Monday, May 5, 2025

It’s Cinco de Mayo! How was your weekend? Ours was wet – again! It rained Friday, Saturday, and Sunday! I thought it was April showers bring May flowers? I am linking up with Sarah and Holly to share my weekend.

I almost always start my weekend recap on Thursday after school, but this time I really had a reason to do so. We were off on Friday; it’s a flex day that I worked over the summer. Too many teachers asked off for Oaks Day (the big race on the Friday before Derby) many years ago so they turned it into this. I spontaneously asked one of my Heathers to meet me for happy hour and it was so lovely! Look how cute she is!

I woke up Friday morning and watched the news coverage of the Oaks to see all the pretty pink that people wear for the breast cancer survivor’s parade. The color of the year was magenta! So much magenta!

I got dressed for spray tan, car wash, and hair day!

Before:

After:

Bonus of hair day is I get to talk to Laura, my stylist!

Mason wanted to go out so we went to Con Huevos when I was done:

And, then I went to the store by myself and I went in! Can you believe it?

I literally spent the rest of the day on the patio with Eddie Otis. He was pretty chill and I got to read and…

drink strawberry lemonade electrolytes…

Thanks, Marilyn, for the rec! These are soooo delicious! I love both flavors equally and the glacier reminds me of a Taco Bell Baja Blast. They are from Costco and I also had a Costco delivery that day so I didn’t have to go there.

I watched this on Netflix most of the day.

I received my darling twin niece and nephews’ prom photos. Mia even did her own hair! Apparently emerald green was the color of the year.

Mia and her boyfriend:

Miles and his gf:

We ordered pizza and it was just a lovely lazy day. It started raining and storming around dinnertime when Tom came home from work.

Saturday – guess what? – it was raining! I went outside anyway!

Then, Tom and I left for my hometown.

We had a meeting with the realtor, a few things to fix in the house, and stuff to load up in our car, and stuff to help Kate load up. Molly was coming on Sunday, so Saturday was just one sister and I.

And, I found a penny from my Dad immediately when I went in the house. Kate thinks Molly and I are leaving them for each other!

I got very emotional when I found the penny and over the fact that this would likely be the last time I see the house with stuff in it.

Kate and Molly had decided to take some large pieces, but I didn’t take anything big because I didn’t have space/like my current stuff/have a different style.

The empty spaces looked weird:

That view:

Everything went smoothly and Tom and I felt that we deserved a DQ Blizzard for the ride home. We are fans of Heath.

I got home in time to watch the Derby race on the patio in the rain – lol. I am a broken record!

Then, we ordered Cuban food for dinner and I couldn’t keep my eyes open. I went to bed at 9:00 for the last few nights. It’s a physical and emotional tired that your gal is feeling. I’ve got the typical end of year teacher tired plus the emotional exhaustion, I reckon.

Sunday morning – you are never going to believe this – it was raining!

Eddie Otis was in rare form so I brought him outside and then he barked like a fool so I brought him inside and he stole shoes, the laundry basket for towels, and various things so that was fun.

Sunday morning’s agenda was clean, order groceries, do laundry, organize stuff I brought home from my mom’s house, and just all the catch up things. Tom took EO on a long walk so I could get things done.

We are having an estate sale company hold a sale at the end of May so that was the reason for the urgency of all of us going to the house this weekend. I have never been to an estate sale (I have been to lots of garage/yard sales) so I really didn’t know how it worked. We were given a recommendation by a trusted friend and this week I met him to ask some more questions and sign the contract. He had looked at the contents of the house a couple of weeks ago. We have contracted him to sell as much as he can and then take away everything that doesn’t sell at the end. I am grateful that there are people who have this calling.

We all have about 3 weeks of school left (my sisters are also teachers) and Molly has twins graduating! Kate and Molly finish around May 23rd and I finish with students May 23rd, but then have to work until June 2nd. So, to have this handled for us during the month of May is really a blessing.

Even though I was emotional Saturday, I woke up feeling better Sunday knowing that we have the important and sentimental things with us at our homes.

Boy – adulting is hard.

I can hardly believe we only have 15 school days with kids left!

How was your weekend?

Amy

Friday, May 2, 2025

We do not have school today for the Kentucky Oaks horse race and of course, tomorrow is Derby day, so things are crazy around these parts.

