat this guy a lot during the summer when he was six years old. He lived across the street from me and he was my little buddy, too. He just got the cutest little puppy named Sherman.

If used correctly, social media keeps us connected to people we care about, that we share a history with, you know?

I did two lunches this week for my meal prep partner and I. The first was simply the Irish leftovers! The second was the lemon arugula bagged salad from Trader Joe’s and the lemon chicken breast that is already cooked from Trader Joe’s. Erica loved it.

Erica is really sad that I am retiring but she is happy for me. I have told her I will bring lunch to her window.

Baby got neutered and chipped this week. Here he is all groggy.

Sleepy boy with Daddy.

Ok, I will tell you that I called it the “chip and chop”. He bounced right back and we are trying to keep him calm now.

Monday and Tuesday were beautiful here.

A little rose on a Tuesday?

Highly recommend! I am not sure why I enjoyed this book so much but I did.

Then, I started this…I simply adore the hot pink boots and title font. It’s set in Scotland, too! I think something is happening that I am not sure I can read. Scroll to the next photo if you don’t want a spoiler.

I am pretty sure the love interest guy is a lochness monster that changes back and forth from man to monster. I don’t know that Amy can do that. That’s too weird.

You are safe now if you scrolled…You see this view a lot, but it is a favorite.

Baby being calm.

I tried something really, really delish this week. Have you heard of the Pineapple Dragonfruit lemonade from CFA? The order taker at the drive thru told me there was both diet and regular, but the diet I ordered was pretty sweet. So, he could have been mistaken.

It is really yummy. I will get this again!

I have certain brands I really love and stand by. One of those is Reef. Should I get these for summer?

I mean – it says “from coffee to cocktails”!

For the brands I really like I go directly to their website and look around. Most of the retailers that sell them only scratch the surface of what they offer and sometimes the website offers a nice first time discount.

My list of favorites is pretty short this week!

What was a favorite of yours?

Amy

Thursday, March 20, 2025

It’s Thursday and Fashion day with Kellyann and Jill!

Can we now say I have gotten my money’s worth from my three pairs of wide leg Halaras? Who is tired of hearing the word HALARA? What about my new wide New Balances?

Let’s go back to last week. I think this was Thursday and I wore this white Old Navy ribbed long sleeve tee under and old consignment kimono/poncho thing.

I can’t remember what I wore Friday and I forgot to take a photo!

Saturday night I wore:

Monday I wore the black Halaras, white tank, and old green/white Loft button up.

Tuesday I wore my new Natural Life tee. I feel like I look like a toddler. Does this outfit come in a 3T?

I thought the t-shirt material would be thicker, but I do like it and received a lot of compliments on it.

I was comfortable!

What have you worn lately?

Do you have a favorite outfit?

Amy

with Joyce!

Wednesday, March 19, 2025

1. I write the Hodgepodge questions so they’ll post on Sunday, which sometimes throws me off in terms of what day it is. St. Patrick’s Day will be celebrated on Monday, March 17th. Did you mark the day in some way? Wear green? Make a special meal? Watch or participate in a parade? 

I watched the parade two weekends ago:

I wore this on Monday again:

I ate this for both lunch and dinner – lol:

And I made this soda bread after school Monday, so yeah, you could say I celebrated!

My students did shamrocks and they are still in the hallway:

I plan to celebrate all the things – big and small. I need more celebration in my life.

2. Do you think luck plays a part in your life? Explain. 

I do think I have had some strokes of luck. I think you have to be ready to take advantage when luck finds its way to you. I think it’s actually a combo of luck, timing, and your own scrapiness. I got the teaching job right next to the house I had just purchased and that has made my quality of life so great. But, I had to call that principal 25 years ago, go interview, show her my portfolio, and wait patiently as there was no opening. She called and asked if I would do part time. I couldn’t. She made a position for me because she liked me! And, I stayed for 25 years!

3. Of the 15 green foods listed, which one is your favorite and how do you like it prepared? Any on the list that are a hard no for you? In general do you like fruits and veggies? As a kid did you eat them willingly or did you hide peas in your napkin hoping your momma wouldn’t see? 

