1. On July 29th 1957 The Tonite Show premiered with Jack Parr as its host. This marked the beginning of the modern day talk show. Do you watch any daytime or late night talk shows today? Do you have any thoughts on the hubbub surrounding the cancellation of The Late Show with Stephen Colbert, or are you more in the camp of ‘who is Stephen Colbert?
I don’t watch any talk shows. I know who Stephen is but I haven’t followed the news surrounding the cancellation. I actually feel a bit released of knowing pop culture things since I have retired. As a high school teacher I always felt that I had to know what was going on in case it came up in class. It was part of my “professional development”. Most of the late night shows were always too late for me! Honestly, I think many of them are annoying. I don’t want to hear their voice or their fighting – The View. No thank you!
2. What’s the best part of your day?
I love the mornings. That first cup of coffee, seeing my puppy in the morning is a sweet thing, and if I can start my day outside that is super nice to me.
I also love my evening shower and being all clean and able to sit down at the end of the day.
3. What’s something your generation does that you actually dislike?
I’m not interested in long text conversations. I still like to talk on the phone. I also don’t like putting every single thing on social media. I only put things that make me smile or that I think will make someone else smile. I sometimes put things on Facebook for the memory pop up, but I am not a person who puts every thing out there. But, I do have a blog! Ha! I am such a hypocrite!
4. When you cook do you clean as you go, or clean it all up once you’re finished cooking? What’s the last thing you cooked/baked in your own kitchen?
A little of both. I like to start cooking with an empty/dirty dishwasher so I can load as I go but puppy loves the dishwasher so I have to be careful.
I cook something pretty much every day. I made sheet pan bacon for BLTS and sheet pan broccoli and then I also made half baked potatoes face down on butter and grated parmesan. They are so good this way!
5. Sum up your July in ten words or less.
Relaxed. I had a few pool days, a couple of boat days, a few happy hours, and our little trip to Michigan. I got a new to me car and we celebrated our anniversary.
When I look back on my camera roll, I had a lot of fun days. I also had lots of time at home, too.
6. Insert your own random thought here.
I am so excited! Our weather forecast is looking so good!
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I am sure there will be changes to this before it’s all said and done but low of 60 and high of 80?
These are opinions based on 31 years of teaching high school and getting my own kids through all the grades and college. I’m not going to be all nicey nice and mince words here.
-Please print out and hang the school calendar. It really hurts your kids when they have to miss school. I know it limits you for vacations and appointments but trust me when I say that kids complained to me about it all the time. It is extremely hard to get caught up.
-Go to the open house or the orientation or the curriculum night or whatever the heck they call it. It’s important. You have so little ability to see what your kids do during the majority of their time away from you and who they spend their time with.
-Watch the negative talk in front of your kids. Remember they want to vent to you sometimes (you are their safe space) and your job is sometimes just to listen. Many kids work out their own problems through speaking them out loud. It’s easy to go all “mama bear” on a situation, but trust when I say there is more than likely another side to the story. Don’t say school policies are stupid. You know who repeats that at school – your kid!
-Assume that your child’s teachers, counselors, administration have the best intentions. Be kind. Don’t be rude. You catch more flies with honey as they say. And, please don’t get mad at them for a deadline that you missed or something you didn’t read. If you have multiple kids at multiple schools this is really hard. Please ask your partner if you have one to take on one kid or two kids or whatever. They would get the emails and are the point person.
-You won’t like every policy or decision, but try to think of positive things to say instead like “that is so cool you get to take pathway classes to see if you want to go into the medical fields. I didn’t have that opportunity”. Remember just how many diverse learners are in a school and some policies were probably made for a good reason. That doesn’t mean it’s not ok to advocate for your kid. Let your kid advocate for themselves when they can. It’s ok to ask if a kid can take a class as a junior instead of as a senior but there might be a reason why it won’t work.
-Just buy the supplies that the school asks for. If you can afford it, then there is no reason to be a rebel or to complain. It just hurts your kid.
-Think about starting a tradition. Maybe Grandma or Aunt or Uncle or… you get my drift – would love to buy the fresh sneakers, the backpack, the first day ‘fit. Do make back to school an important milestone. The kids may act like it’s stupid, but they will probably like it. You can set a budget and you don’t have to spend a ton of money. It even helped me get excited as a teacher to have a new dress or something new to wear.
