Monday, October 7, 2024

Let me first start by saying that I took a blog break last week and didn’t tell you this was for Spain because I am very superstitious and didn’t want to jinx anything. Also, I am a bit weird about posting in real time anywhere. This was our fall break and this is the perfect time to travel, really!

So, a little back story. I lived in Spain for a month in 1989 with a family and then again for six months in college in 1993. I got to go back to visit for a week in 1996 with my mom and sisters. But, I had not been back since.

Also, keep in mind that I’m a Spanish teacher so my experience is through the lens of a Spanish teacher.

This was really a dream for me from the minute I had kids to get to take them to Spain. Well, really, I had also wanted Tom to get to go. This was why I was so worried about it. The anticipation of this trip was literally 22 years plus in the making. The decision to pull the trigger on it and go ahead and do it may have seemed a bit impulsive, but it was really a plan for a high school graduation trip since well before 2020! Doing it now stemmed from not being sure what job our kids will be in or where they will be after this year. We didn’t really want to do summer and let me tell you that was a good call. I tracked flight prices for over a year. When Tom’s Montana trip was cancelled I literally bought the tickets that same day because they had gone down to $930 each (and it’s much cheaper in the fall than in the summer) and then I knew Tom would not be spending the Montana money he had planned to spend. And, for comparison, I was seeing $1400 in the summer. So, when you are talking four people it’s a huge difference. Anyway, a lot of back story, but this trip meant everything to me.

I now have a fall break and didn’t have to take any days off, so that was really nice, too.

Also, this trip was a win because I didn’t get sick while on the trip and it wasn’t my time of the month! Ha! I had both of those lovely happenings on my last two international trips – Germany in 2016 and the UK in 2023.

Planning for a family of four is way different than for a married couple. I wanted to make sure everyone had their one big thing. I did it all. I booked the flights, the train tickets, the excursions, and I spent hours and hours on it. I overthought and asked for input but didn’t get much. Ha! It turned out that we split up a few times, but for the most part all four of us were together 24/7 . There will be tired, hungry, cranky moments and you have to remember that.

Everyones’ big things – Mason – art museums – El Prado and Picasso Museum, Jack – private guitar lesson, Tom – catamaran on Med in Barcelona, Amy – everything but seeing my former student in Madrid (and wait til I tell you what else heppened!) and just the daily life stuff. I did want to do a tapas tour but it was going to be almost $400 for a family of four and I didn’t really want to just do that with Tom and I. There were places we didn’t get to, but overall I really think we did a lot in the time we had.

My heart is so full and I am so happy we did it. Take the trip. It’s ok to eat ramen for months after! And, I will try to give you advice if it’s something you want to do.

This trip is also the best professional development I have ever had! I got to see what is the same and what has changed in the time since I have been. I got to eavesdrop on conversations – ha! I talked to everyone! My kids have both studied Spanish for four years of high school, Mason one class in college, some of middle, and some of elementary and the beauty of hearing them speak and ask me questions about vocabulary and verb conjugations was really something special for me.

Our airport here in Louisville is a “fake” international airport. Basically we can’t go anywhere without first going to another airport.

Our trip was Saturday, September 28-Saturday, October 5. We flew from Louisville at 3 pm to Atlanta with only a 1.5 hour layover and then flew from Atlanta to Madrid and arrived at 8:30 their time. The flight was rough. None of us slept because it was pretty turbulent.

Also, you know those $930 tickets? We weren’t together on the plane. The kids were in the same row but across the aisle and Tom and I were a few rows back with him in front of me. We also don’t get checked luggage with our tickets. We had our luggage gate checked in Louisville for free because they said they were out of overhead storage and then retrieved it in Madrid. No big deal. We are a carry on only family and if we can do it in the winter, we can do it in the late summer/early fall.

Wow! Arriving in the early morning in Madrid was majestic.

I am in love with AirBnb. I love meeting the hosts (sometimes you get to meet them and they give you the key and show you the ropes) and sometimes you pick up the key from somewhere like a lock box or a front desk. We made it through customs easily and grabbed a taxi and our host Sergio was letting us drop luggage at 11. Well, that timing was perfect and also it was already clean and ready so he let us have it at 11 – well before the 2 pm check in. He was really nice and this is the gorgeous door! The elevator was just like I remembered in my apartment during college. You open a huge metal door and step in and there is only room for like one or two people.