Asparagus, avocado, broccoli, celery, cucumber, grape, green bean, kale, kiwi, lettuce, lime, 

pear, peas, pistachios, spinach

I would say avocado, broccoli, and lettuce. I love guac and a good salad. I love roasted broccoli. I am way more into veg than fruit. I think most people are way more into fruit, but I could be wrong. Give me a roasted veg other any fruit.

I taught my sisters to do the canned pea and lima bean in the napkin trick at dinner. In the 80s we didn’t really know a fresh veg. Canned vegetables are not great. My mom loved her canned goods. They worked well in all the 80s casseroles! I think many people did canned veg.

4. What’s something that makes you ‘turn green’? (with envy or with illness… whichever way you want to run with it)

I turn green with envy at photos of people enjoying the outdoors. I want to be there, too. Dining outdoors, reading outdoors, walking outdoors – everything is better outside!

Something that makes me kind of turn green with illness is people who don’t work for what they have. People who just have things handed to them, I guess. I probably don’t know the whole story, but still…

5. Did you spend a lot of time outdoors as a child? Doing what? Do you spend a lot of time outdoors now? Doing what? 

Yes! I grew up in a neighborhood on a lake and we were always outside. We biked, played Dukes of Hazard on bikes, roller skated, jumped rope, swam, explored the woods, built forts in the woods, tried to find the boys’ forts in the woods and I wrote songs and poetry while sitting by my tree in the front yard.

My Dad was running, shooting basketball, mowing, sitting on the porch, tinkering in the garage; he was always outside when he was not working. My mom was indoorsy. My mom’s hair drove many of her decisions and she didn’t want to mess it up – lol. I feel like so many women of that generation were like that. So, I think I got my love of outdoors from my Dad.

6. Insert your own random thought here. 

It’s time to clean and spruce up my patios. We are re-doing the upper patio because the wood has deteriorated! I need to decide the theme/decor of the lower patio area. Will it be tropical? Will it be lemons?

Any ideas?

Amy

Tuesday, March 18, 2025

I decided to document yesterday so let’s see how it went! This could be the most boring thing on the internet today. I haven’t done one of these in a long time.

I am so sleepy lately. I am going to bed a little too late, probably. I fall asleep on the couch around 8:30-9 and finally make myself go to bed around 9:45 or 10.

Therefore, I hit snooze and got up 10 minutes late. It’s ok. I really only have to manage myself in the mornings and play defense with Eddie Otis. He loves to pull my robe belt out.

If all goes to plan, Tom has Eddie Otis outside for his lap around the playground so I can unload the dishwasher while my coffee brews. It’s impossible to load or unload if EO is in the house or not contained because he likes to “help” especially with the Tupperware lids.

Coffee set up ready:

It really is a race against the clock to get it unloaded! I did it!

Then, EO comes in and eats and I get a little blog and devotional time.

Dog hair on the devotional – lol!

The devotional spoke to me yesterday:

“Imagine carrying a heavy suitcase filled with useless things everywhere you went…That is what we do when we carry the burdens of worry and anxiety.”

Little boy stays by my side and plays with toys and we get lots of petting time in, too.

7:30 – Tom emerges from his hour of getting ready. What on Earth takes men so long? We chat about the day and I help him not forget things. He debates which of his 100 jackets to wear. It’s never easy for him to decide.

7:45 – I finally decide it’s time to get ready. I am getting ready later and later and walking out the door later and later as we approach Spring Break!

8:10- Walk out the door after crating EO. He knows when I pack my backpack it’s time. Mason gets up at either 8:00 or a little after so he doesn’t get crated for long if at all. Yesterday he didn’t get crated but got in the crate anyway.

It’s a good day because the person behind me isn’t there and I get to pull through! Spoiler: it is not really a good day and I will tell you why later…

8:20 – Arrive at school, sign in, and head to my room. I have first period planning so I get to ease into my day, eat my breakfast in my room, and check my email to see what fresh new survey, video training, or task awaits me that I didn’t know I would have to do on top of my actual job.

The fire alarm starts going off. There is no easing into the day. Students start leaving the building. Announcements tell them to go to first period and then they will leave again. I have planning but the fire alarm is so loud I am rattled.

I manage to settle down and eat my…

homemade egg mcmuffin.