I am linking up with Andrea and Erika to share some favorites from the week; the week went by quickly for me!

We joke that Eddie Otis specializes in linens. Here he brought me about four cloth napkins. Thanks, EO!

There are two faves in this photo. I loved my highlighter press on mani and I have a new pointer finger ring. It may look like an ordinary ring, but it is a migraine and menopausal ring! Ha! It’s only $8.95 so I don’t have much to lose, right? I will let you know when my finger starts to turn green.

I am still thinking about my – let me see if I can get this name right – brown sugar shaken espresso cold brew coffee. It was so good!

New Ista follow. She is adorbs and has some good recipes and tips!

My friend Beth is busy with Derby orders – look how talented she is!

Jenn had a very glowy face last weekend and I want that glow! I purchased this in hopes of achieving it.

After my Tuesday appointment, my friends and I went to House of Marigold for brunch.

The espresso martini looked cute, but it was so bad I couldn’t finish it. It was a weird flavor.

My azaleas and rhododendrons are really showing off. They don’t stay bloomed for long so I am really trying to admire and enjoy them.

I bought a Louisville candle last weekend and it smells wonderful!

I planned three meals this week and that’s about all I could manage.

I made the best salmon I’ve ever made, a new broccoli recipe, and English style Yukon Gold potatoes.

The broccoli sounds weird but it turned out sooooo good!

Good old spaghetti one night – I was able to brown the meat in the morning and that made dinner time super fast and easy.

The other meal was cabbage, sausage, and potatoes. I forgot to take a photo.

A necessary evil of being a language teacher is FOOD DAY! I used to have classes beg and beg to do multiple ones, but these kids never said a word. I had to bring it up! So, it’s for a grade and you have to pick and authentic or authentic-ish dish from a Spanish speaking country. I have an alternate assignment if you really can’t cook, but very few do that. I also suggest that can can “rizz someone up” and ask them to help. That means if they don’t know how to tell someone they like them or they have no game. Maybe their hands will brush up and meet in the dough or something? I don’t just teach Spanish, ok?

One girl who hasn’t done much for months or maybe all year, brought in this work of art – fruit pizza.

They went all out in this class and really enjoyed the food. It made me happy.

I never doubted how much my mom loved me even though our relationship could be difficult. Looking at my baby book and all the milestones she recorded and looking at my photo albums made me feel very loved this week.

Apparently I played pickleball as a baby. So, sorry girls – I did it first!

I lived in Southern Indiana, not Alaska, by the way. The first hot flash I had occured on this day.

While I was busy socializing last weekend, Tom made some major progress. I think he has now put in 8 days on this project.

Eddie Otis stole a gift bag and then got his snout stuck. Karma!

Can’t keep up with the dog hair!

I started Wear What the F You Want this week. I didn’t love the first girl or the style she chose, but I think the show has promise. Did anyone else watch?

This is the time of year at school where we start testing – state and AP tests. So, in my classes I have sophomores through seniors and it gets kind of crazy. One day some girls asked me for coloring sheets when they finished their work.

I thought I would show you the corn one of them colored:

And, then, I think I need to delve deeper into the meaning of this one and I might need to have a birds and bees talk with her:

Is the purple llama pregnant with a human baby?

What made you smile this week?

Amy

Thursday, May 1, 2025

It’s May! I almost cannot believe it! It’s Maycember if you are a parent or a teacher!

I am linking up with Kellyann and Jill to share what I’ve been wearing.

Last Friday afternoon the blogger weekend was starting and it was raining and ugly out. I decided last minute to go with my black Halaras and this print blouse from TJ Maxx.

Saturday was a beautiful day and I wore my yellow floral blouse with my Dillard’s Westbound jeans. I wore my new Target woven Birk looking sandals. Did you see my shoe post yesterday?

Saturday night for dinner we changed into dresses and I wore my boutique find from back in February.

And, Sunday I wore my light Halaras, J.Crew Factory blouse, and J.Crew consignment sweater.

Monday for school I wore Target blouse, blue gauzy pants, and Dr. Scholl’s sneakers – they passed the all day school test. They more than passed. They are so comfy! I had food days in 3 classes so I was on my feet and running around a lot going to get food from office fridge.