The other thing is – we need two bedrooms and preferably one of them with twin beds for our kids. We also liked having two bathrooms. Sharing space with adult grown children kind of requires this. The layout of this apartment was perfect.

We loved our residential street right by Retiro Park (kind of like their version of Central Park) and our street had a grocery store, pharmacy, and lots of restaurants. Well, that is basically every street in Spain! The funny thing is that the restaurants are tiny but the street has a huge median and each restaurant has an outdoor seating area that is covered and the servers bring the food out to the median. Our area was really walkable, too.

It is a bit cool in the morning and evening at this time of year. I only brought a black knit cardigan and a beige open weave cardigan and that was perfect. The sun is super hot in Spain and walking around a big city makes you hot, too. Short sleeves were the best call for during the day.

The apartment:

The kitchen had a Nespresso machine and I got a kick out of the 3 brands of individually wrapped olive oil, red wine vinegar, salt, honey, and sugar along with pods to get you started. I did buy more pods at the grocery.

And, yes, I did buy their wonderful less than one Euro baguette (like two baguettes for one Euro), some Iberian ham and cheese to have in the apartment. I guess I like Airbnb so much because I like to pretend I live there!

We had the tiniest balcony, but I loved it! The tree lined median is where all the seating for restaurants was.

So, no one slept on the plane and we all felt pretty wrecked but it was noon and time to get our body clocks set so I said we were going to explore the neighborhood, get something to eat, and then do like the locals and stroll Retiro Park because it was Sunday and this is a big thing they do on Sundays.

My first Spanish coffee:

Why is their coffee so much better?

My former student Madeleine (she is the one in Madrid who is teaching in a school for the year as an assistant teacher) had told me about this cheap chain called 100 Montaditos and so when we walked by I suggested it. We sat on the street and enjoyed little bocadillos (little baguette sandwiches) with salmon, potato and egg omelette, tuna, ham, and cheese with some fries and potato chips. We really didn’t know what we were ordering but we were all starving.

It turned out that we would get this again to take back to our apartment on our last night. It was so cheap! Like our family could eat for twelve Euros? It was all locals, too. And, it was busy in the morning and again in the evening every time we walked by.

Our weather was literally perfect. It was mid-70s the whole week. It did rain when we got to Barcelona in the evening for maybe a couple of hours. None of us packed rain gear and we didn’t really need it because it was such a light and warm rain. Tom did go buy two touristy umbrellas but I am glad I have them as souvenirs now. I will show you a photo at some point.

Retiro Park:

We split up a bit in Retiro and Tom and I walked and the kids walked and we met back up. I am sure I was annoying because I was majorly people watching and taking photos. I loved seeing the families and the old people and what everyone was wearing. Spanish women are so stylish! They are gorgeous! Also, this is weird but I had heard that the police are good-looking and we saw several that fit the bill! In the park, there were street performers and stands to buy snacks and it was all so very Spain! There were girls handing out free Nature Valley protein bars, too. We strolled for a couple of hours and it was really the perfect thing to do on a jet lag day.

Around 3:00 we went back to our apartment and I had done a stupid thing and packed our electricity adapters for the UK instead of ones for Europe. Duh! I asked a waiter where to buy the correct ones and he told me to go to the grocery. I went to the grocery and another guy told me they didn’t have them but to go to the “chino” which means Chinese another block down. I was super confused but went anyway. I didn’t think I would find them since it was Sunday and then did have a lot closed on Sundays. I went in the tiniest bodega with a Chinese man (“el chino”) who didn’t speak English or Spanish. He had the adaptors for way cheaper than at home or on Amazon! I bought four of them and we were good to go.

We rested in the room for a couple of hours and then Ubered to the Templo de Debod. It had a nice view of the city and of the palace. People were gathering on blankets to watch the sunset that would be happening in about an hour.

We didn’t stay for the sunset because we were feeling the jet lag. We went to a tapas restaurant nearby and it was a hit. The owner was from the north of Spain where the tapas are served in huge portions.

There were zero tourists in this place. You could tell it was a locals place. Also, it was a huge advantage to know the language, I think. The people were so lovely to us everywhere we went. We also never felt in danger of being pickpocketed.