-Whatever the school policy is on social media/cell phones, yours should be as strict or even more strict. I do not think it’s out of line to ask your kid to show you before they post something and ask “what is your intention?” in posting this. You are the parent. Society is not your child’s parent. I told my kids I better never hear that they were on their phones in class or they would lose it. We were able to hold off on phones until sophomore year so they had a little more maturity by that point.
-Let your kids do as many things for themselves as they can. They should be labeling their own notebooks, etc. I had a high school junior in class with mommy’s handwriting all over his folders. They should be packing their own backpack as soon as they can. They can do so much more than we think in this generation of extreme hands on parenting. And, aren’t you busy? They can go to the office, ask questions, keep their own calendar, and so much more.
-Start working on a better bedtime about a week before school starts. If your kid is a new driver, have them practice leaving the house at the time they think they would leave and clock it. Now, you need to add some time for school traffic. Have them think about if they will shower at night or in the morning and how long it will take. Think about timing it. They should do as much at night as possible to make the mornings run smoothly. As my kids got older I started saying things like, “what do you need help with?” or “let me know what you need help with”.
-Sleep is the most important thing to the success of your kid! They must get adequate rest. I also think nutrition plays a huge role in how they feel, too. Most kids are using refillable water bottles and are the most hydrated generation to walk the Earth. I like the leak proof that fit in the side pocket of the backpack. Check school policies regarding this, of course. In addition to breakfast before they leave or in the car (sometimes you gotta do what you gotta do), I like the idea of a high schooler taking a protein or granola bar in their backpack to have mid-morning. Again, check the school rules or ask your kid to check the rules. At my school, kids didn’t use lockers and were allowed to walk around with giant backpacks the whole day long.
-I hate the headphones around the neck trend or when kids have Airpods in at school. I think schools should be strict against this. I would have kids wear their big ol’ headphones and I would greet them at the door and they would remove one ear and say “what?” I pleasantly responded that they only get one “hola” from me. I will not repeat my “hola” because you were listening to something besides me! Come on! Do you really need to listen to four minutes of music in your in-between passing time? This is time to greet your teacher, talk to a classmate, and prepare to learn in your next class.
-I also think having expensive headphones or other audio equipment out at school is a recipe for dropping them, losing them, or sadly sometimes getting them stolen because you have advertised the expensive equipment you own. We seriously have parents drop off the headphones at the front office because their kid forgot them. Uh, no.
-My school didn’t have a policy against pajamas and blankets. You wear pajamas to school and bring a blanket you bring pj/blanket energy to your education. No. Just no. Even if your school does not have a uniform, you as a parent can designate what is a school outfit -what are school clothes. You save your crochet halter top for the weekends, umkay?
-Do not believe the stuff you hear like “her mom is letting her”, “NO ONE is in class today – can I sign out?”, etc. It’s rarely true. And, you can always use that extra time to do homework, go to the library, read a book, get help from the teacher, etc. Attendance is made to feel like a choice these days and it is absolutely not. You should be in school unless you are sick or have an emergency. I will allow a college visit, too, but do look at that calendar.
-Check your kids’ grades on the portal. Figure out how to use it. Also check their attendance on the portal. Just because you saw Johnny leave for school does not mean he went to school. Just because you dropped off Jane doesn’t mean she actually went in the school building. I’ve had some uncomfortable phone calls.
As you can tell, I am quite opinionated when it comes to this topic. Parenting is the hardest job you will ever have. I get it. But, putting in the work at the beginning of the school year really does pay off.
I also don’t believe in being your kids’ friend. You are the parent. They hopefully have enough friends. They only have one or two parents. Kids want to be parented. They want boundaries. You will have to develop a thick skin during the high school years. I remember thinking I needed self-esteem workshops for myself because sometimes I was the worst, so mean, so strict, so this and so that. But, you will come out on the other side.
What have I forgotten? What questions do you have for me? Feel free to email me at amywscott0@gmail.com if it is something personal. I am happy to try to help!
It’s seriously so hard to believe that the month of July is over! My teacher friends in Kentucky and Indiana are literally done with their summer. I alternate between being giddy that I am not and being nostalgic that I am not. And, I am having major sympathy pains for my them.
I am happy to link up with Holly and Sarah to share my weekend!
I started it off on Friday at 11 am at the Myriad pool with my friend Beth. She had not been in a pool yet this summer. It is a hotel with a swim club (pool), pool bar, and restaurant. It also has a coffee shop next door. You can buy a day pass and it’s a really nice vibe. They have excellent drinks and food. Unfortunately, the aperol spritz slushie machine wasn’t working. We got there right as it opened and had our pick of the seats:
We split a really good grilled chicken caesar wrap:
We stayed from 11 until almost 4! Beth told me it was so relaxing and just what she needed. She has had a lot going on and in addition to that, her daughter is getting married in two weeks.