My planning period is taken up by my post observation conference. I had a good observation but I was too loose lipped and told my assistant principal some of my opinions.

Oops. She didn’t like some of my opinions.

I hurried to the restroom before my first class started.

9:35 – My first class started – Spanish 3. It was good.

I am really glad I had everything ready for this class before I left on Friday. They leave and AP comes in.

I taught AP from 10:30-11:19. It was fine.

I taught another Spanish 3, but only half of it because our lunch is in the middle from 11:45-12:09. I teach 4 sections of level 3.

It was my turn for lunch so I had packed up some of the Irish crock meal for Erica and I for lunch. Neither Erica nor I had a great Monday because we both had parent requests for conferences. Hers was because a kid was unprepared for an assignment and mine was because I told a girl to start her work before going to the restroom and she asks me everyday to go to the restroom. Yes, this is what parents are like today. My girl is not getting homework done and I want her to improve her homework grade.

The lunch:

I taught the second half of of that class.

Ahhhh study hall. I get a chance to do some work in almost total silence from 12:43-1:31. Have you noticed how weird our bell schedule is?

Chug the water when I can. I try to fill this twice a day. That isn’t that much so I try to do about two more at home.

I teach another Spanish 3 from 1:35-2:26. I feel like I have gotten a second wind and this class is fun and they laugh at everything I say so you know I love that.

They leave and I teach another Spanish 3 from 2:30-3:20. This class is great, too. They are my smallest class of the day.

This class lines up at 3:19 and I would like to do that, too.

I talked to Erica and used the bathroom and then it was 3:44 when I got in my car.

Yay! I love when I get a package! I have been getting them less recently so this was a treat.

This is one of the things I ordered.

Eddie Otis and I went outside.

Then, we went inside to make Irish soda bread. EO and I were both so happy that dinner had been cooked all day Sunday in the crockpot.

Mason got home from work and we were happy!

Dinner time! Tom has arrived home and done a lap with EO.

Amy time. I finally feel like my work is done. Ahhhhhhh.

Now it is time for Captain Jason and I.

And, I also have time for all my other Bravo friends.

I make myself go to bed between 9:30 and 10:00.

And, then I get up and do it all again.

I know it’s a luxury to not have obligations after work right now. But, the routine gets old and I feel like I do nothing besides my work work and my home work. So, that is why I plan a happy hour or take myself out for Wednesday errands some weeks.

Anyway… that was my Monday!

Amy

Monday, March 17, 2025

Happy St. Patrick’s Day! Are you wearing green? Also, it’s my sister Kate’s 50th! Happy birthday, Kate!

I am linking up with Sarah and Holly to share my weekend…

By Thursday, it was feeling like Groundhog Day. Go to school, come home, go to school, come home. I guess that is a luxury that some would covet? But, I was happy to have plans immediately after school on Thursday with my friend Beth. The weather was gorgeous and we went to what is probably my current happy hour fave Osteria. It was the first time I have sat outside this season!

Beth spoils me with little gifts and I love this card she gave me.

After we left Osteria, we went in Tunie’s Boutique outlet. I had bought orange gauzy shorts and they worked out great so I wanted to see if they had other colors. I came home with this turquoise – only $15!

Friday was another green blouse – lol. I have realized that I have a lot of green.

I have kind of gotten into a Friday Starbuck’s routine.

When I got home from school my oven reminded me that it was Pi Day.

Mason was the only one who wanted to go out Friday night so we went to my former student’s new restaurant Adelita’s. Mason hadn’t been yet and he loved it! Mason prides himself in picking out good dishes on a menu and he did it again!

Saturday morning it was mild enough to sit outside. Oh, have I missed this. I guess November or December was the last time I could drink my coffee outside?

I am so grateful for reading this winter. I have really read a lot and it’s so much better for me than scrolling or tv. I still scroll and I still watch tv, but I have cut back on both.

I finished these in time to take them back to my library Saturday morning:

I kept this to read over the weekend:

And, I added these three. Tin-Tin, my Swedish reader and friend, told me about The One Thing. I love to have a non-fiction at all times.