My first tinto de verano:

This is red wine and lemon lime or just lemon soda. I like it better than sangria. I didn’t drink much and if I did it was just one drink at a time. I had one sangria, two tintos, one glass of red wine, two claras (beer with lemon soda), and one vermuth during the whole trip. Apparently vermuth is big in Spain and I didn’t know this before planning the trip, but Mason and I tried it one evening. Madrid’s tap water is so good! Barcelona’s is gross. You get bottled water at restaurants in Barcelona, but in Madrid you get tap water and save lots of money that way. We drank tons of water the whole trip. We would refill our bottles any chance we got.

Also, I did the set of press on nails you see above. As I type this I am one day 8 and still going strong.

This was free to start the meal:

It was cheese atop olive oil and these little crackers shaped like baguettes that we got everywhere in Madrid!

And free baby empanadas:

We ordered mushroom croquettes (croquettes are everywhere but usually have ham), some sort of tempura cheese things, patatas bravas (spicy potatoes with sauce – these vary from place to place and we ordered them like almost every day!), and Mason got beef tacos and Tom got broken eggs with ham on top of fries (this was also common). I also got a tortilla de patata but it was the type that was runny and I didn’t love it. We way over-ordered but it was our first dinner.

We Ubered back to our apartment and all went to bed pretty early. Ahh! The beds were Tempur-Pedic and so were the pillows. So comfy! I fell asleep four times in the Uber on the way to the temple and on the way back from dinner. Ha!

Awake with the pajaritos on the second day…

Wow! People of Madrid stay up super late but they also get moving around 7:00. They really don’t sleep much. A driver told us that they don’t need much sleep. Maybe it’s the siesta in the middle of the day? We went to a guitar shop that still observes siesta with hours from 10-2 and 5-8. They definitely have a more balanced way of life. I also heard someone say we crash on the weekends because we are so unbalanced.

I hate blow drying my hair so I washed my hair every night and actually curled it this trip in the morning. My hair loved Madrid’s water! And air! I guess? I also had the sink space for my curling iron. Amy is the fastest to get ready, then Mason, then we have two major slow pokes.

Mason and I went to a recommended chain bakery from our Airbnb host that was a few blocks away. Again, it was all locals and I loved being in a non-touristy area and feeling part of daily life! It is called Manolo Bakes and it was delicious. They did boxes of savory or sweet croissant sandwiches or croissants of different flavors.

We took them back and then got ready for our tickets to the Royal Palace.

And, that’s where we will leave off. Next up I will talk about the rest of day two and try to be less detailed, but I love details! And, this is for my memories so I want to put them all down.

A couple things to note:

It was fun to message with Tanya before I left. She was exactly one week ahead of me on her Spain trip! If you are a fellow blogger, you probably read her blog, too!

We could have been fine with zero cash the whole trip. I imagine this would be different in small towns, but in Madrid and Barcelona cards are taken everywhere. You can also use cash at most places, though.

They hardly take Amex anywhere so you do need Mastercard or Visa.

All you really need to focus on are portable chargers and good walking shoes! Ha! Fortunately or unfortunately, travel today is all by your phone. Your tickets, your maps, your everything are on your phone. I made a bad choice in my two pairs of tennis shoes. I only brought two pairs of shoes and they were both sneakers, but I didn’t pick the right ones. I also needed better socks. You need athletic socks that are moisture wicking. I chose my sneakers that are more fashionable over my Nike Waffles. Bad move. I have fourth and pinky toe blisters to prove it. I walked 9-12 miles each day.

If you are still here, let me know if you have any questions!

I’ve missed you,

Amy

Monday, September 30, 2024

Just letting you know…

Your girl is taking a bloggy break! I hope you have a great week and try not to miss me too much, ok? Ha!

Amy

Thursday, September 26, 2024

It’s Thursday and time for Fashion Files! I am linking up with Kellyann and Jill today to show you what I’ve been wearing.

I’ve been trying to wear everything in my closet or donate it.

In this first outfit, I am wearing one of my LulaRoe pencil skirts, my new consignment Target Universal Thread red tie front top and an old JCPenney Liz Claiborne knit cardigan:

Trying to get those classroom outfit pics:

That night I changed into this for Tom’s work happy hour:

The next day I wore my favorite fall colored but still feels summery top – ha! I wore my brown Matilda Jane flares and my Stan Smiths. I had a long day with a meeting after school and I was comfy.

Friday I wore my spf skort, my Barcelona tee, and my Carly Jean Los Angeles kimono.

And, Saturday for errands and for a friend hang on the boat (sorry for the bad photo; it was really sunny by the time I took it) I wore my Old Navy linen floral shorts, Old Navy gauzy hot pink top, and my rubber Birks. My star footwear of the summer was definitely these silver Birks.