One thing I will mention is that we ran into a male teacher from my school that used to teach with Beth at her school, so we both knew him. It was nice to talk to him but he stayed with us the entire day and I felt that I lost some time talking to Beth about things that I would only talk to Beth about. It was so hot that we just stood in the pool/sat in the pool and talked all day.
Since I had been in the sun all day I was not cooking dinner. This looks bad but we got Mexican takeout – I got a burrito bowl and Tom got birria tacos and elote and Mason was home and got a burrito. We split the queso.
We just had a really chill Friday night which is what Tom likes. He is watching the Tour de France when he can so he enjoyed that. Tom’s office didn’t have AC this week so I could tell he was more worn out than usual. He could’ve worked from home per the company but he has a bunch of monitors and a standing desk at work (and not at home) and he just really can’t work with Eddie Otis anyway!
I slept in until 7 on Saturday! I cleaned while Tom had EO out of the house and I actually didn’t mind it and was happy with my progress.
Then, I had to take myself to the grocery store – no pick up this time because I hadn’t planned ahead- and it was actually fine. I only did the Kroger delivery for one month this summer. I just didn’t want to pay another subscription/membership. I think it’s great for busy families. Work smarter, not harder. I am auditing all of our streaming services and memberships right now. We don’t have many, but I still want to consider what we need.
The pumpkin spice is out! Oh my gosh – I need to tell you that I got a new frother and it is amazing! It even does a cold foam. You can simply put your milk, creamer, half and half – whatever – and it works its magic. Here it is if you are trying to cut the coffee shop habit. I am still keeping my handheld one, but this is really good. And, no, I did not buy the pumpkin spice yet. Yet.
80 lb. lap dog. I can’t help but snap a photo because it’s just so cute.
I forgot to go to the library while I was out for the grocery so I made myself leave the house again in the afternoon. All of my summer requests are coming in! Woohoo! It happens about this time every year and then I have to go back to school and have less reading time. I am hoping to turn off the gosh darn tv and read more. I have really been watching too much tv.
I love to check out cookbooks. I own many but I really don’t need more. This one is great and I like the way she organized it, but I just wouldn’t make more than maybe 10 of the recipes.
It was so, so, so hot on Saturday. We had a heat advisory and it was so humid. I asked Tom if he minded just eating leftovers for dinner because our fridge was so full and we had so many things that needed to be eaten. He was totally fine with that and we watched Happy Gilmore 2. I fell asleep about halfway through but I actually think it was pretty well done. There were so many famous golfers in it. And, this is mind blowing – Happy Gilmore is 30 years old!
Tom bought this fan for his office last week and we will also use it on the boat. He set it up for me on the porch and I was able to read yesterday morning for a bit.
I finished this! It got good in the last 75 pages! Lol.
This will be my second favorite of the Emily Henry books, I think. It moves slowly – too slowly. I did like the premise of the book, though. I just wish it moved a little faster.
My favorite is Beach Read and the others I can’t even remember because they were just ok to me.
I know that might be controversial because she is a widely popular author. I also don’t love her titles. They don’t really fit the books.
And, now I am on to this:
I tried to make Tom cinnamon rolls yesterday but I walked out of the room and Eddie Otis ate the entire icing packet. The plastic and all. Who wants the cinnamon roll without the icing? I could have made homemade but I didn’t care enough to go to the trouble of getting out butter, milk, vanilla, and powdered sugar.
After our walk the other day I took off my sneakers and short socks and set them right next to me and before I knew it, someone was slinking up to me and stole a sock and then ate it in 5 seconds flat. Tom asked me if I wanted it back 24 hours later when he “found” it. This dog. I have no words.
Tom and I had an errand hang and went to Costco and then to look for new tennis shoes for him and to do some returns for me.
I returned the Philosophy Amazing Grace to Ulta. I decided I didn’t like it. It’s not me.
I also returned the Chico’s black and white tanks. They are a hot material and not loose and skimming like I was wanting.
I mentioned I started Hunting Wives on Netflix. It is quite adult. I don’t like the characters and I am not going to finish it. Anyone else try it? I also didn’t like the Sex and the City And Just Like That or White Lotus – any of the seasons. So, tv taste is quite personal.