I had a great Saturday morning! I hadn’t been to Trader Joe’s since the Christmas holidays if I remember correctly. I went to TJ’s, the library, and I used my Sun Tan City spray membership. I am doing medium clear about once a week if you are interested in trying it.

I had my best kind of Saturday – I read on the patio for quite awhile and then I moved into the living room with Tom and he watched tv while I kept reading.

Is She Really Going Out with Him by Sophie Cousens is so cute and I am almost done!

We spend a lot of time talking about how cute our Eddie Otis is.

I did a shamrock mani:

It rained all day long so I got dressed for dinner in my short rain boots:

Our friends picked us up for the British pub Pints & Union – these are not our friends – was just trying to get a photo of the cute atmosphere:

I mean – no offense – they look like really nice people.

We split some scotch eggs…

Sunday morning was rainy again but colder and I thought my boy looked so big standing guard.

I set my alarm for 8:00 to start Jen’s Irish meal!

You add the cabbage at the end but I chopped it while my cutting board was out.

A little more patio time…

A little meal prep – my week was rough last week with lack of meal prep!

I only left the house once yesterday to do a donation drop off. I did the first pass over my spring and summer closet! I packed up 4 bags.

All day Saturday I was so excited because my sister’s boyfriend surprised her with a little getaway to Cincinnati and I couldn’t wait to hear how it went down! She loves art so I suggested 21 C art hotel and the art museum there. I hope she felt special and had so much fun. I will hear today after school, I hope! I wanted to leave her alone yesterday to enjoy the rest of her getaway.

It was a good weekend. I needed it. What about you?

We have a 5 day week and then a 4 day week and then it will be spring break. I have a half day one day this week so that will help. I’m pretty happy at school with my students when we are on normal routine. I just struggle with not having a little more time at home and to myself if that makes sense.

Also, when my Dad passed away it was right before winter break so I had that time to grieve or start grieving. This has been different. I felt like I needed to get back and it’s been hard to not really have that time. Especially since I am retiring, I felt it was right to get back. Maybe it’s even better for your mental health to be amongst people?

Here is our current struggle…the students have been forgiven 5 school days for the snow and don’t have to make them up, but teachers have not because they are not going to pay us for not working. So, currently, teachers are going to have to work 5 days at the end of the school year without students until June 2. The work will be done, grades will be turned in, etc. I really can’t think what they would have us do for 5 days and with me retiring I am not into creating for next year – lol. I wrote up a proposal about letting teachers work the time or some of the time in a flexible manner from now until May 23 when we need the time. Erica is a union big wig so she presented it and the president is meeting with district officials.

You thought I was just a complainer, but I am trying to be the change. Ha! While going through the change. I think my students are tired of me saying, “do you all think it’s hot in here?”

Ok, thank you for reading and for your comments! I read them all!

Amy

Friday, March 14, 2025

This is what has happened this week…

Unfortunately, I was stuck inside at school all week, but you better believe I was outside from 4:00 on!

Let’s link up with Andrea and Erika, but the sun was definitely a favorite this week.

Other favorites…

Daylight Savings Time hit me hard on Monday and required an afternoon coffee with Erica’s classroom Keurig.

Tuesday I felt so much better but was in a treat yo’self mood and got a 2 shot espresso in a large cup with ice and added Premier to it. Yum! I also got a breakfast sandwich. This is what lack of meal prepping does, no? I have not really had my life together in 2025 as much as I have in the past.

Do you all follow Tidy Dad on IG? He is a NYC teacher originally from Kentucky. He spent some time as a school administrator but went back to teaching because he was so unhappy. I respect that and all of his systems he has put in place. I really like his book!

I sometimes take on too much and don’t like to ask for help. This Enneagram Type 2 description fit me to a T.

I told my sisters I would take on the phone calls, paper work, and thank you’s for my mom’s stuff. They told me to let them know if I couldn’t handle it all. So, the last time we were together we divided up the remaining thank you’s and I asked them to help make a couple of the phone calls that had been hard to make. Maybe I’m getting better?

Right? I miss Eddie Otis when I am gone. He is becoming such a loverboy.

Tom and I took a Target trip this weekend and we bought these:

OMG! We both love them. Have you heard of bamboo sheets?

I have really been into my spring fashions lately and showed them yesterday and I also did a post Tuesday on Spring Shopping.