Monday for school I wore a purple pencil skirt and my fun cougar(?) poncho top. RAWR!

And Tuesday for school I broke out the hot pink cougar blouse and my black Wit and Wisdom dress pants. I decided to try this look with the Sambas. The Sambas are very comfortable to me. I think they are stretching out a bit like I needed them to. The back heel can rub on your ankle and hopefully that will soften with time. I have on a pair of thick ankle socks that have a high back tab.

Let’s talk a little bit about confidence in wearing skirts or dresses with bare legs. I put on one or two rubber gloves and do one squirt of this Loving Tan and then massage it in my legs.

It looks tan right away and dries very quickly. I can do this right before work and be fine. It is definitely pricey but it works really well and looks really natural.

It also fades nicely but I can get about 4 days out of it? The rubber gloves are a game changer for me. I don’t have the mitt or anything else you can get to apply it with but the gloves are working well. I prop my leg up on the tub and rarely get anything on the tub. I feel like a professional donning my gloves – ha!

So, tell me about your fashion lately?

Amy

Wednesday, September 25, 2024

Happy Hump Day! I am linking up with Joyce for her Wednesday Hodgepodge today!

1. It’s officially fall y’all…in the northern hemisphere anyway. What are three of your favorite things about this particular season of the year? 

The clothes – It’s a little too soon for sweaters around here, but a light cardigan over a top is about right. I love that sweet spot when you don’t need a jacket yet. But, I do love jackets. I probably need an upgrade in that department.

The fall foods – I am excited to have a pot of soup or chili simmering away. I love pumpkin foods, too.

Mother Nature – I love seeing how she shows off in the fall. It’s such a great time for taking walks and being outside.

2. Your favorite fall fabric-denim, flannel, tweed, corduroy, tartan, polar fleece, leather? Do you own something made with your favorite fall fabric? 

Gosh, all of these sound very hot right now. I am very picky about my fabrics. I won’t wear anything that isn’t breathable. I will have to say denim. I love worn in, soft denim. I do have my two beloved pairs of faux leather pants from Chico’s too. I won’t wear anything scratchy and I am trying to get away from cheaper pieces that are synthetic, I guess.

3. According to Everyday Health here are ten healthy fall foods- apples (flavonoids may improve brain health), pears (for heart friendly fiber), cranberries (helps your body fight oxidative stress) winter squash (for eye health), pumpkin (another great source of Vitamin A), leeks (an anti-inflammatory food), brussel sprouts (full of fiber and anti-oxidants), sweet potatoes (loaded with Vit A and C), parsnips (keep your bones healthy with Vit K), and broccoli (may help prevent cancer). 

How many on the list do you eat on a regular basis? Which one is your favorite? Which one gets a big no thanks from you? 

I eat broccoli and brussels sprouts on a regular basis and need to do better with all the other things on the list. I do love them all. I am more likely to eat an apple that is cut up. I want to cook with leeks and parsnips more. I think I will snap a pic of this list and look for recipes!

4. Tell us about the last time (or a recent time) you experienced a wave of nostalgia? 

I would say probably when a Facebook memory pops up. I have a love/hate relationship with these memories! I love them but they also make me nostalgic. They also made me glad I posted them.

5. Sept. 22nd was National Daughter’s Day. Like mother, like daughter…does this idiom ring true for you? You may answer in terms of your own role as a daughter or, if you have daughters, then your role as a mother of daughters. 

I think it’s hard not to be like your parents in some ways! I always think it’s fun to meet students’ parents and I usually think “the apple doesn’t fall far from the tree”. Also, I never know when it’s these “national ___ day”.

6. Insert your own random thought here. 

I am really in a cooking rut, so I think it will be nice to make some fall foods soon. I will definitely make chili and maybe lasagna soup? I love roasted vegetables, too!

What about you? Anything from the Hodgepodge you would share?

Amy

Tuesday, September 24, 2024

I know so many of you out there are like me and want to offer your friends support when they are going through a rough time.

I have a couple of friends going through it right now and thus this post was born.

My best advice is to not overthink it. Just do something. For years I overthought it.

I have always thought I was awkward in these moments. I say too much. I say the wrong thing.

I try to think of the things people have done for me and how special and loved I felt.

Here are some suggestions and I would love to hear yours, too.