I do love The Gilded Age, Gilmore Girls (watching again on occasion), Love on the Spectrum (wish there were more I haven’t seen), and many Bravo shows. Also, I am watching Sullivan’s Crossing on Netflix and it’s pretty good.
Cousin Neal sent us videos he made that included his drone footage. Here is the one hour long float that we did from his smaller lake to Lake Michigan:
My sister Molly and I floating:
Sorry for the bad photos I stole from the videos!
How was your weekend? Are you over the heat? Are you still summering it up?
Happy Friday! It’s time to link up with Andrea and Erika to share some faves.
How was your week? We finally got a break from the rain and it’s been hot and sunny. I didn’t have much on the calendar this week, which can be both a good and a bad thing. You have to plan for fun!
I’m sorry if you don’t have a Trader Joe’s near you, but can we talk about how cute their greeting cards are? They are $1 and here is an example of a blank card:
I am trying to send more mail! The other night I had a stack of cards and my address book and I told Tom I was working on “my correspondence” like a Victorian lady. Aunt Agnes had an employee to help her with her correspondence in Gilded Age. Lol. It was great until Eddie Otis licked my correspondence and smudged it. He just wants to help me with everything! He wants to help with the laundry, dishes, putting on my socks, getting the mail, moving the rugs (yes, I’m serious), bringing in groceries – you name it.
Anywho, I was writing cards to family members from the Michigan weekend.
If you get a chance, stock up on cute cards for just $1 each at TJ’s. Have you seen how much greeting cards cost at the grocery or the drug store? I still like Dollar Tree for cards, too.
I went to Ulta and needed new hairspray and yes, the art on the bottle swayed me. But, I do love it!
I also found a new body wash at Kroger. It is sea spray/salt air scent and I like to be seasonal with my products. It’s fun to change them for each season. It’s also small enough to fit on my shelf in the shower.
I still can’t believe I did this. I wanted to try the Dubai chocolate in its pure form. I have had a Dubai chocolate croissant before, but not the real deal. This bar was $15 and I bought it! I saved enough money on greeting cards that I can buy $15 chocolate! I do realize I can be such a walking contradiction!
It’s Dubai chocolate but it’s made in Germany. That moment when your nails match your chocolate…
I think it’s delicious! I heard that Trader Joe’s has one for $3.80 but I haven’t seen it there myself.
I had a library haul on Monday…
I’m trying to cook more beans. I am spending more time alone, you know.
And, my library has a recycled magazine box and I scored a couple! Have you seen the price of magazines?
The best meal I cooked this week was a salmon bowl:
I saw this on Instagram and thought it was good for keeping a vacation mindset:
I bought 3 birthday gifts (I was proud of myself for getting all of these gifts early) at my new favorite boutique called Scout:
I’m reading this:
I started The Hunting Wives Club but I’m just barely in so I don’t know what I think yet.
And, I finally got a really mild morning to read outside:
I’ve been making my iced protein coffee. This week it has been instant coffee mixed with half a carton of Premier cookie dough.
I’m still loving my bright yellow nails and this is a better photo of the actual color:
I’m not a big drinker of soda, but I wanted to try this and it’s really good in my opinion. It would make a nice cocktail, too!
I made strawberry freezer jam this week. I wasn’t sure if it was going to be on my summer list or not, but then I got the urge to make it.
I had a happy hour with Mason! He declared it the best conversation we have ever had. Ok! I couldn’t believe he said that!
He got to try the goat cheese with strawberry jam on baguette and guess who might try to recreate that at home with her jam?
I have been so appreciative of having a new to me car! It has been so nice to have working AC and a working back hatch. I know it’s just a car but it has been a joy to drive. I really like the color, too. I have most recently had a black car for 10 years and before that I had a white car for 10 years so this is different for me.
Cam from Southern Charm said these were really good and when I saw them at the check out at TJ Maxx I had to try them. Tom and I both loved them!
These stainless steel wipes are great! I added them to my Kroger order. They are also on Amazon.
You all know I hate mosquitoes, but I forgot about flies and other flying things coming in the house in the summer! Not even the insects want to be out in the heat!
But, we are having an issue with gnats, fruit flies, or drain flies. This is not working on them. I have made sure there is no fresh food out, made sure my garbage disposal is run and there is no organic matter in my drain, and they are better, but still here. I also set out apple cider vinegar to try to catch them. Help! Anyone have a good solution other than winter?