I was off Tuesday for an appointment and I wore my other new this year boutique dress. They both came from the Tunie’s outlet and each were $39. I have on an old consignment sweater and the Target woven Birk sandals.

After the appointment, I switched to the cork heels and they were so comfy! They are high, but the platform makes them comfortable. I was able to have lunch and go to two stores with my besties. We thought about going to the track, but there were storms in the forecast and we opted out.

I looked at some of my childhood albums this week.

Lol

What was I scheming here? How to get back at the person who gave me this haircut?

The last time I felt confident in a bikini…

My mom dressed me like a doll. I have more to show you another time. I was the first born so I’m sure it was lots of fun for her!

What have you worn lately?

Amy

Wednesday, April 30, 2025

It’s Wednesday and time for Hodgepodge with Joyce!

1. My very first edition of The Wednesday Hodgepodge was published on November 10, 2010 (linked here if you’re curious). Tell us something about your life from that era. 

My twins were 8 years old in 2010 and I was really embracing the elementary years if I remember correctly and I am not romanticizing the time period. We belonged to the pool in the summer, we watched the nieces one day a week, we went to the library, book store, zoo, park, and school playgrounds. We played soccer and baseball to try our hands at those sports. We had playdates. It was a sweet time for me! I was very happy! I am still very happy, but I just remember really loving being a mom and feeling so grateful. Tom was involved in everything we did after 5:30 on weekdays and all weekend!

My kids would sit with me and “cuddle” until they were maybe 11 and they still will sit close to me now. I loved mornings with them. They would wake up so happy to see me and I felt the same.

2. What’s a song you love that relates to time in some way? 

Jim Croce’s Time in a Bottle was a player piano roll we owned. Yes, my family had a player piano that you pumped with your feet (pedals) in order to make it play. It is still in my mom’s house and will be part of the estate sale if a family friend doesn’t want it. We would sing when we had people over. So weird, right? I really remember the player piano the most in our childhood home and it was not really used in my parents’ home after that. I only lived in two houses with my parents, by the way. I lived in one until I was 5 and then the other house was their house until I was 34 and I had my hands full with 3 year old twins, so I’m not sure how much I was able to get sentimental.

But, the place I grew up is extremely special to me. I know long time blog readers have heard this, but my dad thoughtfully dug up a periwinkle hydrangea from the childhood home and brought it to my current house.

My childhood neighborhood friends are having a reunion this summer and I am so excited! It’s three families that were all really close and only one still lives there – my dear Terry. Terry is like the cool aunt/big sister to me. She moved across the street when she was in her twenties with a 6 week old baby boy and I spent so much time at their house.

The house we are working in right now was never “my” house so my sisters and I have commented many times how this is easier than our special childhood home would have been. And, yes, we were very sad when they decided to move but we understood their decision. It was in the same town but out in the country in a neighborhood with a lake so they wanted to be closer to town.

The lyrics are so melancholy, no?

If I could save time in a bottle
The first thing that I’d like to do
Is to save every day
‘Til eternity passes away
Just to spend them with you

If I could make days last forever
If words could make wishes come true
I’d save every day like a treasure and then
Again, I would spend them with you

And, who doesn’t love “I’ve Had the Time of my Life” from Dirty Dancing?

Now I’ve had the time of my life
No, I never felt like this before
Yes, I swear, it’s the truth
And I owe it all to you
‘Cause I’ve had the time of my life
And I owe it all to you

I’ve been waiting for so long
Now I’ve finally found someone to stand by me
We saw the writing on the wall
As we felt this magical fantasy
Now with passion in our eyes
There’s no way we could disguise it secretly
So we take each other’s hand
‘Cause we seem to understand the urgency

3. May is nearly upon us. When did you last need to yell ‘MAY DAY-MAY DAY!!’? 

At my job! I’m done! Ha! This week my principal had asked me to come up with a “who should teach what” plan. I have been department chair and that position will also need to be replaced. So, there is some department drama bubbling beneath the surface because several people feel entitled to my good classes and my position. You know what? It made me so glad/ready to be done with that.

I also had to call in help with my sisters for some things that I was working on. Kate took over a couple of phone calls and I took the rest of her thank you notes because they have always been the bane of her existence and I have always loved writing – lol.