A text – it can be as simple as “I’m thinking of you” and “Don’t feel like you have to respond, but just wanted to reach out”

A card in the mail – it is so rare to get mail like this and I think this can be a great thing

A card and a candle – most of us love a candle

A plant – same!

A breakfast basket or bag – sometimes breakfast food is overlooked but your people still need to eat breakfast. No place is better than Trader Joe’s for this. A pack of croissants, crumpets, a breakfast pastry like a kringle, and some fruit.

If they have school age kids, I think some individually packaged breakfast, lunch, or snack items would be very thoughtful.

A lunch basket or bag – If you know someone is there to answer the door and not have it sit out for too long – a loaf of bread (maybe a nicer deli loaf), some deli meats and cheeses, some chips, and some fruit (this can get pricey with the meats and cheeses)

Warm cookies

Cold cookies

Crumbl cookies – my friend wrote a sweet message in Sharpie on the outside of the box

Really can you go wrong with cookies?

A very specific offer:

“Can I let your dog out/walk your dog?”

“Can I pick up kid for you?”

I think sometimes “let me know if you need anything” can be too vague so picking a specific thing can be really helpful.

Other things I think are helpful:

“I’m here if you feel like talking”

“I can take you out for a happy hour if you need to get out”

I gave one friend a card and a fall candle and the other a bag of fall goodies/snacks from Trader Joe’s and Target. I had a Mrs. Meyer’s soap and breakfast things from Trader Joe’s along with some maple kettle corn. I had the really good popcorn from Target. She was going to have her daughter and her college friends and I thought they could use the snacks and breakfast foods. I left it on her porch and left and then texted her husband.

Anyway, my best advice is to just say something and do something and not overthink it!

What are your tips?

Amy

Monday, September 23, 2024

How was your weekend? Oh summer did not want to let go around here. It was hot, hot, hot Friday and especially Saturday! Yesterday felt a little better for the first day of fall. Can you believe it’s officially fall now?

I am linking up with Holly and Sarah for Hello Monday!

We need to get the boat trailer fixed so Tom I borrowing a slip in this marina from his bro-in-law. He picked me up after work (without letting EO know – haha) and we went down to check on the vessel.

He said let’s go out so I purchased some chips and queso from the little restaurant along with an Arnold Palmer (no alcohol) for Tom and a couple of seltzers for me.

We never do evening boating and we really should do it. Look how pretty!

I was also getting messages from one student in Spain who is at a wine festival! How fun!

You have to wear a white shirt, red bandana, and drink your wine out of the weird bag! I will be talking about my girls Ali, Madeleine, and Avery. Unfortunately I didn’t get to see Avery before she left but we have messaged.

Saturday morning was get the house in order time and it included a closet cleanout, a Goodwill drop off, and a Target and Trader Joe’s stop.

Target had a cute Hispanic Heritage Month display. I will show my students, of course!

I got home and call me Kevin McCallister (that is not how I thought it was spelled; had to look it up!) because I was home alone! I can’t remember the last time that happened! There was not even a chocolate lab puppy! Tom and EO were at the river and the 22 year olds had plans to hang with friends (one) and work (the other).

We had plans to take friends out on the boat from the marina around 4:00 so I had a little time for a little siesta in honor of Hispanic Heritage Month, of course.

Well, womp womp. The boat was overheating so we just sat on it and sweat. I think it was the hottest I was all summer on the last official day of summer. Finally we gave up the ghost (is that the term?) and went to the little restaurant.

We had a lot of fun catching up with my number one male reader (Dan!) and wife Kara. After we said bye, Tom and I went back down to secure the boat.

Sunday I was both lazy and productive. I changed out my tropical placemats for my leaf placemats that still don’t look super fall-ish.

I have decided to just be even more minimalist because this weekend, Eddie Otis ate a stick of butter, my women’s gummy multivitamins, a Tul gel pen, and the Fire Stick remote. Well, we managed to get the remote before he could actually swallow it.

We have never had dogs that do this. I was so smug.

I had lots of reading time yesterday. It felt nice on the patio and I can never put an Elin down.

I did a Kroger pick up:

The face of someone who ate a stick of butter but got his multivitamin in…

I couldn’t take my fading Funny Bunny pedicure any longer and took myself to the nail salon Sunday afternoon. I was looking for a navy or a burgundy and I picked this one up and low and behold…

It is a dark purple/mauve with a nice iridescence to it. It looks way different in person than in photos, I think.