I also am becoming a grumpy Karen about yard work. There is no time that a mower, weed eater, or other loud tool is not being used right now in my hood. It’s 2025 and we have accomplished great things. Why have we not created silent yard tools?
What have you been wearing lately? Are you over your summer clothes?
I am linking up with Kellyann and Jill to share my ‘fits, some shopping I’ve done, and what I’m wanting to wear these days.
I resisted the Nordstrom Anniversary sale! Go me!
Normally, I would be thinking about footwear for going back to school. Footwear was always a big concern. The cement floors and being on your feet all day as a teacher are no joke. It feels weird to not really need as much now!
I did something I feel is very smart. I ordered black and white tanks from Chico’s to wear under things. I never have the right tank to wear under an open button up shirt or a kimono. I want something that skims the old tum and that is not too low cut in the chestal region. So, these tanks were on sale and I am hoping for the best. I will let you know if they are the tanks that will change my life. Do you have any pieces you can’t wear because you don’t have the right stuff to wear them with? I say let them go or do the work to try to be able to wear them!
I have a goal to buy and wear more navy! Weird, right?
Step one of said goal:
The material could be tragic but I am trying this in two sizes. Since Old Navy makes returns very easy, this was an easy decision.
I put on some jeans this week! I think my medium wash Halaras are a bit more lightweight than my lighter wash ones – go figure! I am thinking about ordering a different style of Halaras because they were such a good purchase for me. I have the same style in medium wash, light wash, and light black. They are wide leg short.
Saturday night we went to hear a jazz group at a distillery and I wore this old Old Navy blouse (it’s pretty thick unfortunately for the humid weather). A girl on the sidewalk complimented it! I live in the part of the country where we smile, say hi, and even start conversations with total strangers and I wouldn’t have it any other way!
Earlier in the day I had worn my consignment Target short sleeved button up with the same jeans and I am wearing my Kork-Ease sandals with both outfits, too. I am reaching for these sandals all the time so that turned out to be a good purchase (gift from my mom from a return she had – aww) and this short sleeve consignment button up is another thing I have reached for so much; it’s super lightweight. I think it might look good with my long white skirt.
One day for errands I put on my Old Navy tennis skirt with my gauzy white top.
And, for an errand and a happy hour, I put this on:
If I am at home, I am wearing my Wild Fable sweatshirt shorts and a graphic tee, but if I go out I am wearing my Halaras. I’m not feeling the dresses too much right now. It looks like some colors of the shorts are now on sale for $8.40. They aren’t too thick or too hot if you are looking for something like this.
I will let you know how the Chico’s tanks work out and how the Old Navy navy blouse works out. When my twins were little they thought the name of the color was “old navy blue”.
1. When does time pass slowly for you? When does time past quickly for you?
Time passes slowly for me in the middle of the day usually. It passes quickly in the morning when I am trying to do all the piddling and little house tasks. I’m still trying to come up with a good schedule. I like to do a few chores each morning and if I have errands I usually don’t go out until after 10. The traffic has died down by then and the stores are open.
Time passes slowly in January and quickly in June! I am trying to enjoy January more. Let’s see if being retired will help or not. I think I am going to have to make an effort to get out and be social.
I love this photo of my twins! I loved dressing them. They both had white polos but two different plaids. I did outfits like that quite a bit while they still didn’t care.
2. Do you have a favorite beach? What’s your favorite ‘beach’ activity? Tell us what we’d find in your beach bag.
I love being near any body of water. I am going to walk in sand anytime I get the chance and in any season or type of weather. We went to the beach in Scotland in December of 2023 and walked along the water and we went to the beach in Barcelona and took off our shoes and socks to walk in the water last fall. I like walking in the packed sand by the water. I am not big on laying out anymore but I would love a lounge chair in the shade to read my book or I love getting in the water and playing in the waves if there aren’t jellyfish or sharks.
Scotland:
Spain:
Spain:
3. Your favorite book or movie with a beach setting?
Gosh, any movie with a house with a pool that is also on the beach.
4. What’s a food you love, but find it’s a pain to eat? Is it worth it?
Corn on the cob! Why does it taste better on the cob? Since we are talking about beaches, I hate getting sand in my food.
5. Do you like roller coasters? What’s the best (or worst) roller coaster you’ve been on?
I love a mild roller coaster. I don’t want to go upside down. Most kiddie roller coasters are just my speed. I love a water ride. I can spin with no problem or I could. Who knows now. I love the water ride that is a circular raft and you go through rapids.