Our other deal is that Kate is going to work on getting my mom’s two years of Storyworth questions/answers turned into books. I got my mom Storyworth and she loved it so much she did it for more than the year and I think she upgraded to already purchase a certain number of copies. If you are looking for a Mother’s Day gift, that would be a good one! And, how special are her answers/stories going to be for us now?

4. How do you feel about food trucks? Is this a dining experience you enjoy?  Do you have a favorite What’s something you’ve ordered from a food truck? 

Here’s the thing…I am not a big fan. I do partake at the outdoor concert we go to once or twice a year because it is a nice atmosphere and we sit and listen to music while eating. I just don’t enjoy eating out of styrofoam with no atmosphere or ambiance. I guess it can be nice at a picnic table sometimes? I feel like food truck food is really expensive, too!

I love a cute restaurant atmosphere or a patio, you know? I am not opposed to food trucks, but they just aren’t as nice. If you love a food truck, tell me why and I will try to embrace them more!

5. We’re bidding farewell to April…what are three adjectives you might use to describe the month you’re leaving behind. 

Wet – we started the month with severe flooding. My beloved Captain’s Quarters just opened back up Monday. My favorite little farm to table market just opened back up. Our spring break here in town was wet and disappointing.

Full – it has been a full month and a busier month than usual for me. On April 12th I had so much fun with my sisters in our hometown, on April 18th I had such a lovely time with my friends from Spain, and then last weekend, I met and formed friendships with 5 fellow blogger ladies. I am so glad I said YES to fun.

Social – oops! I should have saved all the full answers for social. Ditto! The reason why it was full was because it was social. I feel like I come alive again after the winter and want to do all the things and see all the people. I have several people on my list to plan things with and I also want to celebrate my retirement with the people in my life. More to come on that…

6. Insert your own random thought here. 

Sometimes when I feel happy I say, “I feel happy”. The funny thing is that I usually feel the happiest just doing ordinary things or seeing ordinary things.

Last night I went outside to read after dinner and the temperature was literally perfect. It got up to 84 during the day but when I went outside at 7:00 there was a nice breeze and I just felt so happy to be able to enjoy it.

I still haven’t put any pillows out or any type of decor…I am not sure what I can have out with pup. Also, I left pup inside with Tom so I didn’t have to be on high alert for naughty behavior.

What’s on your mind this Wednesday?

Amy

Tuesday, April 29, 2025

So, yeah…I like to buy shoes. I lost most of my summer ’24 collection to one Mr. Eddie Otis, my chocolate lab puppy. But, I had too many summer shoes, to be honest, so maybe he helped me out?

But, summer shoes are so fun to buy!

Also, I am wondering what my non-teacher shoe wardrobe will look like as time goes on. Will I live a glamorous life of heels? Yeah, no.

Nevertheless, I hope to have some occasions to wear my new cork heels. And, I am ready to not be so dictated by those hard cement floors, you know?

Do you like how I paired them with my very old lounging shorts?

They are probably too cool for me!

I bought these for $30 ish dollars and have already worn them several times.

My Target flip flops are so comfortable and well made. I wear these almost everyday right now for at least part of the day.

I added a new Target pair to my collection. They are really well made and by Universal Thread.

I’m still loving my New Balance and hope to be using them for walking more!

And, I added these Dr. Scholl’s sneakers for $30 something direct from the Dr. Scholl’s website with a coupon they sent me!

They are extremely comfortable and cushy and I wanted something that would work with dresses, too.

Don’t forget today is the day that “Wear Whatever the F You Want” with Clinton and Stacy comes out on Prime. I’m excited to see what it’s all about!

What summer shoes have you purchased?

Amy

Monday, April 28, 2025

Happy Monday! I’m linking up with Holly and Sarah to share my weekend and some of you have been waiting to hear about it with bated breath…

This was the blogger trip to Louisville that you have been hearing about! I had met Jenn two years ago, but this was literally a blind date for me to meet Joanne, Maria, Marilyn, and Tanya!

And, it’s hard to understand if you don’t read blogs (obviously you all do), but I felt like I already knew all of them and they are all exactly like they are on their blogs. So, it was a bit of a surreal experience to meet them in person!