I picked up Thai food after because it was just too late to cook!

And, that’s a wrap. It was a nice weekend. I found some time to re-charge my batteries. It was a hard week!

Tell me the highlight of yours!

Amy

Friday, September 20, 2024

Wow! September literally flew, did it not? I am happy to link up with Andrea and Erika to share some things that made me happy this week.

First off, I finished this on Sunday. I would say it dragged a bit about 3/4 of the way in and I think it could have been shorter. But, I really liked the story and I feel like I learned and became curious about something I really hadn’t known about before.

I did something nice for my friend Heather and she reciprocated with this bag of popcorn left on my porch. Have you all tried it? It is the best bagged popcorn I have ever tried! It makes Simply Pop taste like packing peanuts.

Monday at school was rough. We found out we had had a gun threat and we would be on a level 3 security level. Our attendance was very low that day but only a handful of teachers stayed at home and the students that were there were wonderful and we did business as usual but did not let students out of class as much.

Ugh – I thought incorrectly that metal detectors would keep this from happening, I guess. I literally sat in my dark classroom during my planning that day because I was just kind of depressed about it.

And, I don’t blame parents for keeping their kids at home. I probably would, too.

Look what came in for me at the library! I fought traffic to go pick it up after school on Wednesday!

I ordered the classic Sambas! I love them! The sizing is super weird and I’m hoping they stretch out just a bit. If you order them, I am normally an 8 and I got a 6.5. I did not find the platforms to be comfortable at all and my heel slipped out.

I wore these to school one day this week. I can’t believe how much the kids love them. I have students that I don’t know stop me.

I saw little milk like England has in the store recently!

Take the time to send that text. Look at the sweet text from my friend Dan:

I’m pretty sure he only talked to one person. It made my day!

Oh my gosh! Does my city know I just finished Mormon Wives? We are getting a Swig dirty soda place.

I ordered a fall candle from local Lendenwood Goods. Love it!

I ordered a new Donna Karan that came with a perfume of the same scent for the same price as just the deodorant. I dated my last stick and it’s still going. Actually, it was $4 less!

My co-worker told me that these were really good and she was so right! I heated in the oven on my air fryer setting and we had them with a burrito bowl this week.

Tom’s co-worker had a happy hour after work and I met Tom. What a lovely setting!

Erica sent this to me. This may be the fall bucket list you’ve been looking for!

Haha!

I hope you have many favorites from this week!

Amy

Thursday, September 19, 2024

It’s Thursday and time for Fashion Files with Jill and Kellyann.

It’s summer again here! It’s been in the mid-high 80s lately. I feel a bit weird wearing too much white or too summery clothing after Labor Day even though I know it’s no longer taboo. Do you?

I have a student who works at one of my consignment stores and she gave me a $5 coupon so I went in and bought two graphic tees – one that says Paris (J.Crew) and one that says Nashville. I also bought a Target red twist front tee that I thought would be a good solid.

I told you I was going to try to take classroom photos! Here is the Nashville tee and I am holding a cookie to say thank you to a friend for giving it to me. This is my first time breaking out the Matilda Janes and they are so cool (temperature) and comfortable. I don’t love this, but I was comfy.

When I was visiting my mom in my hometown, I went in the cutest boutique and bought a new dress and a new top. I was not planning on it, but I loved them.

Here is the dress:

One day last week I wore this TJ Maxx blouse with my gauzy pants and my Stan Smiths:

Here is what I wore Saturday to shop in the little boutique and to visit my mom:

And, here is the top I bought at the boutique:

The top is bright and cheery and feels very me. Yeah, remember when I said I want more neutrals? The heart wants what it wants.

And, look at my online splurge!

I was trying them out to make sure I got the right size. They are so comfortable! I guess I have learned I’m not a platform shoe girl. I think everyones’ feet are just so different, you know?

Also, my legs are really tan because of Loving Tan. I put on one or two rubber gloves to apply it (I didn’t buy the mitt) and it’s pretty amazing what only a very small amount of the mousse can do. I bought the medium shade.

I like my outfits a lot more this week! Also, I am getting ruthless in my closet. If I didn’t wear it this summer, it is going. It’s hard but I think it is worth it and will make me feel that I have a lot more to choose from and I will be able to see my things!

This is a hard time of year to get dressed. I am looking at my dresses, skirts, and my short sleeve or long sleeve but light weight blouses right now.

What about you? What have you been wearing?