My worst ride I went on was at King’s Island. It was a standing up roller coaster and I was terrified. My Jordache purse strap broke right as I was getting locked in. I think I was also worried about my purse. My friends peer pressured me to ride it. That was in 7th grade.
But, then I went back to King’s Island after college with two guy friends and a few girls. We had so much fun. Blonde Heather always made me feel better about scary rides and I enjoyed them with her. She was a dare devil. I say “blonde Heather” and “brunette Heather” here on the blog but IRL I call them “Heath” and “Hig”. Blonde Heather was my roommate all through college and four years after and Brunette Heather was a girl we met like day one of college and it turned out she was from a place very close to where I was from – right across the river.
6. Insert your own random thought here.
It was a long time ago, but the Harry Potter World at Universal was so clever. We surprised our kids when they were really into Harry Potter and it ended up being one of our best trips ever. We drove to Orlando, stayed in a nice hotel with pool, and the next morning we woke up and they had tickets to Universal HP in their Easter baskets. It was Easter and spring break, by the way. We did the park and the next day we drove through the Everglades and did a swamp boat ride, then we went to the Florida Keys and stopped at each and every one of the keys practically, then we took a boat from Key West to the Dry Tortugas, then we drove home along the west coast of Florida and stopped at Siesta Key. It was an epic trip. We all loved it.
I thought today would be a fun chit chat where I talk about random things that aren’t enough for a post in and of themselves.
First, I generated this image with AI. Is that why it has two handles? Oh man!
Blogging:
I am having fun blogging this summer and keeping to my normal schedule. I hate that many blogs loose steam in the summer because that is when I always had more time. Sometimes I feel like a broken record and that I need to infuse some new-ness into my blog.
I am struggling to respond to comments but it’s very important to me that I do respond if someone has taken the time to leave one. I only want to be on my computer for an hour in the morning and then the comments trickle in all day and oops – when do I respond? What do you do if you are a blogger? I had the idea to get back on the computer while I am waiting on dinner to cook? I don’t know. I don’t love to respond from the app on my phone because typing there takes longer, so I really would love to respond on my laptop at some point in the day.
My mom’s house/estate:
My mom’s house has been on the market since the end of June. We haven’t had any offers yet. Do I worry? Molly and I really want to get it sold but Kate is chill about it and is in no hurry. We haven’t had to do any work to speak of this summer in regards to it so that is really nice for Kate and Molly who start school back before we know it and who wanted to enjoy their summer. We have all had nice time to process my mom’s sudden death at the end of January. We talk openly about what it looked like for us to have all the stuff to handle in the second semester of school.
Cleaning/Dog hair:
We have had three chocolate labs and this one sheds way more than the other two did. I have decided that the dry Swiffer is as good as anything for getting up the hair. I also just use a good old fashioned broom and dustpan. Then, I can run the Dyson stick over the surfaces.
One problem – this is really the only thing I can’t do with press on nails – I can’t push the Swiffer cloth into the four holes so I devised a chopstick method and use the chopstick to press it into the holes. I also use a chopstick to clean out the Dyson stick canister.
Chopsticks – they’re not just for your Chinese food.
Also, how many times did I just say the word chopstick?
Tom/Amy Shower Shelf Battle:
In the three shelf shower wars, I came up with a new plan. I have dedicated the middle shelf to shaving – for both of us.
I also got smaller shampoo and conditioner bottles for me and I really like this brand which is a bonus.
I felt that this was very giving of me.
Cleaning/Decluttering:
When I have the urge to shop, I like to declutter. This book is really good but I am just skimming it.
She says when there is a statistic she has probably made it up!
Here is an example of what happened last week. I get really excited when someone recommends something whether I needed it or not.
Kat James talked about these Pixi products – ph reactive lip and cheek. It looked so pretty on her. Now, these prices won’t break the bank, but I went and cleaned out my makeup and saw some things I forgot I had and was pretty happy.
A blogger recommended this doohickey and I added to cart. I cleaned out my closet and realized I had a lot of pants/skirt hangers and that I also had shelving to fold my shorts. I wanted a better frother but then I changed my batteries in my current frother and got the desired frothiness.
It’s all too easy to add to cart, right? And, I still might get some of these things but a 72 hour holding period is a good idea!
For Michigan, sisters and I created a thank you gift for Neal and his wife. We brought products from our three states – mostly food things. I brought bourbon mustard and Ale 8 bbq sauce. I had it on my list to go buy a bag for the gift but I found one in my cabinet that would work just fine. I also was going to go buy a new cooler just for Michigan but we used one we had. So, when we use things we have we save money and we reduce an errand for ourselves.
