Tuesday, April 22, 2025
After a year of a new puppy, winter, and just a busier than I’d like schedule, I haven’t hosted much. This past week reminded me of how much it fills my cup to have low maintenance friends over and to do what I think of as a low maintenance spread.
I have a better entertaining space for warmer weather, but I need to be reminded that people really don’t care what your space consists of. And, when we look at the much smaller spaces of Europe, it seems silly to not invite people over more.
For the last year I have been going to coffee shops, restaurants, and bars more than I have been having people over. And, I only have a couple of friends who host in their homes. It’s funny to me that my friends who have the biggest homes host the least. So, that is something to put in your pipe and smoke and ruminate on, no?
There are seasons in your life where you do it more and less, of course. Friends who work from home want to get out.
I like to always have some cute cocktail napkins and small plates on hand. I really need to update my glassware. All I had for our recent guests that matched were jam jars but they really liked them and said they use them in Vermont, too!
I want the pretty hobnail style! I can be really weird and take a long time deciding on something small like this but I want the right size – not too short and not too tall and I am thinking about going with a very light mulitcolor set. See? I haven’t found that exactly right one yet. If you click on the red font, you will see it comes close, but it’s not quite right.
These were what I had for my guests last week. I found the cute napkins at Marshall’s on spring break.


Sometimes simple is best, you know?



Our drink was tinto de verano which is red wine with lemon lime soda and a lemon slice. I used a Rioja Tempranillo that was around $10.
Ordering a pizza and making a salad is great if you are crunched for time.

It’s always been easy to come to my house for after school happy hours since I live so close. One time I did something unexpected for Erica and Elizabeth and make tater tot nachos in the air fryer.
You could even Door Dash some bar food and it would still maybe be cheaper than going out.
You can have people over for coffee or tea and cookies or cake. Who wouldn’t love that?
As I have an idea, I type it in my phone memo.
There are so many things you can do – have some girlfriends over (or just one friend) and make and decorate a summer bucket list. I think Erica and Elizabeth would love to do that! You could get some nice paper and markers and stickers – why should only kids get to do that?
I think you know this topic is close to my heart. I love feeding people and I love connecting with people.
Here are some posts I have written:
Entertaining at Home – Why you should even if your space isn’t perfect
Hodgepodge of Borrowing from Other Cultures
Mexican Homemade To Go – I need to do this again!
Sound off in the comments! What are your best hosting tips for any type of hosting?
Amy































































