Amy

Wednesday, September 18, 2024

I sure am glad Joyce does this link up because some weeks I am out of blog post ideas! Thanks, Joyce!

A “pencil” that I received at a meeting:

1. Something that’s had you ‘chuffed to bits’ recently? 

Well, meetings that could have and should have been emails would top my list right now at the beginning of the school year. Also, for some reason my admin is all about rotating at meetings. I am not talking about me having to spin around in circles, but it almost feels that way.

So, we had 2 or 3 days before school started where we rotated from classroom to classroom to “get information”. That’s it. There’s nothing creative; you simply move your body to have someone talk at you. So, I totally expect that in those teacher days before students come. They seem unprepared for the stuff teachers really need to know so instead of giving us more time to actually get ready to do our job they pull stuff out of their bums.

But, this week for our faculty meeting we had to rotate to three different classrooms after school to “sit and get”. Isn’t it more efficient to just be in one place and have the three presenters present once each? It feels condescending and it wastes my time. I also feel bad for the presenters that are literally repeating themselves thrice. I really think people should use the word thrice more often.

Do I sound like I have a bad attitude? I don’t about my students and my classes but I do about this kind of stuff. Still, I try to come with positive body language and I keep a poker face.

2. Tell us about an instance recently where you were tempted to ‘throw a wobbly’ (expression used to describe tantrums thrown, usually by adults or people who should know better) 

I guess it would be about the above. I really do not like meetings for meetings’ sake. Just because you can meet doesn’t mean you have to meet. I think when admin protect teachers’ time they will have a better outcome in the classroom.

3. Something everyone seems to love but is not your ‘cuppa tea’? 

Noisy restaurants. I feel so stressed out. Friday night we went to a pizza place with four friends. One of the friends is always the one who spearheads the dinners when we go out and always picks super noisy places and noisy times. Oftentimes it is a newer restaurant where everyone else is.

4. Fish and chips, bangers and mash, shepherd’s pie, roast beef with Yorkshire pudding…which entree would you choose? Yes, you have to choose. 

I have learned to make a really good shepherd’s pie (that is also pretty light and not too caloric) and Yorkshire pudding or popovers in my special popover pan. I would pick fish and chips because I can’t make it at home. It’s classic and yummy!

5. Something you want for your birthday this year? 

I really just want quality time with people who fill my cup. I love sitting around chatting and laughing.

I think sometimes you have to be really intentional and make your own plans, invite the people, etc. I had so much fun a couple of years ago when I planned a Cuban restaurant dinner followed by a private karaoke room. I think everyone else had fun, too!

I think I told everyone to wear black leather? This was the first time I put something together like this and this is me telling you to go for it!

6. Insert your own random thought here. 

I really think the best coffee is probably just your traditional classic pot of coffee from a Mr. Coffee machine or something similar. I have had my Nespresso Vertuo and it’s nice but the pods are very expensive and the coffee does not come out hot enough for me. It’s nice to have when you just want one cup but I think the traditional coffee pot makes the most sense and the best coffee for two or more cups. If you are a regular reader, you know how many words I have devoted to coffee!

What would you say about any of the hodgepodge topics today?

Amy

Tuesday, September 17, 2024

This tip actually comes from my sister Kate! Even though the first 6 weeks of school are exhausting, I have been doing a really good job with this personally.

My instinct is to go home on Friday and hibernate. Well, I do enjoy going to happy hour first. And, that may be enough for me on many Fridays. This is also a nice compromise for me wanting to be social and Tom being fine with going home after he gets off work.

I will either go to happy hour right after school and bring food home for dinner or we order something. We have also used Friday night as a good night to clean out leftovers. And, if I have a snack at happy hour I sometimes don’t even need anything or much of anything.

Another idea is to happy hour with the girls and then have the husbands meet up for dinner at the same place. I have done that, too.

But the point is to maximize your weekend!

My sister says that she feels that she makes more of the weekend if she does something on Friday night. I have to agree with her. I think it sets a tone for “my weekend is not just about productivity and recovering from the week”.

I also like to think of the weekend as 5 parts:

Friday afternoon/evening

Saturday morning until afternoon

Saturday afternoon/evening

Sunday morning until afternoon

Sunday afternoon/evening

If you plan one thing in each of the 5 parts you will feel like you made more of the weekend!

I’m always glad I do something on Sunday, too. It helps you not to just focus on the week ahead.

What do you think? Do you do this?

Amy