We have covered some topics today!
What would you say over a steaming hot cup of coffee with two handles?
How was your weekend? I am linking up with Sarah and Holly to share mine!
After letting my nails breathe for a few days (6?), I put on this fun florescent yellow.
It looks dull yellow in this photo, but it’s really bright in different lighting!
Mason and I hadn’t done a coffee shop in a long time so I suggested we start out Friday doing that. He was free and I was free so it worked out.
After that we went to Barnes and Noble book store and then we went home. I was so hot and ready to be in the AC. I gave Eddie Otis a frozen carrot because I figured he was hot, too. He wants you to participate just like he wants you to participate in bone chewing. He is a sharing boy.
Has everyone been enjoying the Coldplay concert news?
I hate that there are victims involved. It’s easy to laugh at all the memes, but there are people who didn’t ask to have their lives put on display. The one about Coldplay just came out with four new singles -uh, yeah.
Friday night we stayed home for dinner and ate leftovers. I have got to get my fridge to a more functional state. It has been packed and hard to manage.
Saturday Tom went out of town for the day so I was with Eddie Otis most of the day except for a trip to drop off donations and to browse this cute little boutique and
Mason takes a piano lesson on Saturdays after playing basketball with his college roommate at a park (such a cute Saturday routine) and then we met for a little lunch after the lesson in this strip mall where both the music store and the boutique are located. That sounded really confusing. Anyway, we ate at this little place.
Please note the sky:
I went home and napped with little EO snoring on the floor beside me until it started storming something fierce. It was the loudest thunder I had heard in a long time. EO wasn’t nervous at all. Whew!
Tom returned home and EO couldn’t get close enough to him!
We ate at home again and then went to a free jazz show at a distillery where one of the musicians was a college professor of Jack’s.
We only stayed out about an hour but it was good to get out.
Sunday morning I had to go to Trader Joe’s because I have decided I can’t live without my brown sugar oat creamer. I also made people at the cabin in Michigan fall in love with it – especially a teenager named Ellie! She is my cousin’s daughter.
It was muy, muy hot out but we had plans to go out on the boat with our friends. If we kept moving it felt fine. We stopped to eat and I sweated something fierce.
It’s Friday and it’s time to link up with Andrea and Erika for Friday Favorites!
How was your week?
I’m still in this weird state where I would normally be getting a pit in my stomach about summer going by too quickly and not feeling like I “did enough”. I have so many teachers in my life that are feeling that way right now and now I’m not. Does that make sense? It’s still surreal that I don’t have to watch fourteen training videos on things like blood borne pathogens. Do you know how many times I touched blood in 31 years? Zero.
Instagram liked my Tom story…
Doesn’t he look sad on this sailboat for one in Michigan? My brother in law Jason made a video of this, too! Do you get the What About Bob? reference?
IG has a cool new font called Rosalia which is what I used there. You can follow me at amscott2 if you so desire.
I’m still riding a high from last weekend and how special it was to be in Michigan. I honestly want another trip to Michigan before the end of summer. The weather is just divine. Ahhhhhhh.
We came home to a happy dog and a house that was pretty darn clean. Mason even picked up this coffee at Kroger that he thought I would enjoy and I do! It’s really good!
I seriously burned my face in Michigan on a cloudy day! I should know better. It was really cloudy on Friday and it drizzled for most of the morning. My forehead and cheeks got burned.
Crazy Eyes was so happy to have us back!
My aunt Sally said she takes leftover coffee, adds milk, and puts it in the freezer in the summer. I did that, too, upon arriving home, and it was so good as an afternoon treat.
I was excited to come home to several library books that had come in for me. Here is my library haul. Hey – let’s make library hauls a thing instead of Amazon hauls!
I started the new Emily Henry book and yes, I abandoned the book I was reading before. I feel no shame or guilt!
My sister Molly brought me a retirement gift of this set of four appetizer plates. Aren’t they so cute and so me? Now I just need to host a happy hour!
And, she gave me this Joanna Gaines candle that smells amazing. I haven’t gotten a new candle in a long time.
After having a white Funny Bunny pedi for quite awhile I was ready for a color. I chose an orangey red.
Ok, I was reading one of those “favorite Trader Joe’s products” articles online and one person said this cheese. New favorite!