They only thing I can’t understand – I have never been in a group of 6 women (including me) where so many are non-coffee drinkers! Tanya and I are the only hot coffee in the morning people! I mean, my blog is called “Coffee and Cocktails at the Casa” so I love to drink it, think about it, and talk about it. And, yes I do drink more coffee than cocktails.

Marilyn was the organizer and she found a cute little Airbnb in a fun and lively area of town called The Highlands. I checked it out back in the winter and Facetimed Marilyn to show her the exterior.

The interior was cute and had some cool design touches.

I helped Marilyn plan an itinerary and some of it was weather dependent. Also, we are still feeling the effects of the flooding so a couple of things were limited due to that.

Joanne and I were the first to arrive and we prepared snacks while we waited. The car full of Tanya, Jenn, and Marilyn arrived shortly after, and then Maria arrived. Here we are showing our sweet gifts from Tanya of notepads, flair pens, and hand sanitizer in a cute wrapping. So thoughtful!

And now with Tanya:

We chatted and got to know each other and then sat around and shared a book we are reading and I shared mine:

We kept talking and talking and then realized that we should probably get dinner. We ended up at this little Mexican restaurant nearby.

I ordered some really good mushroom and spinach empanadas.

After dinner I headed home. I had decided not to sleep at the Airbnb and it was perfect for sleeping 5, so it hopefully was good for the other ladies.

I woke up Saturday after not enough hours of sleep and made fruit salad (copycat Chick Fil A, I think – you do two cans of mandarin oranges drained, a container of blueberries, and a container of strawberries sliced up – then you sprinkle about a tablespoon of vanilla pudding powder and about 1/4 cup of lime juice) and a low carb egg casserole.

We had to add to that Marilyn’s sourdough and a couple of really yummy Trader Joe’s breakfast treats – a cinnamon cake and a raspberry kringle.

Then, we got motivated and started at Butchertown Market and Work the Metal. It is a huge store with a kitchen section, a fashion section, body product section, garden section, home decor section, and more. It’s hard to describe. It’s a great place for gifts!

We saw a group of ladies from Texas and Tanya knew two of them! They were trying on hats and fascinators so we did the same. When in Rome!

After shopping there for about an hour, we headed to the NULU district which is on the edge of downtown and a vibrant, hopping, refurbished area of shops and restaurants.

These are two different alley selfies.

Then, we browsed a bit but they had to try what was voted Louisville’s best cookie from Please and Thank You coffee shop. They liked it but I had told them about my favorite Penny and Pearl’s so that was the next stop.

We were supposed to have lunch out but we had cookies instead. We all voted Penny and Pearl’s over Please and Thank You, by the way! We had leftover snacks at the house and everyone was fine with just going back. I dropped them off and then went home for a couple of hours. Everyone rested and changed for dinner and then they came to my house to meet…Eddie Otis…and Tom! No one else was home.

We had a lovely 15 minute drive out to the country to Hermitage Farm. It is a lot of things. They board horses, they have a farm store, they do bourbon tastings, they hold festivals and events. and more.

They have a restaurant and we had a reservation to sit in a horse stall!

The main area:

The bar:

The bathroom is really unique and has fake chickens and roosters making noise while you are in there:

Look at Marilyn’s face; I think she is scared of the chickens.

Maria ordered us some cornbread with sorghum butter. The menu is very Kentucky farm to table style I would say.

I had a really good South African red blend with dinner and I should have written down the name!

I ordered the flat iron steak with chimichurri and tri color potatoes.

The owners of the farm a huge local art supporters and big people in the community. After dark, you can go on an “art walk” which is a lighting design set to music. I have been two or three other times and it was just as spectacular as I remembered. At the very end you can see horses running through the trees. I didn’t get a photo of that part.

Then, we drove back to my house and chatted for a bit in the driveway before the ladies went back to the Airbnb.

Sunday morning we did brunch! We were able to sit on a patio! We went to Biscuit Belly. I’m trying to get rid of my biscuit (entire loaf) belly, but you know, it was a special occasion.

I had heard lots of talk of a brown sugar shaken espresso cold brew and I ordered one and – wow – so good!

I got baby biscuits with three types of gravy! Aren’t they cute?