Here is the other boutique dress I purchased recently. It was $39 and is by the brand Entro. Entro and Umgee are my two favorite boutique brands.

I placed an Old Navy order about 3 or 4 weeks ago and got this fun skort:

this fisherman core aesthetic tee:

Mason said it’s not really fisherman core because it’s just about eating fishy things, but whatever.

And, lastly, I got this off white blouse:

I just love white and off white.

These are just such a classic shoe and I wore them this week. They must run a bit wide because I have no discomfort in them.

They are the Adidas Stan Smith and mine have a gold heel. You can get them in green, gold, or navy. Maybe they come in more colors, too, now.

Apparently Tom ate lunch at a Chinese restaurant one day this week because he sent me his fortune: “Stop searching forever, happiness is just next to you” and his first love Ale 8 soda is just next to him.

He has a red sweater for his soda bottle, too.

If you are in education, you know it was a full moon. Remember the Stanley Cup fight? I found out the cups were full, too. They are all ok, by the way.

I did get to see the gorgeous full moon one morning!

I turned on the porch lights.

We still have two weeks before spring break. Well, 9 school days because we are out on the Friday before spring break.

We almost need the weather to be cold and dreary again to keep the kids focused!

What were your favorites this week?

Amy

Wednesday, March 12, 2025

Thank you to Joyce for the thought provoking questions!

1. March 15th is known as The Ides of March, the date on which Julius Caesar was assassinated in 44 B.C….have you ever been to Rome? If so what did you love most about the city? If not, is this a place you’d like to visit? 

I have not, but I would like to. I have only been to Venice in Italy, sadly. I think I would like to see the small towns in Italy more than Rome, but Rome is still on my list.

2. ‘Rome wasn’t built in a day.’ What project/activity/improvement (of any kind) do you have going on right now to which this saying might be applied? 

Our house for sure! We live in a 1960s ranch and we have made improvements very, very slowly. When we get one done, the first one we did needs to be re-done. We are hoping to get to the kitchen very soon. We are replacing all the floors on the main level, pulling up the little carpet we have in the living room, and painting the whole main level. We are adding cabinetry to our mudroom. Our reclaimed wood (might have been too reclaimed if you know what I mean) porch is deteriorating so we are re-doing that. I hate the disarray of house projects but it’s just a part of doing business. Tom is a perfectionist. He is slow. He has great design ideas. We have two beautiful new bathrooms and a beautiful new bedroom with two big closets so my patience has paid off. He had the idea to put a porch on the side of our free standing garage. I love it so much and thank him for it all the time. It feels like an extra room from March-ish to November-ish.

3. Let’s do a little this or that with some Italian foods…

• Caprese salad or Prosciutto with melon?  Caprese for sure! I don’t like melon.
• Bruschetta or Antipasto?  Bruschetta!
• lasagne or ravioli? Lasagne!
• bolognese or Carbonara? Carbonara if made in a restaurant – don’t trust myself!
• Risotto or gnocchi?  Gnocchi!
• tiramisu~gelato~cannoli?  Gelato!

Now I want Italian food. My Dad always said it “eye-talian”.

4. Of the colors red, white, and green which would I find most prevalent in your home? Which one do you think is most flattering to you in terms of your wardrobe? Have you ever had your colors done? Is that something you’d be interested in doing? 

I love natural wood and white. I also like green. You really won’t find red. I always get complimented when I wear green, but it’s probably the clothes and not how they look on me.

Funny enough, there isn’t much red in my wardrobe except at Christmas. I have a surprising amount of green clothing and I’m wearing it for March! I love white. I am not afraid of white clothing.

I had my colors done in 6th grade and they said I’m a summer. I wonder if that is still true? They also told me that both pink and yellow undertones work with my skin. I would like to do it again but I won’t pay a lot for it. I probably will still wear what I like.

5. Life would be boring without____________________?

Tom and Eddie Otis. Tom keeps me laughing. Eddie Otis brings so much energy. My kids are great, too. They are living here but doing their own thing and it goes in spurts how much we see them between their work and social lives. I was telling Tom a school story yesterday and he said that I wouldn’t have anything to talk about when I retire. I really don’t think that’s true! I think he is afraid of change and it’s coming out in comments like this.