I started following a beauty influencer on IG named Kat James. Well, she also does lentil recipes! Lol. I couldn’t find the pack of already cooked lentils at TJ’s but I bought a can and now I have a new obsession. I had some naan bread with hummus on the side. No worries if you don’t have a TJ’s – just buy a can of lentils. It’s a can of lentils, a can of diced tomatoes, red onion cooked in some olive oil, a tablespoon each of yellow mustard, soy sauce, and brown sugar. Then, add a bit of salt and pepper. It’s super weird and I would love to know who came up with it, but it’s delish! I will cut down on the brown sugar next time because it really doesn’t need to be as sweet as it is.
My favorite family meal I made this week was both chicken and salmon with teriyaki sauce. My piece of salmon from my Kroger pickup was pitifully small so I did chicken, too. I bought one of those stir fry veg bags (fresh) and added more chopped broccoli and cooked them in a skillet. The fam had rice and I had cauli rice.
This sauce is really good!
I had a spontaneous happy hour at a local favorite with one of my Heathers. This place has a 3-6 happy hour every day. I got a raspberry lemon drop and Heath got a Hugo Spritz. Her spritz had dry ice in the bottom and we were googling if it’s safe to drink dry ice.
They have this appetizer that is a baguette (still warm) with a bowl of goat cheese and a bowl of strawberry jam. You spread the goat cheese and then the jam and it’s basically one of the best things ever.
Even though our anniversary fell on a Tuesday we had to go out. Tom met me straight from work at a new to us restaurant called Ata which means “eat” in Swedish I think but probably has some dots over the vowels.
I got a shrub mocktail and it was so tart I couldn’t drink it. My friend just made the best strawberry basil shrub. Do you know what shrubs are? Tom is on an Arnold Palmer kick. He doesn’t drink any alcohol.
We both ordered their special – fried chicken, ribs, mashed potatoes, succotash and a watermelon salad. All that was $25!
And, we split a strawberry shortcake that was the star of the meal.
We took so much food home and Mason ate it!
I had a pool day! It was touch and go with rain and storms in the forecast for each and every day. Someone said we live in Florida now. Ha!
This is Erica’s country club pool and it’s really nice.
I got a salad with grilled chicken…
and we split some tots.
Erica went out to her car and brought me the neatest retirement gift. She was waiting til I had a party and I haven’t had a party so she wanted me to enjoy it now.
Each of the letters of RETIRE had a gift associated with it. R – Relax, E – Eat, T – Travel, I – Indulge, R – Read, and E – Enjoy.
It was such a nice and creative gift!
I took this fan to Michigan and it was a lifesaver. It’s super lightweight. Our room was really stuffy and I went to sleep cuddling with this fan.
I tried a Strawberry strato matcha from Starbucks and not only is it pink and green and so pretty but it was also good!
I hope I don’t get kicked out of Fashion Files for this not very fashionable entry! I am linking up with Kellyann and Jill, nevertheless.
I returned from my Michigan weekend Sunday late in the day and then Monday was an errand/get my life in order day.
I put on this top and old Target olive shorts and the material of the top made me sweaty.
My sister Molly gave me these Birkenstocks she ordered because she didn’t like her big toe in them – lol.
Tuesday night I put this on for a happy hour with my friend followed by my anniversary dinner. It was easy to throw on. It felt good to style my hair! I am still learning how to do my shorter hair.
In Michigan, I only had two pairs of shoes – my New Balance sneakers and my Hari Mari flip flops. I brought my pink and white checkered shorts and my red and white checkered shorts and wore them with a graphic tee from Old Navy.
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Another graphic tee from Old Navy that I wore with my Target Wild Fable shorts. These shorts have been worn by me every day this summer – for walking, lounging or for sleeping. So, I brought three pairs to Michigan. I have yellow, light blue, heather gray, black, and mauve. I am really considering getting some more because I love them so much. They are the perfect length for me and they have pockets. I am seriously impressed with the quality.
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The teen girls got dressed for sunset pictures in their cute tops and jeans or mini skirts. I restrained myself and only brought one sweatshirt even though I had more I wanted to bring. I brought this Aerie one in navy (I thought a darker color would be best for wearing it multiple times).
I do like to get dressed when I leave the house. I wear my lounging clothes, exercise/dog walking clothes, and then I go get a little more presentable for going out.
What have you been wearing?
I am really trying not to shop any more summer things! What helps me to not shop is to clean out my closet. I like to do it pretty frequently.
Coffee and Cocktails at the Casa 