I swear we didn’t eat all day! In between the brunch and the next food event we went to a consignment store where many of us scored some finds! Then, we went out door shopping area where we went to a cute little boutique and some people found something there, too.

We decided on just a little afternoon snack and tried $5 margaritas (some of us) and potato chip nachos!

Wow!

The ladies went to do a couple of touristy photo opps and I went home to my Sunday preps for the week before heading back to the Airbnb for a little more chatting and goodbyes.

What a fun and full weekend! I’m tired! I don’t usually do this much on the weekends. It was a little different for me because I was in and out of my house and I had my normal life to manage, too, but honestly with school in the homestretch and such a busy time, my mom’s estate, and just life right now this worked out great for me. It would have been hard to go away right now.

I feel like I got to know all 5 ladies much, much better and it will make blogging and interacting even more fun.

That’s all for now!

Amy

Friday, April 25, 2025

Is it really true? Is it here? I am linking up with Andrea and Erika for Friday Favorites.

I am hoping for a pretty cocktail this weekend!

Here is a random assortment of things that made me smile this week..

I brought home my mom’s vintage mah jong set and my kids told me they knew how to play. But, as we started they said they knew Japanese and not Chinese style. What? Did you know there were different styles?

We took lots of time to set it up, read directions, and then we finally played on Easter afternoon and it was lovely.

I also admired my new highlighter yellow mani!

Tom worked really hard on the deck this weekend and it’s coming along!

Pretty after a little drizzle…

Then muddy and not so pretty…

It is back breaking work and Tom has already put in maybe 5 full days. He said that pulling up the old boards was harder than he thought it would be.

Blurry photo that I asked Tom to take of our Easter meal. I had a brisket in the crockpot all day, ham, roasted carrots, hasselback potatoes, and rolls.

It was fun to “announce” my retirement on Instagram this week. I had already done so on Facebook. Facebook is my family and friends and Instagram is mostly former students and some friends.

I had this photo of me with a clock and said, “it’s time”…

I was so touched by all the messages that came through and thought of each and every former student and what they mean to me.

As much negative as there is surrounding social media, it has helped me to stay in touch and there probably isn’t a day that goes by that I don’t engage with a former student – not in a creepy way. At least I hope not in a creepy way!

We replaced our shamrocks that told why we felt lucky with our suns which tell what we hope to do and will do this summer. We used the future and subjunctive tenses for any nerds out there.

Big boy tried out the leather couch for the first time this week and looks pretty proud. He has his emotional support chili pepper from Aunt Molly.

I ordered two sizes in these from Target and I really like them! I took the smaller size so I am glad that I had two to compare because I was leaning toward the larger size. They are like nerdy cool, no? They are Universal Thread that does good dupes for higher end brands. Target makes in person returns easy so I will return the other pair.

Wow – my twin niece and nephew tried on their cap and gown for their graduation invitation.

And, Mia had her AP art show. I wish we lived closer.

I feel like I need to add electrolytes on a regular basis – like every day. Do you have any brand/flavor recs? This strawberry is good and I mixed it with sparkling water.

Baby with his elephant…

The excitement is in the air for Derby week as it is only a week away now! Some events were cancelled due to the flood, sadly. The track is open for people to watch the warm ups and then there is racing all week leading up to Saturday, May 3rd – Derby day. I have been several times but only to the infield which is just a big old party! I have also been to Oaks dressed up and on some of the other racing days dressed up. I have been to night racing in the summer and I have been to the fall racing – which I really like. The ticket prices have gotten so outrageous!

Look how these ladies are dressed in 1910!

This weekend is also something you may have heard about in blog land. Jenn, Marilyn, Tanya, Joanne, Maria, and I will be hanging out in Louisville! They did this last year in Nashville, but Maria had her broken bone and I had my kids’ last college play. I have only met Jenn in person a couple of years ago when she visited my city. So, this is like a blind date with the other women!

What was a favorite of yours this week?

Happy Friday and Happy last weekend of April!

Amy

Thursday, April 24, 2025

It’s Thursday and link up day with Kellyann and Jill.

I know you all think I am good at purging and getting rid of clothing that no longer serves me, but I am struggling with my printed pants, my skirts (most of which have print), and my dresses. I am feeling a pull to more neutrals, simpler patterns, and I just feel like many of these items are dated and look dated.