Ok, I will tell you the story…

3 girls got in a fight at school with their Stanley cups. Like, they weren’t drinking out of them – they were using them as weapons. The ambulance had to come.

Today there will be one with Owallas. Just kidding!

I really hope everyone is ok and I have often thought the water bottles that are allowed is getting out of control/gonna cause a problem/gonna have something other than water in them.

6. Insert your own random thought here. 

I feel myself losing patience with dumb stuff at school now. I don’t want to say it’s not my problem anymore but I can see my tolerance waning. Everyday there is a dumb decision made. I would do things differently. I’m becoming the “get off my lawn!” old veteran teacher I’m afraid.

So, what say you about any of these topics?

Amy

Tuesday, March 11, 2025

I can’t decide if I get more excited about spring or fall clothing shopping, but I think it’s spring. We’ve just come out of all the dark colors of winter clothing and everything seems so fresh and so bright, you know?

And, this is the perfect week for this post – we are looking at highs from 64-71! It’s gonna be hard to keep the kids focused, but I will take it over the cold we have had this year.

I feel like my whole life has been a lesson in how to shop well. My mom said that from day one I was obsessed with my shoes. She dressed me really cute but she said I always favored my shoes and wanted to wear new shoes out of the store. My mom taught me to bargain shop and sometimes that can be my curse. I’ve had to learn that quality is often the best bargain because the cost per wear goes down.

Now, I want to have a smaller wardrobe of stuff I really love and feel good in.

Shoes:

I am going to be wearing sneakers to school for the most part for the rest of the year. My feet and legs are no longer willing to take the abuse I have dished out for 31 years. I recently got properly fitted and I am in a wide! I guess the old Flintstone feet spread out. With my wide leg jeans, you really can’t see much of them, so no problem. These are shorter jeans and they just look weird to me now.

These are New Balance 860s. They aren’t that ugly and I went with what felt the best. My feet are so happy!

I recently picked up this nice neutral flip flop from Target and have been wearing them non-stop at home and on weekends.

And, I still love these even though they start hurting a little bit after 5 hours. They feel fine most of the day but then hurt by the end of the day. I guess it’s because they aren’t wide.

Other than that, I will need to inventory my summer sandals and see what I still want to wear and what still fits. This new wide foot measurement may be just the ticket to helping me feel more comfortable in my shoes.

I was ruthless with spring and summer tops. I have 3 bags ready to be donated. I decided they are too old (and some are fast fashion) so my consignment shop wouldn’t take much.

I think I will still wear all my fun printed palazzo pants.

I’m really into butter yellow! I love Aerie’s quality. I purchased this and have worn it every chance I get. It’s like a feminine sweatshirt with boho ties. It runs big. They also just recently recommended it on The Big Boo Cast but I had it first! Ha!

I also purchased this fresh yellow stripe from Aerie.

Underneath is a fisherman core aesthetic inspired graphic tee from Old Navy. I also purchased a green with white trim athletic skort from Old Navy. I find skorts great to walk in or just to look a little bit elevated when you are casual. They have bike shorts underneath and there is a pocket for your phone!

See..the shorter jeans just look weird to me right now.

I’m into graphic tees with cardigans over them.

I’m into gauzy fabric still.

I’m into blouses with jeans and jean shorts, too. I might buy a new longer pair of jean shorts but shorter is more flattering on my leg. The longer length looks more modern to me.

For jeans, I am at the point where I am only wearing my Halaras. They just look the best. I have them in medium denim, light denim, and light black. I am wondering if I will wear the light black in the spring, but I think I will with some blouses that have darker colors.

I have found and loved things from TJ Maxx, Walmart, and Target, but I can get swept up with the price and quantity over quality rather than it being the perfect item for me. So, I do try to limit how much I look at those stores or websites.

I like to check a couple of boutiques from time to time and my favorite brands are Umgee and Entro. I can usually find dresses for $39. I will pay up to $50 if I really, really love the print. I think some people think boutiques are out of their price range, but have you seen Target’s prices lately? They ain’t cheap anymore.

