
Thursday, January 1, 2026
2025 brought some big life changes for me and I plan to stop talking about them in 2026!
My mom passed away suddenly January 28th and I retired July 1st. I lost my last living parent and my beloved career of 31 years (by choice, but it’s still been an adjustment).
January brought so much snow and snow days! I got to work from home several times in January!

It was so fun to get to see The Bachelor that we had spotted being filmed while in Madrid in September! We saw him playing soccer with his date in a plaza in Madrid while we were eating!


And, then the wheels fell off. We had such a nice Christmas 2024 with my mom, and she was doing really well health-wise. She was living alone, driving, going to lunch, playing bridge, making her crafts, making plans for trips, and then she was gone.
So many people supported me through the loss of my mom at the end of January and into the spring and I am so grateful for the love and support that I was shown. Even a text meant so much to me. I then had friends continue to text me on significant days like Mother’s Day.
Look at these beautiful flower cupcakes from my friend Beth:

My sisters and I made several weekends happen to work together on my mom’s estate. We didn’t fight once. That is a testament to my parents. We looked at each of our strengths and divided the work accordingly. Then, I offered to do all the business of the house and the sale since I was retiring. I had known all year in the back of my mind it might be my last year but made the decision firm shortly after my mom’s passing. I cried when I told my principal. I was there 25 years; it would be weird if I didn’t cry! I made him super uncomfortable. Maybe that was payback for all of his Sunday morning emails.
While in my hometown working on my mom’s house, we always got coffee together (chai for one sister) and we developed a love for Culver’s grilled chicken sandwiches for lunch. We did a scavenger hunt one night that we were together for my sister’s 50th birthday and that was really fun! I will forever remember that time as a beautiful blessing to get to have with my sisters.


The surprising thing that happened during that time is that we re-opened the wound from our dad’s death, too. We weren’t just clearing out our mom’s things.

I am so proud of the work we did together and how we handled it. Maybe it’s wrong to be proud? I have learned so much about myself. I have learned that you can love or see someone more clearly after their death.
I was super busy at work and tried to do my best. My students were so sweet. I finally told them I would be retiring at the end of the year right after spring break. One boy said, “the other teachers who are retiring have been phoning it in all year. You aren’t acting like that at all!”

That made my day because I have always taken pride in my work. My Dad told my sisters and I that our 75% is other peoples’ 100% because we are not your average teachers. He was such a cheerleader and supporter of us. He loved that we all became teachers!
I got to host my friends from Spain in April, and it was really special! I hadn’t seen my buddy Rafa for 18 years! It was like no time had passed and his wife and I were instant friends, and his son became besties with Eddie Otis!

I really enjoy hosting on my patio!

I also enjoyed making things for the blog ladies. I brought wine and appetizers for Friday night and some breakfast items for Saturday.



My department celebrated me at the end of the school year with a surprise lunch! They should have told me to dress up a bit!

I had so much fun this summer seeing various friends! But it was a hot one! We didn’t boat as much as usual because of the crazy weather but I visited my share of pools.

I’ve had a really good reading year!
I think my favorite books were by Kristin Harmel…

and The Academy.

Goodness – I loved having time off in the fall when we have such gorgeous weather! I was on my patio or a patio and I soaked it all up!


I fell into a Love is Blind hole and loved Gilded Age for my tv viewing!

I’ve been learning to slow down, be thoughtful, figure out my new schedule, and more. Thanksgiving was hard but I got through it, and it helped me craft what I wanted and needed for Christmas, if that makes sense.
Most of the kids at Christmas:

I am definitely blessed. Thanks for being on this ride with me! I’ve really enjoyed my blogging life this year and that is because of you!
Amy
































































































































