One pair of pants that I probably will keep is these…

I love this print; they are very old from Loft and someone was returning them and I was eavesdropping and I swooned when I saw the pattern and asked the sales clerk if I could try them on. I am wearing my solid black Target blouse. I don’t love the fit or the fabric, but it will do until I can find a replacement. If it’s a school outfit, I am wearing sneakers. You can have a good day or a bad day as a teacher and it’s a lot about the shoes.

This looks frumpy – I think the jeans are looking too big – my normal Halaras. They are a little too long and just a little too big all over and that ups the frump factor. I wore my Aerie yellow stripe and sneakers and my Spain purse. This is what I wore to play tour guide with my Spanish visitors. My shirt is doing something very weird in the photo, too. So, I was comfortable, but when I look at the photos from that day I think I should have done a more fitted piece with the other piece – not too voluminous pieces. Oh well.

I decided to keep the cork! Keep the cork! They are surprisingly comfortable with the platform, they are different than anything I have, and I have recently been reminded for the need of neutral shoes by Susie Wright – my new Instagram stylist follow.

I wore this to go see Macbeth last Saturday night. My light Halaras fit much better than the medium denim from above and I wore them with my new Dr. Scholl’s sandals. I have on an old favorite boutique blouse – Entro is the brand – and sadly, I saw the little pin prick holes in the hem of the blouse so I think it’s time to say bye-bye. I love Entro and Umgee for blouses and dresses. Where do those little holes come from? Is it the button on jeans? Is it the dryer?

Susie Wright says to try not to wash your jeans. I feel like I have to wash mine every other wear and maybe she is talking about the more standard denim because this is a lighter material.

Keeping it real – this is what I wore during the day for spray tan and errands. I try to keep it all black. I broke out one of my gauzy tops. I also love this skort – I wouldn’t really wear these two pieces together normally.

For school one day this week I wore my cream Old Navy blouse new this season and my light blue gauzy pants. I look like a rectangle. Oh well.

So, this week was not a very fashionable week for me. Am I tired? Yes! I don’t know.

I’m starting to feel like my spring/summer shoe wardrobe is coming together and plan to do a post soon. I am also feeling like my clothes are coming together, but obviously not in these outfit photos. I have ordered a couple of things but nothing too crazy.

What looks dated to you this season?

What looks fresh and updated?

What are you enjoying?

Amy

Wednesday, April 23, 2025

It’s Wednesday and hodgepodge day with Joyce!

1. The Hodgepodge lands on National Picnic Day…will you celebrate? Do you enjoy picnics? Dining out of doors picnic or otherwise? What are three or four things I’d find in your picnic basket? 

Well, I did not even know! Now is the best time for picnics before the bugs get really bad. I love eating al fresco. I don’t know how much I enjoy sitting on a blanket anymore; I would prefer a table. I just love a sandwich! Make it fancy and even better – pickles and some unexpected element – brie? Maybe a bottle of wine, some chips, some fruit, some wipes and hand sanitizer!

2.  A time recently where you felt ‘antsy’? 

I feel antsy a lot and I think it’s a form of anxiety. I worry about certain deadlines. I feel like I have to be in charge in so many areas of my life. I have to check and make sure things have been done.

You would not believe all the little errors and annoyances from my mom’s estate business. People messed up little things and caused more work for us.

Tom even says to me, “remind me to _____” and I have started to tell him I already have enough stuff in my brain. Remind your own self!

3. As the saying goes…’when life gives you lemons, make lemonade.’  Do you like lemonade? When did you recently need to make lemonade out of lemons, figuratively speaking?

I think I do. I try to make the best of the situation. I have definitely gotten better at this as I have matured. I used to get very upset when things didn’t go as planned.

I like lemonade especially with vodka or in a cocktail! I will never choose lemonade over water for a non-alcoholic drink. I just love water.

I think my sisters and I made lemonade when we had to cancel our weekend in our hometown due to the flood. We shifted everything forward one week and it was a good call. We were so happy to see my mom’s gravestone done and maybe it wasn’t done the weekend before?

4. Recently five ‘celebrities’ made a brief (ll minute) foray into space aboard Jeff Bezos Blue Origin rocket. Did you hear about this? Your thoughts? If money were no object is this something you’d like to do someday? 