Here is a recent Umgee purchase:

I loved the print and the colors and have a hot pink cardigan that will work with it. I paid $39. I also found a really pretty salmon colored dress last week and paid $39 for it. Dresses are hard to fit me sometimes so I like to buy them when I find one that works.

Shopping for:

White linen drawstring wide leg pants

New swim cover up

More lounge/casual clothes for home – my selection is really old and horrible

New summer sandals that are both comfortable and cute – not sure what I want yet

That’s all I can think of now!

I am trying to do more in person shopping. I feel like I make less shopping mistakes that way. If I can touch the fabric (big deal for me!), try it on, and avoid returns I am happy to shop that way.

I do not believe in waiting until your body is perfect to try to wear what you like and what feels good. I believe we are always worthy of things that make us our most confident selves. And, it helps you so much to look and feel good on your journey to a more healthy self. Can I get an Amen?

What are you into right now? Shopping for? Any brand or store recommendations for me?

Amy

Monday, March 10, 2025

Well, can you tell by my post that I’m not really ready for the week? I have a 5 day week staring down at me (yes, 5 days seems like a lot these days) and we have super nice temperatures this week! Fiebre de primavera, alguien? Spring fever, anyone? I am linking up with Sarah and Holly to share what I did this weekend.

One of my goals is to entertain more. I invited Erica over after school Friday very spontaneously. I had wine, new taper candles, new retro candle holders, and a bag of potato chips, some salami, and some cheese. What else do you need?

Dare I say it was better than what we would have gotten in some establishments? And, it was $ Zero – well it was for Erica! Ha!

Somebody was very very happy to show our guest his big lambie.

After Erica left my fam decided to order Thai. Mason has been getting this beef dish at our nearby Thai place. He loves it. Tom and I always split chicken pad thai and it is enough for four people so it is a huge portion.

I went to bed pretty early and got up pretty late for me around 7:00. I am so tired right now. I am physically, mentally, and emotionally tired. I know many of you can relate to the tired you feel when you are grieving.

I had some Amazon returns Saturday morning and I went and did my spray tan since I have a membership again this month. My goal is to go once a week and just get a little color.

The St. Patrick’s Day parade has become a bit of a tradition for Erica, our old teaching buddy Elizabeth, and I. Some years we have had others join us.

We weren’t sure what the weather would do so our plan was to go to lunch and then see if it was warm enough to stand outside.

We found a newish British pub! It’s called Pints and Union and I can’t wait to take Tom and our friends Eric and Heather.

We decided to split a Scotch egg, fish and chips, and bangers and mash and it was perfect.

It was fun but it was a lot for me. I find my social battery depleting much quicker lately. Well, I haven’t done much, but what I have done is two hours or less. I was out from noon until five. It was too much and I was feeling like I was low energy and didn’t want to affect my friends.

It was great to be out in the sun, though, and I got to wear my green!

Speaking of green, Eddie Otis has had my phone in his mouth several times – don’t ask – and it was time for a new phone case. I liked it so much I ordered a more springy color instead of the emerald green I had.

Pretty color, right?

The aforementioned candles and holders:

I am enjoying these unscented old school candles. I think I got the inspiration from my student in Spain – she has them in wine bottles! They look so cute!

I received a funeral basket of five plants. I ordered these to separate them to try not to kill them.

The candles burn quickly but I love how they look with all the drippings. Am I weird?

Plants that have now been separated:

They will be moved eventually. We are sprucing up some spaces in our home right now.

Saturday night Tom did our taxes and was in a very bad mood. Lol.

Sunday morning Tom and I went out for bagels. Yum!

Then, Tom went to Target with me.

The sun was bright on Sunday and you can see how light the spray tan is here:

I had to change into shorts! I spend most of Sunday reading in the sun! Yay! I also did laundry, picked up groceries, put them away, vacuumed and made dinner so you don’t think I’m sooo lazy.

Tom’s gym friend had just been to Vermont and always brings Tom some cheese. This time he brought him blue cheese and it inspired a dinner of a Cobb salad:

I made potato skins but in the round to go with the salad.

It was a pretty nice Sunday dinner. Yesterday seemed so long! Ha!

Eddie Otis was a bit confused about the time change, too.

“So, like, when do I eat?”

Tell me a highlight from your weekend?

Amy