I have no interest in doing this myself. I think the money they paid was insane and could help so many people instead, but money don’t mean brains. There was no point to the trip other than to flex and say they did it. But, this did cause me to read up on it because I really didn’t know anything. Apparently they only went to the edge of space! I like bringing stuff like this up to my students to see what they think. Who am I going to talk to about all the stuff in my brain when I retire?

5. Favorite thing about the ‘space’ you’re sitting in right now? 

I guess that it’s mine and we have comfortable furniture. Tom sees to it that we buy quality things and he looks at details that I wouldn’t look at like the height of the couches – he made sure our outdoor sectional was high enough to be comfortable on the old back. I really appreciate that about him. He is thoughtful and detail oriented. I have a nice couch upstairs and one in the basement that is comfortable. I like my dining room chairs and my outdoor chairs. I do still want a reading chair in my bedroom. I need to put my feet up in all the spots!

6. Insert your own random thought here. 

I can’t believe we are already at the end of April! Time is really flying! I told my students that I was retiring at the end of last week. I am glad they know now and I think I did it at the right time. I have so much to do still- we are having food days in all classes, I have the AP Spanish exam coming up, we have final presentations in Spanish 3, and more. I found out they are not replacing my position which makes me feel better for some reason. We have 6 Spanish teachers and they will only have 5 next year. The language numbers are down which I think is due to the STEM and pathway (medical, engineering, media arts) opportunities but it makes me sad because Spanish has enriched my life so much and two years doesn’t cut it.

It’s starting to feel more real, but I don’t think it will hit me until next August. I think I should stand near the turn in to my school and yell “Suckers!” at all the teachers. Lol.

Thanks for reading!

Amy

Tuesday, April 22, 2025

After a year of a new puppy, winter, and just a busier than I’d like schedule, I haven’t hosted much. This past week reminded me of how much it fills my cup to have low maintenance friends over and to do what I think of as a low maintenance spread.

I have a better entertaining space for warmer weather, but I need to be reminded that people really don’t care what your space consists of. And, when we look at the much smaller spaces of Europe, it seems silly to not invite people over more.

For the last year I have been going to coffee shops, restaurants, and bars more than I have been having people over. And, I only have a couple of friends who host in their homes. It’s funny to me that my friends who have the biggest homes host the least. So, that is something to put in your pipe and smoke and ruminate on, no?

There are seasons in your life where you do it more and less, of course. Friends who work from home want to get out.

I like to always have some cute cocktail napkins and small plates on hand. I really need to update my glassware. All I had for our recent guests that matched were jam jars but they really liked them and said they use them in Vermont, too!

I want the pretty hobnail style! I can be really weird and take a long time deciding on something small like this but I want the right size – not too short and not too tall and I am thinking about going with a very light mulitcolor set. See? I haven’t found that exactly right one yet. If you click on the red font, you will see it comes close, but it’s not quite right.

These were what I had for my guests last week. I found the cute napkins at Marshall’s on spring break.

Sometimes simple is best, you know?

Our drink was tinto de verano which is red wine with lemon lime soda and a lemon slice. I used a Rioja Tempranillo that was around $10.

Ordering a pizza and making a salad is great if you are crunched for time.

It’s always been easy to come to my house for after school happy hours since I live so close. One time I did something unexpected for Erica and Elizabeth and make tater tot nachos in the air fryer.

You could even Door Dash some bar food and it would still maybe be cheaper than going out.

You can have people over for coffee or tea and cookies or cake. Who wouldn’t love that?

As I have an idea, I type it in my phone memo.

There are so many things you can do – have some girlfriends over (or just one friend) and make and decorate a summer bucket list. I think Erica and Elizabeth would love to do that! You could get some nice paper and markers and stickers – why should only kids get to do that?

I think you know this topic is close to my heart. I love feeding people and I love connecting with people.

Here are some posts I have written:

Entertaining at Home – Why you should even if your space isn’t perfect

Spanish Lunch

Summer Hospitality

Hodgepodge of Borrowing from Other Cultures

Mexican Homemade To Go – I need to do this again!

Sound off in the comments! What are your best hosting tips for any type of hosting?

Amy